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Dong Qing with his father Dong Shanxiang and his mother Jin Lude
Dong Qing's father, Dong Shanxiang, graduated from the Department of Journalism at Fudan University and served as deputy editor-in-chief of Jiaxing Daily before retiring. He was elegant, wise, talented, and a kind and loving father who loved his daughters.
As a well-known CCTV talented woman, Dong Qing has always been her father's pride. However, Dong Qing's personal problems once became Dong Shanxiang's heart disease.
In 2013, Dong Qing finally married herself at the age of 40 and gave birth to a son in 2015. Dong Shanxiang has been a grandfather as a father-in-law for 9 years, there are entanglements, tears, and emotions...
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Dong Shanxiang was born in the mid-1940s in rural Chongming, Shanghai, to simple peasant parents. When he was in elementary school, his father unfortunately died of illness, and his mother did not remarry, supporting this stormy home with weak shoulders.
Group photo of Dong Shanxiang graduating from university (third from the left in the first row)
In order to earn tuition for himself, Dong Shanxiang went to the fields and rivers to catch fish and shrimp at a young age, and then followed his mother to the market to sell. The strength, optimism and inspiration of this suffering teenager were precipitated in his bones, and later subtly affected his daughter Dong Qing.
After graduating from high school, Dong Shanxiang was admitted to the Department of Journalism of Fudan University and changed his fate by personal struggle.
After graduating from university, Dong Shanxiang was assigned to the Party School of Suixi County in Huaibei Province as a teacher. Jin Lude, a college girl in the same class, was assigned to teach at Zhonglou Middle School in Suixi County, and Dong Shanxiang pursued her.
The two places are more than ten miles apart, and Dong Shanxiang often rides his bicycle to visit Jin Lude.
Dong Qing and his parents when he was a child
In 1972, Dong Shanxiang and Jin Lude went through the marriage registration procedures at the Civil Affairs Office of Zhonglou Township in Suixi County. Jin Luther's mother's family was in Shanghai, and in November 1973, she returned to Shanghai to give birth, and her daughter Dong Qing was born in Shanghai.
Due to the harsh rural environment and the busy work of Dong Shanxiang and his wife, the couple entrusted Dong Qing to the care of his grandparents.
In 1980, Dong Shanxiang was transferred to the Policy Research Office of the Huaibei Municipal Party Committee, and the couple took Dong Qing to school.
In 1985, Dong Shanxiang was transferred to Jiaxing Daily as a supplement editor, and later promoted to deputy editor-in-chief, Dong Qing moved to Jiaxing with his parents.
His father migrated all the way, and Dong Qing's life was uncertain, and he was a little entangled in his heart at that time. When he became an adult, Dong Qing understood that his father transferred his work again and again and witnessed his struggle.
Early years of Dong Qing
Dong Qing presided over the "Chinese Poetry Conference"
Teaching by example is more important than words. Dong Shanxiang's strength, optimism and self-motivation silently affected his daughter.
Dong Shanxiang, who struggled from the countryside, had very strict requirements for Dong Qing, and from an early age taught his daughter to memorize idioms, copy dictionaries, and read Tang poems and Song poems.
Dong Qing's childhood and girlhood, accompanied by books all day long, she often protested to her father, but wiped away her tears, she would consciously go into the study to study. Because her father was more diligent than her, she could not leave her hand every day after work, and she had to write articles until late at night.
In 2016, Dong Qing presided over CCTV's highly anticipated "Chinese Poetry Conference", and her witty words were exported into chapters, highlighting the profound cultural heritage. At this time, she realized that the harshness of her father's childhood affected her life and made her brilliant.
Dong Qing and Zhu Jun hosted the CCTV Spring Festival Gala
In 2005, Dong Qing began to host the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, and since then served as the host of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala for 13 consecutive years, and is another "CCTV sister" after Ni Ping.
At that time, Dong Qing was extremely popular and attracted everyone's attention. Dong Shanxiang and his wife have also become celebrities in the eyes of the community and acquaintances because they have given birth to a big star daughter.
At this time, Dong Qing is 32 years old, and after two failed relationships, she is still unmarried and single. Dong Shanxiang and his wife have retired, and the old couple has returned to Shanghai to live.
They have pensions, houses in Shanghai, a large group of relatives and friends around, and a rich and colorful life. However, Dong Shanxiang and his wife are not really happy, and their daughter is still in the middle of the 32-year-old, how can they be happy?
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Sometimes a group of old friends have dinner together, and someone asks Dong Shanxiang: "Has your daughter found a boyfriend?" When will you get married? Dong Shanxiang replied softly, "Not yet." ”
Dong Qing and his mother
Out of concern, the other party said: "Then hurry up, girls will find a partner after the age of 30, it will be more and more difficult." The other party said the truth, but Dong Shanxiang's heart still had a pinprick-like pain.
Since then, in order to avoid irritation, Dong Shanxiang and his wife rarely participate in old friends' gatherings, and the old couple raises flowers and grass at home, reads books, and hopes that their daughters will bring them good news of love as soon as possible.
In 2007, Dong Qing was 34 years old and still hadn't found a boyfriend. Dong Shanxiang and his wife began to worry about their daughter's personal problems.
Dong Shanxiang is getting old day by day, there is no excessive demand in career and life, and his greatest wish is to be a father-in-law and a grandfather. But why is it so difficult to realize this ordinary wish?
Dong Qing
Dong Shanxiang is very envious of a neighboring old couple, their daughter is 3 years younger than Dong Qing, reading an ordinary vocational high school, working in a supermarket near the community. She did not have a high income, but she had two children, and the neighbors took care of their grandchildren at home every day.
As long as they went out with their children, Dong Shanxiang was very envious. Although the daughter of the neighbor is an ordinary person, she lets her parents not worry about it and enjoy the happiness of the world in her later years. Dong Shanxiang asked himself in his heart: Will excellence also become an obstacle to girls' love?
It's just that Dong Shanxiang doesn't know, in fact, the neighbors are also very envious of him, saying that he and his wife have an excellent daughter. Life is like this, you treat others as a landscape, and others will treat you as a landscape.
People have less sleep when they are old, and with their hearts entangled, Dong Shanxiang and his wife often have to fall asleep in the early morning. Usually, I was in a good mood, but as soon as I thought of my daughter being single, the mood of the old couple dimmed. Everything is leisurely, but the daughter's marriage is great.
Dong Shanxiang sighed and said to his wife: "I can't eat well and sleep well now, I can't be interested in anything, I hope that my daughter will fall in love and get married as soon as possible, only if her personal problems are solved, I can have the heart to live in my old age." ”
Dong Qing hosted "Readers"
Dong Qing and Sabine hosted the show
King Luther was equally worried: "Yes, the daughter is 34 years old and still unmarried, which parent is not in a hurry?" Old man, should we also urge marriage? Dong Shanxiang resonated.
On the night of Chinese New Year's Eve 2008, Dong Qing hosted the CCTV Spring Festival Gala and returned to Shanghai the next day to reunite with her parents.
When the family sat around to eat a reunion dinner, Dong Shanxiang said to his daughter: "We know that you are under great pressure at work, before your parents have not been able to bear to urge marriage, now you have to consider your personal problems as a big thing." If you don't get married for a day, your mother's and my heart will hang on for a day. ”
The mother also said to Dong Qing: "Only when you get married and have a baby, can my father and my heart settle down." ”
Dong Qing told her parents: "Don't worry, your daughter is looking for it." ”
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To be fair, Dong Qing is in such a position, ordinary men do not dare to look for her at all, and most of the men who are equal to her in fame and career have families and rooms. Therefore, it is not easy for her to find a suitable opposite sex to marry.
But in order to reassure her parents and make her life complete, Dong Qing began to actively seek love.
After that, Dong Shanxiang and his wife no longer bluntly urged marriage and forced marriage, but every small thing they did brought pressure to Dong Qing.
Dong Qing understands her parents, she also wants to marry herself out early, but where is the object of marriage? This radiant CCTV talented woman is also caught in entanglements and troubles.
Dong Qing and Mi Chunlei
In July 2011, Dong Qing told her parents that Mi Chunlei was pursuing herself and that she did not know what to do. Mi Chunlei is a business elite, has a certain reputation in Shanghai, Dong Shanxiang knows something about it, knows that Mi Chunlei has a family and a daughter.
He told his daughter flatly: "Stay away from him, I don't want him to hurt you." ”
According to media reports, Dong Qing and Mi Chunlei met at a fraternity party in Shanghai in the fall of 2010, and he fell in love with Dong Qing at first sight. Mi Chunlei's marriage is not harmonious, even if Dong Qing does not appear, there will be "Liu Qing" and "Zhang Qing".
Born in Shanghai in 1978, Mi Chunlei is 5 years younger than Dong Qing, he grew up in a poor family, relying on wisdom and personal struggle to become a business elite, rich in wealth.
In this encounter, Mi Chunlei could no longer let go of Dong Qing and began to pursue her. Dong Qing initially flatly refused, and then the other party chased too tightly, and she did not know what to do.
Dong Qing and father
Listening to his father's words, Dong Qing no longer answered Mi Chunlei's phone calls, and his attitude towards him was obviously cold, and clearly told Mi Chunlei that they could only be ordinary friends forever.
In 2012, Mi Chunlei divorced, and Dong Qing accepted his love. Dong Shanxiang and his wife are still worried about their daughter, worried that the outside world will misunderstand her daughter and produce various criticisms.
After Mi Chunlei knew the heart of his father-in-law, he took the initiative to visit Dong Shanxiang and his wife at home. He emotionally recounted his admiration for Dong Qing and his future life plan. In a word, he will not let Dong Qing be hurt, he will make her happy.
Dong Shanxiang felt that Mi Chunlei was a sincere man and accepted him in his heart.
In December 2013, Dong Qing and Mi Chunlei got married in Shanghai. The daughter finally married herself at the age of 40, and Dong Shanxiang and his wife burst into tears. Finally becoming a father-in-law at the age of more than seventy years old, Dong Shanxiang did not have feelings in his heart.
The following year, Dong Qing became pregnant and prepared to go to the University of Southern California in the United States to study and conceive a baby by the way. During her pregnancy, Dong Qing did not give up studying for further study, which made people feel touched and admired.
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After the Spring Festival, Dong Qing went to the United States alone. In order to let Dong Qing study and live with peace of mind, Mi Chunlei bought a house in Beverly Hills in Los Angeles, USA.
As the fetus develops day by day, Dong Qing's mobility becomes more and more inconvenient, and Dong Shanxiang and his wife go to the United States to take care of their daughter. The old couple bought back ingredients from the Chinese supermarket and made good food at home every day to wait for their daughter.
Dong Qing and the baby
In the evening, they accompanied their daughter to a walk in the garden. Dong Shanxiang brought two sets of prenatal education CDs of Tang poems and put them on Dong Qing at home every day.
At the end of June, Dong Qing's studies ended and the due date also arrived. In early July, Dong Qing gave birth to her son at a los Angeles hospital. In the process of her production, Mi Chunlei accompanied her throughout the whole process. Dong Shanxiang and his wife took care of their daughter confinement and took good care of Dong Qing's mother and son.
A month later, Dong Qing and his party returned to China. Her focus was on Beijing, and she and her husband also made a home in Beijing. When people are old, where their children's homes are, their own homes are where they are, dong Shanxiang and his wife came to Beijing to help their daughter and son-in-law take care of their grandchildren.
Since becoming a father-in-law and a grandfather, Dong Shanxiang has appeared younger and has also done things with his hands and feet. Dong Qing works at CCTV, the son-in-law usually works in Shanghai, Dong Shanxiang and his wife supported their daughter's small family.
Every morning when they open their eyes, the old couple begins to be busy with the baby and housework, although tired and sore, but enjoy it. In Dong Shanxiang's view, people are old, as long as they are in a good mood, they are also happy to do more.
Dong Qing and Zhou Tao
In the spring of 2016, someone broke the news on the Internet about Dong Qing swimming in the United States, and Dong Qing was suddenly pushed to the cusp of public opinion. Thousands of netizens sent blessings to Dong Qing and congratulated her on being a mother.
But there are also a very small number of netizens who have left messages questioning whether Dong Qing should have children abroad. Others say that she influenced Mi Chunlei's previous marriage and gave her various hats.
Dong Qing, who has always been calm, has a heart matter, and Dong Shanxiang and his wife patiently comfort their daughter and help her alienate her from the negative emotions in her heart. What touched Dong Shanxiang was that his son-in-law Mi Chunlei had a sense of family responsibility and would come to Beijing for a reunion after busy work.
Usually at home, he takes care of the baby, helps his parents-in-law, is very considerate of Dong Qing, and respects all the choices of his wife.
Originally, Dong Qing could not work hard in the workplace, and there was no shortage of the little salary she earned at home, but Dong Qing believed that women at work were beautiful, and women could only reflect their charm if they worked hard in the workplace.
Therefore, after becoming a mother, Dong Qing was still as busy as before, and Mi Chunlei tried to turn on the green light for his wife's work convenience.
Under the care of her parents and husband, Dong Qing's mood was better, and she threw herself into work with full emotions.
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The son-in-law is also very filial to Dong Shanxiang and the elderly, not only giving warmth in words, but also reflecting in actions. He regularly took the elderly couple to the hospital for physical examinations, bought a bank card for his parents-in-law, and deposited pocket money in it for the second elder to dispose of.
Dong Qing and Ni Ping
In May 2020, after the baby went to kindergarten, Mi Chunlei specially hired a nanny to be responsible for transportation, reducing the burden on in-laws. He often said to his parents-in-law: "If I do something bad, you will say it directly, I am your son, and I will correct it in time." ”
The son-in-law's words warmed the hearts of Dong Shanxiang and his wife, so even if they were busy and tired, they were willing.
Every morning, as soon as the little grandson opened his eyes, he sweetly shouted "Grandpa and Grandma", usually like their little tails, Dong Shanxiang and his wife followed wherever they went.
He is in good health, his daughter is happily married, and his little grandson is lively and lovely, and Dong Shanxiang feels that he is the happiest father-in-law and grandfather in the world.
Author's comment: Dong Shanxiang's mental journey is very universal. There are older single children in the family, which parents will not be calm, entanglement, anxiety, worry, insomnia and other negative emotions, will always bother them.
Pity the hearts of parents in the world. When people are old, the marriage of children is the biggest thing in the family. If children are not in love or married, can parents remain indifferent? Therefore, in the face of parents' urging marriage, as children, do not get bored, do not resist, and have more understanding and tolerance for parents.
As the parents of people who have come over, they know that a person who does not love or marry, and who is lonely until he is old, will bring many sequelae, and it will be too late to regret it.
The author has worked as an editor and reporter for a well-known magazine in the country, interviewing hundreds of people in various fields, including celebrities and celebrities, as well as ordinary people.
There is a 51-year-old single woman who was determined not to love or marry when she was young, and she was annoyed when her parents forced her to marry. Later, her parents died one after another, she was alone, and various diseases began to get on her body.
In an interview, she kept crying and complaining, regretting why she didn't listen to her parents and why she didn't get married and have children earlier!
I also interviewed a gray-haired mother in her 70s whose son in her 40s is also unmarried and single. The old mother cried and said, "She was heartbroken at the thought of her son getting old and sitting alone in the park with white hair and only a small dog by her side." ”
The story of Dong Qing's family relationship with her parents once again shows that if the children are really filial piety, they will enter the marriage at the marriageable age and give birth to two or three babies. This is the most gratifying thing for parents, and the greatest filial piety!
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