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1
What people need most is love, but love is not luck.
People all hope to have: whether poor or rich, hardships and hardships can love each other, help each other, and rely on each other for a lifetime.
However, there are not many people who have such love, because many people think that love is to meet the right person, it is a kind of luck.
Encounter is just the beginning, and there is still quite a distance from having it!
Any kind of precious possession in life is not luck, but the result of sincere, sustained effort and creation.
Love is life, and it needs to be nourished.
2
What you can't forget is your own dripping grace.
It is often said: "The grace of dripping water, when the spring repays", this ancient admonition admonishes oneself to always have a grateful heart, but some people are obsessed with their own dripping grace and force others to repay the spring.
Among them, including parents, leaders, colleagues, friends... As a result, your favor becomes a debt that others cannot repay in their lifetime, sometimes even usury.
So people will turn away from you, and then you say that people don't repay you.
Forget the need to do it for others, and remember the need for others to do it for themselves.
3
Pain stems from our marks.
Pain is because we mark what is "very bad" and what is "bad", so when we encounter "good", we are happy, and when we encounter "bad", we desperately avoid and fight.
And most of people's growth comes from pain, ability also comes from setbacks, and happiness is often felt more deeply after experiencing pain.
So, is it possible to learn to face all the "bad" with an accepting attitude?
4
True strength is the courage to show vulnerability.
People often see tears as a sign of vulnerability and do not dare to shed tears.
In fact, tears are the channels of joy, anger, sorrow, and fear; they are the channels that open up our connection with people; and they are the embodiment of the vitality of life.
When there are no tears, our life feelings begin to dry up.
Therefore, true strength is fearless, but also dare to show vulnerability.
5
The mind is restless because there is no time to give the mind a quiet time.
If you feel restless, it is because you have not given the mind time to be quiet; if you feel that your back is sore, it is because your body is not moving enough.
What modern people lack most is mind meditation. However, most people' hearts are not moving, so all kinds of uneasiness and impetuosity, all kinds of unhappiness and diseases.
6
With people, there will be contradictions and conflicts, many people in conflict, spend a lot of effort, want to let the other party listen to their own or want to prove that they are right.
In fact, it was in vain.
For when man is denied and opposed, the instinctive reaction is to resist, conquer or escape.
Three words of interpersonal magic can turn confrontation into peace:
1. I was wrong
2) You're right
3. Thank you for your help.
Text | Dr. Sea Blue Comics | Wanting Liu