Writer Hayao Miyazaki said: "Two people really love each other, people who have a heart to be together, how big the contradiction between two people is, even if they quarrel fiercely, they will not give up on each other." ”
All day long look up and don't look down, small noises are inevitable. Neither of the two people will accept defeat and will surely start a "world war".
It is better to be noisy than to have nothing to say, and a reasonable solution will not destroy feelings.
If a contradiction arises, the woman must take just the right measures.
There is no need to tit-for-tat everything, after all, the two people still have to continue to get along.
Don't sway each other's thoughts with your own will, you need to leave the other person with the appropriate space.
Quarrels must be mastered, and blind excesses are not advisable.
Once the other party's bottom line is violated, it will only exacerbate the man's disgust and disgust.
Only by grasping the measure will we not create contradictions.
If you want men to take the initiative to coax you, women must understand the principle of retreating into progress.
Quarrels are not about proving themselves, it is crucial to resolve conflicts reasonably.
Smart women understand: use these three techniques to argue with men, he will take the initiative to coax you.
Observing the color is to enhance feelings by knocking on the side
Zeng Shiqiang, a master of traditional Chinese studies, said: "Observing words and observing colors is very important for communication, and people with clear ears and eyes know how to observe words and colors." When you talk to people, you must look at the other person's expression, if the other person's face is not right, you must quickly adjust. ”
A successful woman knows how to act opportunistically.
Depending on the different expression changes of men, women will take different countermeasures.
If the man is in a good mood, the woman can pretend to be angry.
A man will unconditionally tolerate women's unreasonable teasing, and he will also find ways to make women happy.
If the man is busy to exhaustion, the woman must not take the initiative to hit the muzzle of the gun.
You throw yourself around when he's tired, and he'll only resent your misdeeds.
When communicating with men, be sure to pay attention to the changes in men's expressions.
Maybe you're just casually mentioning a topic, but men resent this discussion.
When you feel his reluctant attitude, the woman must immediately stop the exchange.
If you want to maintain the harmony of love, women must not ask the root cause.
If a man is reluctant to express it, you must respect his right to privacy.
Men are not ready, and women must not be strong.
Women can be spoiled when men are in a good mood, and men at this time must think that you are extremely cute.
Not throwing tantrums is a person's advanced cultivation
When quarreling, we must control our temper, and women must not say something exciting.
Some words are difficult to harvest as soon as they are exported, and some feelings cannot be saved as soon as they are broken.
Both people are angry, and the woman can take the initiative to leave.
Instead of conceding defeat, you choose a "cold treatment" approach.
If you deliberately avoid it, men will not do anything more.
After thinking well in a person's space and being calm and calm, you can naturally get a reasonable solution.
If you want to get angry, women must immediately admonish themselves.
As Jefferson said, "When you are angry, if you are going to speak, count from one to ten; if you are very angry, count to a hundred and then speak." ”
Controlling temper can reflect a woman's high emotional intelligence.
Knowledgeable women never get angry, they prefer to pull away from conflict.
The woman leaves the man alone, and the man can turn back and think carefully.
The man sees the woman's humility, and he will reflect on his own shortcomings.
Men realize their mistakes and will take the initiative to apologize to women.
Women can't easily forgive, and you have to leave men with a cooling-off period for a while.
Quarrels are not a way to vent emotions, and they always fail to solve the fundamental problems quickly.
Even if you use words to fight back against men, men cannot obediently obey you.
Women dance their teeth and claws like shrews, which will only exacerbate the resentment in men's hearts.
Everyone's heart is soft, and men can't listen to women's denigration and irony.
Respecting others is also respecting yourself, even if you quarrel, you can't let yourself lose your attitude.
As long as the bottom line is guarded, proper bowing is not a sign of humility
The writer Maugham wrote in The Moon and Sixpence: "If you think about self-esteem in the matter of love, there is only one reason - in fact you still love yourself the most." ”
If you truly love this man, don't worry too much.
There is no absolute right or wrong in the relationship, and proper bowing down can enhance the feelings of two people.
If it's really your fault, you must not be clever.
You think that denying it will solve all problems, but men look down on you in their hearts.
Making mistakes is not terrible, and women must correct them in time and take the initiative to take responsibility.
The woman stood weakly in front of the man and said softly, "I'm sorry, I was wrong, forgive me okay?" ”
A word can make a man's ear root soften, and the man will never continue to embarrass you.
Seeing the woman with her head bowed, the man could not bear to continue to accuse.
Men see women's weak and helpless appearance, and they will take women into their arms even more painfully.
Men see the attitude of women, and they will no longer dwell on the mistakes they just made.
Men constantly coax women to be happy, just to reduce the guilt in women's hearts.
As long as it's not a big mistake, men will give you unconditional tolerance.
Women make appropriate concessions in quarrels in exchange for men's sympathy and pity.
Even if a woman pretends to be a woman, the appearance of crying and chirping will make people feel painful.
When a woman cries a lot, the man will definitely take the initiative to comfort you.
Men can't bear to see you suffer and will be doubly good to you later in life.
The regression in love is never shameful, and winning a quarrel cannot prove your ability.
One quarrel is not enough to split the feelings of two people, and women must grasp the man's heart in time.
Taking advantage of the opportunity of this quarrel can bring the two people closer.
I like this sentence: "Any relationship must know how to be soft, and take turns to bow your head and will not be scattered." Where there are people who are born to be a good match, but one knows how to tolerate accommodation, and one knows how to stop at the right time. ”
Two people know how to take turns bowing their heads in love, and there will be no contradictions in getting along afterwards.
Every quarrel is a wake-up call for two people, and when there is trouble in life, we must unite as one.
Learn the lessons learned after each quarrel so that you don't experience a second setback.
In the process of getting along with men, women must face up to their position.
We can neither seek perfection nor make a big fuss.
Everything must grasp a scale, excessive behavior is too hurtful.
The process of harvesting happiness is not easy to come by, and women must cherish it with their hearts.
Reasonable measures can be taken to extend the shelf life of love.
Once overwhelmed by love, what a woman does is extremely stupid.