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Norwegians are particularly fond of eating sardines, but sardines are naturally congregated and lazy, so it is not easy for fishermen to catch and transport live fish.
In order to catch live sardines and transport them to the fishing port, the fishermen are at a loss for everything they can. Finally, there was a captain who had a way to mix a few catfish into the sardines he caught every time he caught.
Catfish are active by nature, due to the appearance of catfish, delicate sardines are affected by catfish, hiding around in order to survive, they will accelerate their swimming, promote the circulation of air, sardines are not easy to die.
This effect is called the "catfish effect."
Walking in the human world, we can also understand the "catfish effect" in this way: near Zhu is close to the ink and black, what kind of circle you are close to, what kind of person you will become. With negative people, you will become resentful, and with positive people, you will become positive and confident.
In 2022, be with positive people and make yourself full of positive energy
What kind of person you are with, what kind of person you will become, this statement is not without reason.
In life, if we always interact with people who are full of positive energy, then we will learn a lot of positive things from them, and in positive energy people, you can't hear groundless complaints, you can't see negative sabotage, no distorted values can affect you, and you won't let your three views shatter to the ground.
People with positive energy carry a positive, sunny aura. With such a person, you will feel like a spring breeze, even if you taste a cup of tea, you can drink the aromatic taste.
In the Xunzi Persuasion, it is written: "In the midst of the ponygm, there is no self-directing, and the white sand is in nirvana, and it is with black." This means that the grass grows in the field and can stand up without support; and the white sand, once mixed with the black soil, becomes as black as the soil.
People with positive energy will never compromise with life, will not beg for the mercy of the heavens, will not be stagnant when frustrated, failure is a kind of grinding for them, their mentality is excellent, calm and calm, just like a dawn in the darkness, can illuminate the people around them.
In 2022, people who are close to positive energy are the wisest choice. Because: walking with the wise, the road is naturally wide, and the high people are in the company, and go further.
In 2022, stay away from negative people and don't let yourself be consumed
The writer Su Qian once said such a sentence, deeply touched: "There is no need to invite everyone into life." ”
People live a lifetime, will meet all kinds of people, fate, become friends, colleagues, classmates, relatives, no fate, pass by.
What kind of people you make and what kind of people you let into your circle have a great impact on you. There is a kind of person who is particularly negative and likes to complain, and such a person is full of negative energy that passes to you.
For example, if you don't work hard, you complain that you don't have a good origin, and you complain that your parents don't have the ability.
For example, I am lazy, but I complain that God treats me too thinly, what others want, and what I want.
For example, I stayed up late to play games and couldn't wake up in the morning, but I complained about the exam and couldn't even get a graduation certificate.
For example, I am reluctant to make a little effort, I don't have a skill, and I complain that no company can look up to me.
These negative people, people with negative energy, life is full of gloom, there is no trace of sunshine. Interacting with such people will only make your life fall into negative emotions, and over time, life will become lifeless.
There is a saying that tells us how terrible negative energy is: when you stare into the abyss for too long, the abyss will also stare at you.
In 2022, please stay away from people with negative energy, don't let your time be consumed, life be consumed, cherish time, and do something meaningful.
Human energy is mutual, and when you are close to the sun, you will also become the sun.
What kind of circle you are close to, what kind of life will be achieved. May we in 2022, away from those who consume ourselves, walk with people with positive energy, grow wisdom, and have a heart for the sun.
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