For a long time, I often met a sunshine boy who came to play with the little girl next door, and they were buying vegetables and cooking, reading books, playing chess, and making tea, and the laughter in the house was continuous, and the warm and happy appearance envied others.
But recently, I saw that she was emotionally unstable, occasionally returned drunk, and often had red and swollen eyes, asking her if she was in love, but she replied that she was in love. I asked, "Is it the sunshine boy who makes you laugh a lot?" She shook her head and said, "Love is a luxury, too expensive." Romantic petty bourgeoisie asks for money, buys a house and buys a car, eats and dresses for money, and although the male classmate hurts her and spoils her, he can't give her the life she wants." She fell in love with a BMW man.
I wondered, "The woman in love is the happiest and most beautiful, how can he let you cry?" ”
She was embarrassed to laugh and said that BMW males inherited the family business before graduating from high school, and often got busy for ten days and half a month without seeing each other, unable to eat, shop, and watch movies like ordinary lovers. And afraid that she has a higher academic qualification than him and is not easy to discipline, she is required not to show her face after marriage, she must resign from her husband and teach her children at home, and she is not allowed to have other friends of the opposite sex.
Although she expressed dissatisfaction between her words, she then reviewed her willfulness and ignorance, and asked for too much. She said that the BMW man loved her very much and promised to buy a house and a car in her name and give her the best love. It is also said that women will fall in love, probably not the men who make her laugh, but the men who make her cry.
At first glance, it seems to have a lot of feelings and moods, and I immediately associated this best love with words such as unforgettable heart, cone heart and lungs, and soullessness, and the stimulation was there, but I felt uneasy in my heart after all. Too much ego, too much restraint and demand is the best love?
I can't help but think of a pair of old acquaintances: the news of her and the object of his dealings has become a hot topic of discussion in the streets and alleys of the small town for a while, and some people are indignant, how can a good flower be planted on cow dung? Some people beat their chests and regretted that they did not dare to start early, and more friends said bluntly to her: "Many people entrust me to introduce, I thought you had a high vision and did not dare to mention it, it turned out to be so." ”
No wonder people are mean. Although he took out a loan to open a small brick factory after graduating from high school, the quality of the product was unstable and the sales channels could not be opened. And she, a bachelor's degree graduate, a key middle school Chinese teacher, has a tall and beautiful appearance, knows everything about piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and pursues countless people.
Without a grand and romantic wedding, without the blessings of her parents and relatives, she still had no hesitation in getting married with him. Among the many suitors, she said, he was not the best, but the most persistent. From his high school classmates to the present, he has been silently kind to her. Even in disparities, he still had the courage to pursue her, to love her, to give her a lifetime of happiness.
After the marriage, the two raised eyebrows, the piano was harmonious, and they were happy in pain. For a while, the factory was almost in a difficult situation. But every time I pushed open the door of the house, I still heard his hearty and confident laughter, and he always said lightly that it was okay and would soon be fine.
She secretly stuffed money in his pocket, stewed him every night with a mouthful of soup that she was reluctant to drink, took out her savings, sold dowry jewelry to help him pay the workers' wages, ran cram schools to subsidize the family, and quietly helped him send money and clothes back to his hometown to support his parents, and she was reluctant to buy a new dress for several years.
The gossip kept going on, and they were all waiting to see their jokes. She had already registered for graduate school, and she slowly wavered and began to want to give up. She said, "I don't want to be too far away from you. ”
For the first time, he was anxiously angry at her: "Fool, I just appreciate you who are active, if you drag your legs back and make you regret it, this is not the love I want to give you." Be the best you, you are my pride and motivation to move forward, I will definitely make myself worthy of you, I will let all people know, in this life, you choose me, yes! ”
In the third year, the factory had a hard time turning around, began to turn losses into profits, and it seemed that it was going to be bitter. As a result, during the Spring Festival that year, hundreds of thousands of sales funds were swept away by a distant relative who was the financial director of his factory, and he pursued it with all his strength for more than half a month and found nothing. Unwillingly, he waited in a dilapidated hotel to wait for the rabbit and return home without a face.
She found her haggard and said, "Money is something outside the body, and people are stronger than anything else." ”
He couldn't help but sigh, "Yeah, I haven't given you a good life yet?" How can it fall. ”
Perhaps because he wanted to fulfill his promises, or because of her encouragement, he worked harder than before, getting up early every day to find out the dark, and the technicians worked hard to drill the technique. The factory finally came back to life, began to flourish, the operation was booming, and several other cement factories were acquired, becoming a well-known enterprise in the province. What's even more rare is that he also took the time to get back his undergraduate and EMBA degrees.
He is already worth tens of millions, still the same as then, doing her favorite dishes in his spare time, not forgetting to help her buy the most popular books, and still calling her Teacher Dong as he did at the beginning. On the street side of the town, it is common to see them in their fifties with their fingers interlocked, walking leisurely.
Do not seek great wealth and nobility, peace of mind is the place to return; do not want to be desolate, life and death depend on each other, can see each other's happy and happy appearance in the days of each other, mutual respect, mutual recognition, mutual support, mutual promotion, I think, this is the best love!