As the saying goes, "Female junior, hold the gold brick", but if it is ten or twenty years older, what will the result be?
In Henan, a 22-year-old boy fell in love with his 19-year-old female boss, and the two took less than 3 years from love to marriage, and even the female boss gave birth to 3 twins for her "little husband" at the age of 50.
The unusual CP pair appeared on the TV show "Mamma Mia" in 2016. When the couple stood on the stage with their three healthy children, the audience applauded them.
It turned out that in order to be together, the couple paid unimaginable hardships for ordinary people, and finally proved the existence of true love.
So, what is the story of the two of them? How did two people, who were almost twenty years apart, come together?
First acquaintance: one is a frustrated female entrepreneur in the love field, and the other is a fledgling college student
In 2005, at a private company's employee gathering, Li Qiaolin, as the boss, stood in front of the employees and spoke encouraging words in her unique gentle and gentle voice, and her well-maintained young and beautiful appearance became the focus of the scene.
When she finished speaking, Li Qiaolin did not know that she had been deeply in love with a boy.
This boy is Su Jianjun, a college student who has just graduated and came to work in Li Qiaolin's company. Su Jianjun has a mediocre appearance, but his work ability is outstanding, and he has become the backbone of his department soon after joining the company, and the appearance of Li Qiaolin at the party successfully opened his heart, making his still young heart confused by the woman's smile.
After the meeting, Su Jianjun began to inquire about "General Manager Li" every time. Others only when he gossiped, he told him the story he heard, it turned out that Li Qiaolin was a divorced woman, and she came out to work hard with her ex-husband, as a result, after opening a company and giving birth to a son, the husband began to have a wrong heart, looking for Xiao San to cheat, and finally was discovered by Li Qiaolin.
Li Qiaolin reacted very quickly, directly with her husband showdown, after the two agreed to divorce, the husband went out of the house, leaving the company and son to the woman, so although she was only in her early 40s, she already had a wealth of tens of millions.
At this time, the gossip people will joke that as long as Li Qiaolin is taken down, he will not have to worry about the second half of his life.
As everyone knows, the speaker has no intention, but the listener has a heart. What Su Jianjun had in mind was his admiration and pity for Li Qiaolin. Outsiders only saw the bright side of the woman, but the only thing he thought about was how heartbroken she was when she divorced her ex-husband, and how many days and nights she tossed and turned after finding out that her husband had cheated and couldn't sleep.
However, Su Jianjun did not want to say these words to others, but silently began to look for opportunities to know Li Qiaolin.
Soon, he stood out from the staff with his strong strength, and even Li Qiaolin heard about him. And Su Jianjun was ecstatic when he learned that Li Qiaolin wanted to know himself, which was more than giving him twice the bonus!
When he walked into Li Qiaolin's office, Su Jianjun was nervous, but when he saw Li Qiaolin himself, Su Jianjun was surprised to find that his original nervous mood was suddenly no longer nervous, but became calm and self-assured.
He talked like an old acquaintance, and as soon as he opened his mouth, he narrowed the distance with Li Qiaolin, and even Li Qiaolin couldn't help but secretly applaud this 22-year-old boy, and the two talked very happily, and even forgot the time.
From here on, Su Jianjun began to frequently go to Li Qiaolin, and Li Qiaolin's impression of Su Jianjun was also very good, so as long as Su Jianjun came, she would not refuse. Gradually, love began to sprout, and although the two did not say it, they tacitly agreed with each other.
Appeal to the heart: After falling in love, the boy showed love to the woman, but the others said that he was "wolf ambition"
After nearly a year of getting along, Su Jianjun made his heart more clear about Li Qiaolin. Every time he was alone with Li Qiaolin, he couldn't help but imagine being with her, and sometimes he would secretly laugh out loud.
And this look of his was also looked at by Li Qiaolin.
After experiencing a failed marriage, Li Qiaolin became more cautious about feelings. She knew that sweet words might be "sugar-coated cannonballs", and they could not go to the end for more than ten years, not to mention this newly recognized Su Jianjun?
Therefore, Li Qiaolin also regarded Su Jianjun's performance as if he had played with his family as a child, and did not take it seriously at all.
But after falling in love, where does Su Jianjun understand Li Qiaolin's thoughts, after countless psychological struggles, the boy finally can't help it, he can't help but confess affectionately when he was alone with Li Qiaolin: Qiaolin, I love you, are you willing to be with me?
Li Qiaolin was already prepared in her heart, so she quietly persuaded, Jianjun, you are still young, your good life has just started, even you have not been in love before, your ideal life is to find a girl of similar age, and then get married and have children. In this way, you will have a happy life.
Li Qiaolin's refusal was like a cold water poured on Su Jianjun's head, and he blushed and wanted to stop talking. After this incident, Li Qiaolin also regretted it, afraid that Su Jianjun would ignore himself because of this, but he did not expect that it was not long before Su Jianjun returned to the same as usual.
Even the skin of the face is a few points thicker.
He took out the momentum of hard work to pursue Li Qiaolin, and it was almost to the point of not giving up until he reached his goal, which was a world of difference compared with him before. And Li Qiaolin faced the fierce attack of Su Jianjun, which was the only way to face it up again.
It is not that she does not dislike this boy, but she is more than 40 years old, no longer an ignorant girl with feelings and full of water, and now feelings are a very luxurious thing for her, Su Jianjun's "love", she does not believe, nor dare to believe.
Therefore, she could only refuse repeatedly, but she could not quit her dependence on Su Jianjun. Under the extreme conflict in her heart, she lost ten pounds of weight. The girlfriends all advised her to polish her eyes and beware of Su Jianjun, and could not easily agree.
Once, a friend knocked Su Jianjun for Li Qiaolin, "What do you really like about her?" ”
Su Jianjun laughed angrily and replied directly, I just like her money! Do you want to hear me say this, I tell you the truth, Li Qiaolin, everything on her body, I like it!
Such a lonely and courageous Su Jianjun soon became the "laughing stock" of the company, everyone joked about his pursuit of the female boss, saying that he was a "smart person" who knew how to "find a way out" for himself, and some people were not accustomed to his behavior and thought that he was sensational, but all this did not dispel his ideas, and even made him more determined in his inner love.
Common suffering: Once arrogant and becoming a creditor, the boy does not abandon the woman, and finally impresses the sweetheart
No matter how many difficulties and obstacles were in front of him, Su Jianjun never wanted to give up.
During a financial crisis in 2008, Li Qiaolin's company was hit hard, and soon became unable to make ends meet, eventually having to rely on bankruptcy to pay employees. The people in the company, walking, scattered, basically left nothing.
And Li Qiaolin was also discouraged, she suddenly became a creditor with a huge debt from an entrepreneur with a net worth of tens of millions, not only sold the house and car, but also did not even have a place to rent, and could only sleep in the basement.
It was such ups and downs in life that li Qiaolin saw clearly the true heart of Su Jianjun.
In the humble basement, there is a double bed, which looks depressing, but it is as clean as possible. This is where Li Qiaolin and Su Jianjun live, and since the company went bankrupt, Su Jianjun has moved in with Li Qiaolin.
Of course, at the beginning, Li Qiaolin was reluctant, but she could not resist Su Jianjun's insistence, and the thought of being able to have someone to accompany and talk in the cold basement was a great comfort for Li Qiaolin at this moment.
In this way, with the company of Su Jianjun, Li Qiaolin slowly came out of the company's bankruptcy, she rekindled her hope for life, and began to seriously consider the relationship with Su Jianjun.
After getting along day after day, both of them know each other's intentions, and "marriage" has become their common idea.
However, there are still two difficulties in front of them.
One was Li Qiaolin and her ex-husband's children. After the divorce, Li Qiaolin took the child with her, when she met Su Jianjun, the child was already 16 years old, and Su Jianjun was 6 years older than him, so for the mother's marriage, the child was ten thousand unwilling.
However, Su Jianjun did not flinch, but took the initiative to chat with the child, and the result was that the similar age gave them a lot of common topics, and in the end, Su Jianjun won the trust of the child with sincerity.
The problem on Su Jianjun's side was solved, and Li Qiaolin's side was also facing a difficult problem, that is, Su Jianjun's parents.
When it was learned that the son had found a girlfriend in his 40s and was still a second marriage, the two old men almost objected at the first time, but they could not resist the son's insistence, coupled with Li Qiaolin's gentle and kind personality, the Su family finally accepted her.
So, in 2009, after many hardships, the two finally walked hand in hand on the red carpet of the wedding.
In order to surprise Su Jianjun, Li Qiaolin has been secretly looking for a way to get pregnant. You know, she has far exceeded the age of pregnancy, not only is it difficult to conceive, even if she successfully becomes pregnant, it will be life-threatening.
But she didn't care at all, the appearance of Su Jianjun lit up her life, and she also wanted to bring him "new life".
After many tests of IVF, the last time, Li Qiaolin asked the doctor to inject three embryos into his uterus, because the survival rate of each embryo is very low, so try to increase the number of embryos as much as possible to avoid doing useless work.
Unexpectedly, the goddess of luck took care of her, and the three embryos actually survived at the same time, safely conceived and grew up in Li Qiaolin's 50-year-old body, and finally successfully produced.
By this year, the triplets are ready to go to primary school, and the person responsible for taking care of them is Li Qiaolin, who is "relegated to the second line".
Since giving birth, Li Qiaolin slowly handed over the company's affairs to Su Jianjun and returned to his family to teach his son. This time, there was no need for her to say that her husband was already fully prepared, and it was the most reliable harbor for the four of them.
For Li Qiaolin, more than half a hundred years old, she began to believe in love again.
From the "sister-brother love" that has not been favored by people to the "model couple", the love between Li Qiaolin and Su Jianjun has broken through the restrictions of age and status, and truly achieved warmth and indifference with true love and persistence in marriage.
True love is eternal, as long as you operate seriously and treat each other sincerely, I believe that no matter how "unworthy" love can be cultivated into positive results!
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Author: He Yuyao
EDIT: Grass
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