Cross-talk artist Guo Degang said: "The villain is always a villain, he will not change because of your kindness, and the evil people in the world are all instigated to get used to it." ”
People's hearts are unpredictable, people's hearts are difficult to discern, villains will always be villains, and people with small bellies and chicken intestines will never change.
The country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to move, you can never wake up a person who pretends to sleep, you can never burn a cold heart.
The other person never cared about you, and your existence was just a tool for his survival.
Your arrival makes him take advantage of everything, and your departure will not change his original personality.
It is rare to exchange sincerity for sincerity between people, and many people will only think for themselves.
Your generosity should be left to those who deserve it, and take care of yourself if no one needs it.
Some people are used to your giving, and they even come and go with you.
If you don't know how to refuse, the other person will only consume you endlessly.
Friends must get along with each other as equals, and the balance of interests cannot be biased towards either side.
The friendship exchanged for self-sacrifice is too unreliable, and the people who meet in Pingshui can only make general friends.
Don't be too generous in the emotional world, excessive feelings will only make you too cheap.
A person, the more generous a person, the more he has no true friends.
Bowing one's knees cannot be exchanged for respect, and enduring humiliation and burden cannot be exchanged for peace
The famous preacher Fan Deng said: "Don't always make yourself particularly humble, there is no status between people and people." ”
Humble knees cannot be exchanged for true feelings, and indifferent people will only use you as a tool for exploitation.
They see that you are a good-tempered person and will keep bullying you.
Casually call you, drink five or six at you from time to time.
The status of two people has never been equal, and the other person will only dominate you condescendingly as a ruler.
Friends should help each other, but it is definitely not one party's compromise.
You can tolerate his momentary unreasonableness, but you must not allow him to be unreasonable for a long time.
He took your efforts as a habit and everything you did became a matter of course.
Once you stop giving, he will instead accuse you of your mistakes.
On the surface, it is tolerant and generous, but in fact it is self-pleading.
If you spoil him, he will not be considerate of you.
You are always in a weak position, and the other party will oppress you with a tough posture.
If you don't know how to fight back, he will torture you for the rest of your life.
Wishful thinking is not terrible, the most terrible thing is that the other party will not appreciate what you have done.
You treat him as a friend, but he only treats you as a servant.
For a fierce-hearted person, your presence is only worthy of his shoes, and he will not take you seriously.
All you do is just moving yourself, making it clear that you must close it as soon as possible.
On the surface, you are respectful, but in fact you only care about your external wealth
In the TV series "Twenty Not Confused", Xiaoice chose to make friends with Duan Jiabao, just because of Duan Jiabao's status as a rich second generation. Every time he eats, Duan Jiabao pays for it, and Xiaoice always uses the excuse of "next guest". Xiaoice bluff with Duan Jiabao's money, she did not care about Duan Jiabao's feelings at all.
If you are a generous spender, be sure to be alert to your friends.
True friends never covet your glory and wealth, and those who love vanity will only spend your money.
Rich people never lack companionship, but how many people who accompany them are sincere? When they shouted for dinner, they rushed to eat, and when they borrowed money, they pushed three or four blocks.
When you are rich, they flatter; when you are down, they run faster than rabbits.
You keep inviting them to eat at high-end restaurants, and occasionally switching to a small restaurant is opposed.
Once you've downgraded, they'll even point fingers at you.
People with conscientious dog lungs have never thought of knowing the gratitude map, and they will not help you at a critical moment.
Send a circle of friends when you are sad and sad, and few people will take the initiative to ask you.
However, when you send a big red envelope, everyone will rush to catch up.
It's not that they can't see your message, they just don't value you at all.
You don't have money yet, and they can't tolerate you in their eyes.
Don't listen to the one-sided words of others, you have to have your own judgment
Luo Xiang, a professor at the China University of Political Science and Law, once said: "What is dead must go with the flow, and only what is alive will look at it." In the midst of the hectics we forget that we are still alive, and in the midst of the hectics our hearts are dead. When we die, we must go with the flow. ”
When the heart is dead, it will no longer think independently. He lost the ability to judge himself and could only drift with the flow like a falling leaf.
You can talk to your friends about your heart, but you must not blindly listen to each other's opinions.
Different positions, two people's concepts can not be exactly the same.
The other person is just an outsider and he is careless in his comments about you.
He keeps proposing solutions, but he never thinks about the problem from your point of view.
If you can't stand it, the other person's language will only put pressure on you.
There is no conspiracy between different ways, and your excessive tolerance will only exacerbate the other party's arguments.
If you always listen to the gossip of the outside world, you will lose the ability to choose yourself over time.
Always take the words of others as a great command, and your life is no longer your own.
There is no need to argue with a group of insignificant people, your life is up to you.
Even if you suffer deeply, it does not prevent you from moving forward.
Because other people's words start to self-deny, your will is too weak.
Focus on yourself and you won't be influenced by other people.
Always act like a non-committer in front of outsiders, and everyone will point fingers at your life.
Weakness and incompetence will only ruin the future, and you must make yourself strong.
I once heard the saying: "Don't be too nice to a person, because you will eventually find that after such a long time, that person will get used to it, and then take everything you do for granted." In fact, you obviously know that the most despicable is not feelings, and the coolest is only the human heart. ”
People's hearts are too cold, feelings are too weak, society is too realistic, and human feelings are too boring.
In this era where interests are paramount, people get along more in favor of a model of "coexistence of interests".
Without the value of utilization, others will not take you seriously.
Instead of begging and currying favor on your knees, it is better to concentrate on improving yourself.
Even if one person fights alone, it is better than the mutual influence of a group of people.
In this world, perhaps only the person who gave birth to you and the person who gave birth to you will be true to you.
Aside from your parents, it's hard to have anyone to tolerate you unconditionally.
If you socialize aimlessly and blindly, it is you who will suffer in the end.
Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance. Take life seriously and manage your world.
Relying on heaven and earth is not as good as relying on oneself, and improving strength is the eternal truth.