The writer Duo Niang wrote in "Be a Transparent Woman":
"We are all protagonists in our own lives and should choose someone who makes us happier, freer, and better."
Life should be beautiful and gentle, and life should be colorful.
Any way of following the rules is burying the possibility of happiness.
The price of growth is to find their original intention little by little in infinite exploration.
Just like Yu Feihong.
Recently, yu Feihong, in an interview with "People", rarely talked about aging, beauty, marriage and love.
Everyone wants to stay young forever, and they all want to have sweet love and a happy marriage, but Yu Feihong is dismissive of this.
Regarding appearance, she said:
"I really don't have any pride in this thing, because I don't have any contribution or creativity to it, and I don't use it as a privilege." 」
About love, she said:
"Love? It's certainly not a necessity for me, it's a icing on the cake. ”
Asked if she needed marriage and children, she said:
"My pursuit or yearning for freedom is too deep, and everything that makes me feel free is something I can give up." It's a choice I made personally. ”
It's really sober.
Yu Feihong's answer truly responds to the verse of "Freedom and Love": "Life is precious, love is more expensive, if it is for freedom, both can be thrown away." ”
Not yearning for the pleasure of love, unwilling to take risks in marriage, this is Yu Feihong's simple life.
After reading this interview, netizens have said in the comment area: "Understand people, my sister lives well and transparently." ”
When the public felt that getting married and having children was an inevitable procedure of life, Yu Feihong avoided the shackles of all life.
Not following the happiness in the eyes of others, not caring about the world's vision, and daring to live as you want, this is Yu Feihong's attitude.
More than half a hundred years old, she is like an alternative in the entertainment industry, chasing fame and fortune, but also chasing happiness, is a woman, but does not live in the traditional definition.
Perhaps, from the moment she was born, she was destined to be extraordinary.
In 1971, Yu Feihong was born in a world of books, his parents were graduates of prestigious schools, and his family was very well-off.
Yu Feihong has liked to sing and dance since he was a child, learned to dance at the age of 6, and starred in the first movie "Bamboo" at the age of 8.
At that time, she was born shy and cute, and she was the darling of the crew.
In this atmosphere, Yu Feihong fell in love with acting and was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy many years later.
Because of her excellent academic performance, on the day of graduation, the school invited her to stay in the school to teach, but Yu Feihong refused.
The outside world was big and beautiful, and she didn't want to be trapped in a lifetime of freedom because of a momentary ease.
In this way, Yu Feihong went to study abroad.
Yu Feihong, who has no worries, is free and carefree, displaying his talents and tapping his infinite possibilities.
One year, as soon as she returned to Beijing, the director of "Morning Glory" came to the door and wanted her to play the heroine Xia Xiaoxue.
But Yu Feihong has a clear understanding of herself, she believes that she is still shallow and inexperienced, so she politely declined this opportunity and offered to play a supporting role.
Later, the play caught fire. Yu Feihong also became angry, and she became the first little three on the screen who did not attract hatred.
Her pure, harmless, and beautiful appearance must be admired by anyone who looks at it.
Since then, Yu Feihong's drama path has opened, she has shuttled back and forth in various film and television dramas, and one excellent work has been put on the screen, and she has the title of the first goddess of ancient costumes.
When fame and fortune, resources, and traffic followed, Yu Feihong did not care too much about these things.
She is still the low-key actor, low-key enough not to hype, not to engage in gossip, not to deliberately market.
This state of sober self-awareness has made her a clear stream in the entertainment industry.
Just when everyone was wondering who saved the galaxy and could marry such a great beauty as Yu Feihong, she gave everyone a blow:
Not married.
I have a variety of styles, no quarrel with the world, noisy and noisy, and I have my own self-made, which is Yu Feihong's attitude.
She is not unloved, netizens have exposed her two hazy feelings.
The first is with actor Liu Yunlong, the two were alumni of the Beijing Film Academy, but their feelings were unstable and they soon parted ways.
The second paragraph is with Dou Wentao, who is Yu Feihong's gossip boyfriend, this emotional line is very vague, above the friendship, the lovers are not enough.
Yu Feihong, who has been single for most of his life, has long regarded love as something outside of life.
The state of life she wants is to squander her life at will.
Once, Xu Heli, the editorial director of "Yue Self", asked her in an interview: "For you, what kind of life is a luxurious life?" ”
Yu Feihong replied:
"You can waste your time at will, consume your youth at will, and waste as much as you want, because that's my life."
For so many years, Yu Feihong has lived like this.
In order to live freely, she chooses to follow the happiness of her heart and choose to live in the state she wants.
When the world is trapped by the world, only Yu Feihong soberly feels that being single is a kind of bottomless happiness.
Today, Yu Feihong is 51 years old, still not married, and does not want to have children as a mother.
In this life, she only wants to live for herself.
In the book "Virginia Woolf", there is this sentence:
"You don't have to be in a hurry, you don't have to shine, you don't have to be someone else, just be yourself."
Yu Feihong's state is not like this.
In this world, all life is reasonable, there is no need to define happiness, and there is no need to explain how to be happy.
Yu Feihong's choice is rational, for women, love and marriage should be the icing on the cake, if not, what is the use of asking for it?
Life that does not shed tears is called happiness, and feelings that will not disappoint are worth cherishing.
The so-called transparency is to live as you like.
If you want to get married, you can be single if you don't want to get married, and life should not be accommodated for anyone, nor should you live in the expectations of others.
Although Yu Feihong has no love, she still has the company of family and friendship, and every love is a pivotal thing in her life.
The most proud choice in life is to dare to face the inner thoughts.
It takes courage to abandon the world, and it takes courage to live out oneself. But for the sake of freedom and happiness, it's worth a try.
Body and soul, there must always be one on the road, so that you are full of expectations for the rest of your life.
For the rest of your life, take your time, don't complain about life, don't laugh at others, and enjoy the surprises of life.
While pleasing others, don't forget to make yourself happy.
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