The core point of coaxing a girlfriend is not to try to help her solve any problems, she does not need this, she probably only needs to find someone to complain and vent with her.
Your girlfriend used to be excited to see you, but now it feels like she's either always mad at you or doesn't care where you are at all.
Not sure when she often hangs out all night and doesn't respond to your texts.
Either way, if you feel neglected by your girlfriend, you're definitely going to get hurt, frustrated, and even angry. Specific solutions are not difficult, but start by getting to know each other.
1. Give her space
If your girlfriend ignores you, she may be angry with you or she may have a stressful encounter outside.
Whatever the reason, don't force it when you feel her upset and don't want to talk. Give her time to calm down, observe and reflect on what happened to her before.
2) Ask yourself if she really ignores you
Has your girlfriend really changed her behavior towards you?
Maybe she's been cold to you all the time, but as the time you spend together increases, you'll realize that you don't like her coldness.
Have you encountered any difficulties lately?
Maybe you've been asking her for more attention lately, but she doesn't want to, causing her to alienate you.
Two people communicate directly, get along for a long time, don't waste time, otherwise it is easy to misunderstand.
For example: At night I want you to accompany me to play basketball
3) She didn't realize it herself
Depression, leading to her will ignore you, especially mild depression, even she will not realize that she is cold to the people around her, and will only feel bad mood or stress.
Signs of depression include difficulty concentrating and making decisions, fatigue, helplessness, hopelessness, and feelings of goallessness;
Insomnia or excessive sleep, irritability, loss of interest in activities such as sex or date nights;
Overeating or loss of appetite, anxiety, suicidal thoughts, or disruptive behavior.
4. Be yourself
Don't learn those idiot tricks, such as staying away from each other and making the other person need you; finding another girl to play a play and make her jealous.
She needs space at the same time, you also have to have your own life, both sides have a sense of freshness.
5. Meet up
Direct phone call, WeChat, SMS about meeting to talk in person, meet her and talk, save a lot of communication time.
For example: "Why haven't you replied to WeChat lately?" "We haven't said a few words all this time, what's wrong with you?"
Pay more attention to the other person's eyes when you meet, and you will get the answer.
If your girlfriend doesn't talk, encourage her to speak up.
If your girlfriend keeps talking, be a qualified listener.
6, in the end, there must be preparation for breaking up
Prepare for the worst and break up.
Many breakup decisions are not sudden, but an outburst caused by a long period of repression, please treat it rationally anyway. Don't do childish behavior that hurts you or hurts the other person.
Precautions
1) If you find that your girlfriend often ignores you, you should consider whether to continue the relationship. Maybe you're just one of the spare tires.
2, she has some difficulties that you can't help, so there will be a person who is annoyed better than two people, don't be angry and believe that she can solve it.
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