"Young master, the young grandmother has been in her mother's house for 3 months."
"Well, is she willing to marry?"
"No, she's already suffering from neurosis."
"Then I will marry too!"
thing. In order not to marry the second generation of officials, she pretended to be mentally ill, and the second generation of officials said, I like mental illness. It's just that unlike those romance novels, this story has not had a happy ending until the end. So what's going on here? Is it really the second generation of obsessive officials forcibly marrying civilian women?
The concubine marries a concubine
The second generation of officials was named Yuan Kejiu, and he was not very famous. But his father was the famous Yuan Shikai. "My father is Yuan Shikai!" This sentence can be put out much stronger than Li Gang.
And "she" is not a good stubble, named Li Shaofang. This name does not seem to be famous. In fact, she also had a great father, Li Yuanhong, the governor of the capital.
According to the theory, this marriage should be a talented and beautiful person, a thousand miles of marriage, and whoever looks at it will say that the level of a hundred years of good union. But this marriage was a huge mistake from the start.
Yuan Kejiu was the son of Yuan Shikai's fifth aunt, Yang Shi, while Yuan Shaofang was the second daughter of Li Yuanhong's concubine Wu Junjing. Now it seems that there is no difference between concubines. However, at that time, Shuzi's marriage to a concubine was an absolute high climb, and Yuan Shikai was a good president of the Republic of China, and he Li Yuanhong was also a president of the Republic of China, and no one lost to anyone. Such a seemingly evenly matched and completely different marriage may be a mistake in this marriage tragedy. The roots began with the marriage being settled.
The original marriage came from the political game between Yuan Shikai and Li Yuanhong.
I think that when the Xinhai Revolution was over, the Qing Dynasty was overthrown, and Yuan Shikai, who had a strong army in his hand, also squeezed Sun Yat-sen down, and he felt that he could not easily dominate the Central Plains, but there was also a Li Yuanhong in Hubei Province, who said that he was a king of the clan, and it was not good to say that it was a division. In order to infiltrate his own forces into the central region as soon as possible, Yuan Shikai tried to "curse" Li Yuanhong to the capital, and installed his close associate Duan Qirui in the wine and joy to become the governor of Hubei, but in this way, it was equivalent to cleaning up Li Yuanhong's mountain, although Li Yuanhong was watching in the capital every day for fun, but there was no knot in his heart, it was impossible.
Of course, Yuan Shikai, who is old and spicy, has his own clever tricks to win over Li Yuanhong, who is now uncomfortable in his heart, he specially set up a feast to entertain Li Yuanhong, grape wine luminous cup, and proposed two families on the wine table to marry, which means that from now on, we have become relatives, so what is the difference between your and mine? In the face of such a warm hospitality from old Yuan, Li Yuanhong was not an upright person in power, and in this way, after three rounds of drinking, the two people who were still drunk made a decision on the spot: they were married to their children, and Yuan Kejiu, the ninth son of Yuan Shikai, married Li Shaofang, the second daughter of Li Yuanhong.
At that time, Li Shaofang was only eight years old.
Marriage should never be a plaything, but people always think that marriage can make everyone a family. Has there been less cases of a family going against the same purpose in history? In the change of Xuanwu Gate, Li Shimin and Li Yuan's father and son could turn against each other, not to mention the Sui Dynasty, who was close to them? When it's time to turn against the eye, none of them will be less, and they won't run. What can the use of nihilistic in-laws? It is nothing more than harming innocent people who do not understand the world.
Qianjin eventually went crazy
Li Shaofang, who has a strong personality, is smart and intelligent, and when she heard that she was going to get engaged to a person she had never met, Li Shaofang refused to marry no matter how much her father persuaded her, and she also thought of a bad move, "The newspaper said that she was mentally ill. The Yuan family thought about it, what is going on, this is not going to happen, the duck in hand can't let her fly like this, so he also let Yuan Kejiu publish a newspaper to announce, "Even if you Li Shaofang is mentally ill, I will marry." This moment has captured the heart of the gossipy people who read the newspaper, who does not like to watch the drama of the second generation of infatuated officials chasing love? This made Li Shaofang angry, but it was useless, and it was impossible to cancel it by Li Shaofang's own strength alone.
In 1914, at the age of 8, Li Shaofang became engaged to Yuan Kejiu, 11. In 1916, Yuan Shikai finally could not hold back his desire to claim the title of emperor, so the reversal of history was denounced by the people of the whole country, and soon announced his abdication, and he also died of illness due to angry attack.
Yuan Kejiu was also sent to the United States, and Li Shaofang thought that things were already like this, and he would never marry the man who claimed that "you are mentally ill, I will marry too". Li Shaofang also attended Nankai University, and was also a "new woman" at that time, and it was impossible to agree to such an engagement. But the problem lies in the father who coaxed her to get engaged and said that when the time comes, we canceled it, Li Yuanhong had a good face, afraid that others would laugh at his power, and how could he not cancel the marriage contract. Even if Li Shaofang also met a good person, he refused to let his daughter marry, and he delayed the personal happiness of his beautiful daughter.
When Yuan Kejiu returned to China, he mentioned the old matter and wanted to marry his daughter to him, but Yuan Kejiu fell into such a situation, and Li Shaofang was even more unwilling to marry. In this way, the marriage of the two families was also delayed again and again, until 1934, when Li Shaofang, who was already 28 years old, was forced to fulfill the marriage contract made by Li Yuanhong and Yuan Shikai and marry into the Yuan family.
Political marriage, the two did not have much affection at all, and she did not look up to Yuan Kejiu. So after passing through the door, the husband and wife relationship has always been cold, and the mental pressure of Li Shaofang in such an environment is getting bigger and bigger, which makes the depressed Li Shaofang really suffer from mental illness soon after, which can be described as a slur. Even with the aggravation of her condition, Li Shaofang was eventually sent to a mental hospital for recuperation.
On April 15, 1945, at the age of 39, Li Shaofang was still depressed, and she still could not accept the reality that she was going to become a victim of politics and marry such a man she did not like, and finally died alone. But at that time, yuan Kejiu, her husband, who said that he would not dislike her mental illness, had already married a new wife, and flew with his own concubine.
A political marriage without love was thus destroyed in the history of the Republic of China, and no one cared about it.
None of the good, the bad, the words that were said, none of the promises made were true. It is better to ask others than to seek oneself, and it is better to find a way out than to die in sorrow. What's there to believe in those words? It is just a casual remark, and God only saves those who save himself. The sweet words that have been said should not be taken seriously, and no matter how sweet they are, they are just a temporary paste to the ears. I don't know why, but people still believe it. Seeing is believing, hearing is false, reasonable and unreasonable, and if you listen to it, you will forget it.