There may be many friends in life like me, always self-sufficient, unwilling to trouble others, unwilling to owe others. As we get older, we feel more and more about helping and being helped, and why bothering and being troubled is not a bridge to maintaining feelings.
The development of casual society, the independence of actual life is getting stronger and stronger, people are less and less in need of outside help, countless otaku otaku have developed, interpersonal relationships are getting weaker and weaker, and everyone is accustomed to not owing to each other, so that husband and wife have no gratitude for each other.
Looking back and thinking about it, when the children are no longer in trouble, they go home less and less, and going home becomes a rarity. When parents are no longer in trouble, the past is like smoke, separated by two worlds, can no longer see each other, the past has become an eternal and eternal nostalgia. Between relatives and friends, because there is no mutual trouble, suddenly feel that there is no contact for many years, let alone see each other.
On the contrary, some unfamiliar faces before, because of the inevitable trouble between each other, the relationship is getting closer and closer, and the feelings are getting closer and closer.
I am always afraid that if I don't handle the trouble well, I will cause more trouble, a kind of fear and avoidance, and finally who and I do not owe each other.
Some people are like chewing gum, they can't get away, they can't get rid of it, they have constant troubles and needs, alas, they owe you in their previous lives.
Dealing with trouble is indeed not so simple, need more wisdom and strength, when you are strong, will increase the weight of each other's troubles, yourself are not strong, always troublesome, because others trouble you will never bring them trouble, the first person who wants to trouble is you, there is no slightest inappropriateness.
For children, for parents, if not too much, or try to satisfy their troubles, this kind of trouble is very precious, it will be less and less.
For the troubles of relatives and friends, try not to bother, grasp the bottom line, find some trouble at the right time that they can accept, and don't forget to bring your better blessings and gifts.
For the troubles in life, distinguish people, distinguish things, keep the bottom line, chewing gum-style troubles, no matter how difficult they are, they must resist, resist once, less than a thousand times. It is important to distinguish between people, because if someone troubles him, he is more troublesome than trouble, or don't bother, never owe each other.
Slowly, found a law, good circles and good relationships, always dominated by that kind of wise man, they choose friends who can control, but always consider the problem well, adhere to the bottom line, will not give friends excessive trouble and requirements, on the contrary, he will think of you from time to time, help you analyze problems, solve problems, many people are also happy to be dominated by his friends.
In family affection, cherish the trouble of the trouble; in friendship, find some trouble that is not troublesome at the right time; in the trouble, resolutely resist the trouble in the trouble, may you have a friend and circle of friends who can stick to the bottom line and bring you happiness to be maintained by the wise, enjoy the trouble and be troubled, and believe that you are the wise person who can keep the bottom line.
