Ask questions one to solve them, and the other to find empathy. Young people have to take responsibility for their lives and leave only a small part of their time for themselves. Sticking to your preferences and not being burdened by life is a difficult thing. If you think your preferences are careers, you are extremely lucky.
The path of growth is full of freshness, and it is difficult for people to achieve meditation. Young people don't have enough skills and resources, so they have to keep learning. Good politicians have powerful speeches, and successful songs have to resonate. Please be good enough in your field to live up to your preferences.