In the novel Lolita, it is written that there are three things in the world that cannot be hidden: cough, poverty and love.
It is true that love is a natural outpouring of deep feelings in the depths of the heart, and it cannot be hidden. Not loving, too.
Loving someone and not loving someone are very different in their performance, and their attitudes are also very different.
A person who loves you may not be in your ear, how many sweet words will be murmured, and will not make a vow to you affectionately.
However, he will do many things that love you silently, but he will never be brazen or boastful, and he will not be proud of it.
Because he truly loves you, all he wants is to be nice to you and make you happy.
True love is selfless, not mixed with any selfishness or calculation of interests.
And a person who doesn't love you just says countless "I love you" with his mouth, but rarely does anything to love you. Occasionally, I've done one or two things for you, and I'll spread it around and make it known to everyone.
In fact, whether a person loves you or not, the answer is hidden in these two words, that is, "time".
01. He is willing to spend time with you
We often hear the saying that companionship is the longest confession of affection.
Indeed, love words are not affectionate confessions, companionship is the most sincere and longest confession.
No matter how many nice and touching love words are, it is far less than a sincere companionship.
What we need is not a romantic promise, but someone who can accompany themselves, know the cold and know the heat, take care of themselves, and give themselves the most intimate care.
Each of us has a finite life, so for us, time is the most precious thing, a priceless treasure that cannot be exchanged for how much money we spend.
It is even more impossible for us to entrust something so precious to someone who does not love. In other words, only by loving someone is you willing to spend time for him.
If, a person often tries to accompany you in any way possible. There is no doubt that he loves you.
It is precisely because I love you that I will be willing to spend time with you, chat with you, accompany you to do things that interest you, accompany you crazy, and accompany you to make trouble.
Every minute he spends for you hides his affection and tenderness for you. In all the company he gives you, there is a lot of attachment and thoughtfulness to you.
02. Observe him in everyday interactions
As the saying goes: the road knows the horsepower, and the day sees the hearts of the people.
This sentence is familiar to us. We also take to heart the meaning of this sentence.
The implication is that from a long way away we can know the power of a horse. It takes a long time for us to judge a person's true heart.
Whether a person loves you or not, don't deliberately ask him, time will tell you the answer. You've been with him for a long time, and it's natural to see if he really loves you.
When everyone pursues each other at the beginning, they will strive to show their best side in front of each other, making it difficult to distinguish between true and false intentions.
However, time is the best litmus test of the human heart. A person, at first, may disguise himself in front of you as you like, but over time, whether he really loves you or not, you can see at a glance.
Because every little detail of life will give you an answer, everything he has done, every word he has said, is enough to be an important criterion for you to test and judge his love for you.
If he loves you, then you can clearly see his affection in the things he has done, the words he has said, and the look in his eyes that look at you.
If he doesn't love you, then all his words and deeds reveal his indifference and alienation from you, disgust and disgust.
03. He is willing to give the rest of his life to you
The rest of life, as the name suggests, is the rest of life, the rest of life.
For the rest of our lives, we have a vision of the future and a yearning for life.
Precious things are naturally to be given to those who love them. No one would be willing to entrust such a precious "rest of his life" to someone he did not love at all.
If a person is willing to sincerely talk to you about the future, plan your common future with you, plan to grow old with you, and work together for a lifetime.
Suffice it to say that he is willing to give you the rest of his life, the rest of his time, is a recognition, a trust, a care.
Before you met you, you had missed his old days and he couldn't share it with you. He can only give you the time to come and love you affectionately to make up for the regret of "seeing each other and hating late".
Needless to say, a person who is willing to give you the rest of his time must be deeply in love with you. It is precisely because I love you that I will recognize you and be willing to spend the rest of my life with you.
Emotional Message:
Time is not only a precious thing in everyone's life, but also a mirror and a touchstone to test whether the other party truly loves you.
Whether a person truly loves you can be felt from the time you spend together, whether he is willing to spend time with you, and whether he is willing to give the rest of his time to you.
A person's love is hidden in "time", hidden in every moment, in every little detail of getting along.
If the person you love is willing to accompany you, give the rest of your life to you, and show affection for you in the time you spend together, then please cherish him and cherish this fate.
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