"Single is Hell" has just been broadcast, it has attracted a lot of heat, Song Zhiya because of the hot search, in the domestic social networking sites have been turned upside down, Su Yan but because of low emotional intelligence by netizens spit, after watching the latest two issues, some people say that she has a little tea, in front of the man she likes to say bad things about another person, but also help people like to analyze feelings.
In fact, I personally think that Su Yan is not tea, but a straightforward personality, and the emotional intelligence is a bit low. At first, she may think that it is enough to find a matching person on this island, that person may not like much, but if it is really locked, then after the end of the show, she can also have face!
Su Yan does not have the wisdom of a woman in her 30s, but she is a bit silly big sister, very naïve, she can say whatever she wants, she belongs to the type of less roots, far from talking about tea. Tea women are the kind of people who make women envious and itch their teeth and men are fascinated!
Coupled with Su Yan's old age, she very much wants to be recognized by everyone, so she often emphasizes her age shortcomings, which is actually a manifestation of lack of confidence! Let's talk about a few problems with Su Yeon!
First of all, why doesn't Su Yan attract men to like?
Her appearance is too aggressive, the figure feels very burly, this figure may be very good in the eyes of Europeans and Americans, but it is not very flattering among Asian men, most Asian men like delicate women!
Europe and the United States or ABC especially like her type, healthy body, perfect skin tone, and very straightforward. In fact, Su Yan's clothes are good, a white shirt is really finished with lace.
In addition, Su Yan did not show her charm, as far as the current point of view, Shen Zhiyan's academic qualifications, Song Zhiya's beauty made the male guests like it, what does Su Yan have? If she doesn't pay much attention to her feelings and seriously releases her charm, she may slowly get attention!
For example, showing athletic talent, cooking, or talking about some work things, she has plunged herself into a kind of "just love" circle of thinking, as long as the people she likes don't like her, she will start to struggle infinitely, and then find reasons in herself, but also find reasons in others!
Finally, Su Yan is too anxious, this is just a few days of love variety show, are adults, there will rarely be a situation of love at first sight, she did not fall in love at first sight to anyone at first sight, ah, after the words zhenze and Se Hoon said were too "heavy", feel how much they like them, in fact, they did not feel Su Yan's like it!
Zhen Ze and Su Yan's first date on Paradise Island is indeed very harmonious, but it is only the first date, how can it be locked? Did Zhenze want to know that the other female guests were scumbags? Se-hoon doesn't like her, is he disrespectful to her?
Such a personality is actually a bit selfish, oppressive to the point that people are breathless, even if there are really men who like her, they will be overwhelmed by her momentum, afraid that they will not be able to hold her!
Secondly, what does Su Yan have to do to catch up with the person she likes?
First, less to say and more, improve emotional intelligence, in the case of not knowing each other, often will say more wrong, for example, when she and Shixun chat, said to Shixun: "Zhiyan does not like you, you give up, you look at Zhiyan at the same time, in fact, I am also looking at you, you don't cause trouble to Zhiyan." ”
These words let the audience judge it is indeed correct, at that time, the bullet screen also complained that Se-hoon was too strong, but what qualifications does Su-yeon have to say Se-hoon? If Su Yeon continues to release her good feelings for Se-hoon on the first day, it is okay, but she and Zhen-taek have both been to Heaven Island for a date, and Zhen-taek is indifferent to her, so she went to find Se-hoon, as if she used Se-hoon as a spare tire!
As an audience, I do think that Se Hoon should not be obsessed with Shin Ji-yan, but when he says it in Su Yan's mouth, it makes people uncomfortable to hear, and he is always kind enough to do the wrong thing.
Second, don't be in a hurry, originally this is a scripted variety show, everyone's goal is very clear, to find a can talk about the opposite sex for a period of time or in a group of opposite sex, and then show charm in front of the audience, to put it bluntly, this is a performance program, contact more people, do not hang on a tree.
When Zhenze was slightly indifferent to her, she immediately went to find Se-hoon, feeling that she "couldn't marry out", it was completely unnecessary, even if they were together in this program group, would they be together forever? So take your time, don't be in a hurry, wait until you fully understand a man before making a judgment, and there is no need to put yourself into passivity!
Third, don't be inferior, Su Yan is more than 30 years old, participating in this show is indeed not a big advantage, she did not participate in the festival may still be full of confidence in herself, feel that her figure is very good, there are many people chasing, but the people to this island are excellent, so she is a little inferior.
This kind of inferiority will make her behavior "ambiguous", originally envious of a person, the result of the tone spoken behind the back is not the same, will be misunderstood, now there are many older unmarried women, why in the encounter with people better than themselves began to deny themselves?
summary
In "Single is Hell", when Su Yan first appeared, I liked her a lot, and I had a feeling of "Northeast Big Girl", but after seeing the latest two issues, many of her behaviors were scolded by the audience, so I was also a little distressed about her!
She really doesn't have to lower her posture, and there is no need to forcibly pursue someone who doesn't like herself, put down her face, keep a low profile, be confident, and worry about not finding someone she likes.
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