Why lie to me?

Hi, I'm old orange. I posted at this time because I had just experienced something that I didn't accept very well. From 2020 onwards, I will have to undergo psychological counseling for my condition and take medication as directed by my doctor. Because of the hurt of an "unprofessional" psychology teacher before me, I developed a certain resistance to psychological counseling, and I could not summon up the courage to face the next "professional" stranger. My parents were so upset about it that they didn't know what to do. However, my mother chose to rush to the hospital and pushed my WeChat to a teacher who claimed to be a "psychological service volunteer" without my consent. Before that, I already knew that my mom was in touch with this person, and I didn't say much about it. But when I saw the familiar name and avatar appear in the list of friends who applied for the application, I instantly felt numbness in my heart and instantly understood everything. In order not to affect my mother, I did not expose her, but after a week or two of careful trial, I got the reply: "No, I don't know, I don't know." "I haven't asked questions since. Time came this morning, at breakfast I suddenly had a very strong idea in my head, so I asked my mother the same question as a year ago, I thought that this time she would tell me truthfully, I just wanted to know what her relationship with that "Juan" was, but what I didn't expect was that I got the exact same answer as a year ago, I was confused, I was angry, I admitted that afterwards I was dissatisfied with the emotions at that time, but I believe that no one can accept that their privacy is leaked by the most "intimate" person. I went to my dad again, and my dad stopped me behind his phone with one arm and said in a very angry tone: "You don't touch my phone, my phone has privacy", which is obviously in the connotation of me, I did not say anything, before he left the door, he also said to me in a very poor tone: "Who can't give you WeChat to others?" who? When my father went out, I told my mother that I had seen it with my own eyes, and she told me the truth one by one, not forgetting to intersperse words such as "I am not easy", "I am also helpless", and finally dumped me with a sentence of "That's it, you have wronged me." Up to now, I am also very aggrieved, and my mother said: "It is better to talk about this matter, so that the knots in my heart will be gone." "But I want to say that this matter will always be a knot in my heart, and she will stop me when I choose to trust you and make me think about it."

Here, I hope that when you encounter a similar situation, you will calmly analyze and say that it is okay to break it, after all, it is the other party that is not reasonable. If you can't figure it out, you can also come to me, I will help you analyze and analyze, before you have a clear truth, you can't be impulsive, otherwise you have an accident, he laughed, how wronged!