Success belongs to the minority, and you can be that minority. But if you want to succeed, you must first experience failures and setbacks, large and small.
After the storm you can see the rainbow, but sometimes you can only see the continuous wind and rain. Facing difficulties may make you scrappy, but the quality of being more and more courageous is not available to everyone, and most of them will fall into self-blame after a series of failures, towards inferiority and depression.
What you need is a small success on the road to success, they will better motivate you to move forward, so when you continue to hit a wall on a road, you may think about it seriously, because at this time, the most sensible thing to do is not to insist, but to adjust the goal in time to make a clearer goal to find a shortcut to success.
01. What is the right insistence from a philosophical point of view
Philosophically, the new will inevitably triumph over the old, but this path of development and ascension is tortuous, and even sometimes the new will be completely buried under the old, but the tendency of the new to triumph over the old is certain, that is, sooner or later the new will triumph over the old.
Many people misunderstand the true meaning of this sentence, believing that it tells us that as long as we persist, do not give up, and work hard towards our goals, we will definitely succeed. But in fact, it is precisely because of this misunderstanding that the vast majority of people have created mediocrity, and they have not ushered in their own success until the last moment of their lives.
Because what they grasp from the beginning is not a new thing in the philosophical sense, but a surreal abstract possibility, such as buying a dress rehearsal, in a sense, as long as you insist on buying, sooner or later you will win the lottery, but how many times does it take to win the jackpot?
Dozens of times? Hundreds of times? Or millions of times?
Obviously, if you choose to stick to something that is almost impossible to achieve, your life will most likely usher in failure. The new thing that you need to hold on to and fight for is by no means abstract, it needs to take into account your ability to be realistic, starting from objective reality, and multiple failures may be just foreshadowing you, and what you are insisting on now may really be meaningless.
02. In an economic sense, how to face failure is the wisest choice
Blind self-confidence under the deception of "persistence can succeed" has created the reality that most people are struggling on the wrong path, and when they see that some people have succeeded, they think that they can also succeed.
It is true that this success is not small, but the possibility of failure will be greater, and you can't afford the loss that failure brings to you, after all, life is only once, there is no chance to start again.
So in economics, there is a technical term called "sunk cost", which tells us that we should stop losses in time, rather than blindly confident and then lose more, just like the stock market, you can't foresee its changes, you always secretly expect it to rise sooner or later, but the reality is most of the time that the longer you insist, the more you lose.
Do not rely on the fluke psychology to treat their own life, everything since it exists it has the possibility of happening, success is also, failure is also, you should treat your own failure according to your actual situation, give up when you should give up, sometimes stop in time, far more wise than sticking to the end.
03. Look at what is the most correct choice from the most essential aspect
Things are complex and changeable, interconnected, many times it seems to be a single choice question, but it is actually a multiple choice question, you choose a result, and then you will choose several in a row. This means that if you want to lay the foundation for the future, the choices you make at the beginning are crucial.
But the most complex things can also be dissected from its roots, for whether the choice is correct, whether they continue to insist or give up in the face of failure, in the final analysis, it is actually a point, that is, efficiency indicators.
If the loss of failure is within a range that you can bear, and you are not far from success, then it is right to persevere, because the next investment is likely to make you get a good return, but in the same way, if you can hardly see hope, then the most correct choice, in fact, you have already known it.
epilogue
We will inevitably face all kinds of failures, we may be hit by these twists and turns in life, and we may also gain more rich life experience because of these twists and turns.
It is good to have the courage to face difficulties in the face of twists and turns, but it is also necessary to remember that when you do not know how much perseverance you have in the face of failure, do not blindly challenge your limits, which is not good for yourself, you should set yourself a achievable goal to minimize the possibility of failure.
You know, smart successful people are not born, they actually have a trick to fight a protracted war, that is, to use staged success to encourage themselves, with the realization of one set goal after another, their own end point is getting closer and closer. #情感人生 #