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10 small details that teach you to understand a person

author:Peach Blossom Wu

In life, you get along with yourself the most, and the people around you the most, if you don't know the minds of the people around you, you don't know, then your interpersonal relationships will be in jeopardy.

The book "Parchment Scroll" says: "If you want to understand a person's thoughts, you only need to observe what books he reads; if you want to understand a person's emotions, you only need to see what kind of music he listens to; and if you want to understand what kind of person he is, you have to look at what kind of friends he has around him."

However, many times, we and some people are meeting for the first time, each other are very strange, it is necessary to intuitively understand through some small details, I will share 10 small ways to let us understand a person more clearly.

1. Whether or not to keep promises

2. Whether he is a person of integrity

3, whether to take advantage of small

4. Whether to treat strangers well

5, whether not to expose people's shortcomings

6. Whether you do not spy on the privacy of others

7, whether not to add trouble to others

8, whether it is not easy to understand others

9, whether to speak does not boast

10, whether to manage emotions

Details see character, small things see people's hearts. Details are like a mirror, and those seemingly inconspicuous actions can often reflect the truest appearance of a person and help us better understand a person. If you want to get to know the people around you, use these 10 small details to observe and see if they can become your like-minded friends!

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