Happy love, for people in love often has a magical shaping power, it is the messenger of beauty and light and angelic guide, almost can make the young lover's physical appearance and soul look new, but also make the vitality of youth and wisdom of the understanding to get a greater boost.
In real life, it is difficult for a person to realize the "ideal program" of the pursuit of love, and it is impossible to reach the end in one direction. Idealized love life is a process of joint efforts by both lovers, and the final result is often not only to beautify the love life, but also to beautify the entire life.
The reason why love has such a huge and magical shaping power is because we have love in our hearts and can evoke emotional impulses in the depths of our hearts. In youth, our desire and pursuit of love life is first of all a pure and beautiful spiritual phenomenon, and secondly, it is subtly based on physiological, psychological and other changes, which is by no means some kind of inspiration or some kind of dream that falls from the sky, but a real emotional fluctuation, and everyone must go through a process.
With the twists and turns and ups and downs of the emotions of love, there are often changes from imbalance to balance and from balance to imbalance between lovers. However, serious and noble lovers will strive to pursue the balance of emotional development of both sides in order to obtain stable love, and at the same time they will strive to pursue a rational balance between physical and psychological to maintain the purity of love and protect each other's mature and beautiful moral consciousness.
The best opportunity to grasp the shaping power of love is the first love period. It is not difficult for us to find that many male and female friends around us who are in love have undergone great changes in themselves driven by the strong drive of love. For example, young people who originally lack enthusiasm for knowledge aspire to become brave sailors in the ocean of wisdom; weak people who were originally pessimistic can be expected to become optimistic and open-minded strongmen; even those bad habits, even bad habits, that are difficult to change for a long time, will be corrected under the call of love, and so on.
People's hearts are unpredictable, and everyone's experience, personality, thoughts, and understanding of things are different, so everyone's way of solving problems and attitudes are different. Two people from acquaintance to love, and then to know each other, it is not easy, love is a very mysterious thing, love is abstract, but also figurative, two people who love each other can shape each other, not only can shape each other, but also can shape a better self, is the time and effort we pay in the object, if we can not guarantee that love can be naturally continued for a long time, then it will never go to maturity.