Opportunity, rely on yourself, fate, rely on yourself to grasp, if life is controlled by others, it will be a tragedy.
Today I discussed a very interesting topic with my friends, that is, if I travel back to the last years of the Eastern Han Dynasty and become Liu Xie, the Emperor of the Han Dynasty, what to do, in order to have a way to turn the tide for the Han Dynasty, it seems to be quite rare to think about it. After all, Liu Xie's life never seems to have been able to make his own decisions.
Liu Xie in the New Three Kingdoms
He also fought unwillingly, but fate did not give him a chance.
Looking back at the life of Emperor Xian of Han now, I found that he, the king of the subjugated country, really had no way at all, when he was young, he was obviously not an emperor, but Dong Zhuo felt that he was good, and he also needed to rely on the abolition of the emperor to establish his prestige, so he became the emperor, or rather, Dong Zhuo's puppet.
The image of Liu Xie in the card game
Later, Dong Zhuo was killed by Wang Yun, but Wang Yun was empty-eyed, which led to the "backwater battle" of Li Dai Guo of the Western Liang Army, and he lived a life of fear at the hands of Li Dai Guo Feng, and later, he finally met a Cao Cao who "treated him with courtesy", but found that the Cao family's soft knife killed more fiercely.
Dong Zhuo
Obviously, he was the Son of the Great Han Dynasty, but he lived like a prisoner, and he wanted to contact the loyal and righteous soldiers of the Han Dynasty to serve himself, whether it was "wearing clothes and edicts" or pinning his hopes on Liu Bei. But the final result was that the loyalists around him dried up their blood, and he could not even save his own empress and heirs, and finally honestly became a puppet of the Cao family.
Clothing edict
In fact, the only chance of Emperor Xian of Han was that after Wang Yun killed Dong Zhuo, Wang Yun, a "loyal subject" of the Han Dynasty, seized the government, at this time, if he pardoned the Western Liang army, avoided li Dai guo's rebellion, gradually stabilized the imperial court, gathered people loyal to the imperial court, and accumulated strength, in history, Cao Cao's "blackmail of the son of heaven to order the princes" could occupy a huge political advantage, if Liu Xie himself was in power of the imperial court, I am afraid it would be more convincing.
Opportunities are up to you
Unfortunately, when Wang Yun wanted to cut down the Western Liang Army and remove the roots, Liu Xie did not have the ability to refuse, nor did he know how to refuse, he entrusted his fate to Wang Yun, just like he handed over to Li Daoguo feng and handed it over to Cao Cao, not to make his own choice, no matter what the outcome, is not his own control, this is his tragedy.
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Puppet Liu Xie
In fact, everyone is the same, don't leave your life to others to control.
I have a very good cousin, from the beginning of the hour to play with me, now has reached the grade of nearly forty, according to the reason, he is quite good at work, he himself is very hard to make progress, but his biggest problem is that his life is completely controlled by my aunt, and he can't decide anything himself.
Man's desire for control
The work needs to be determined by the aunt, the salary card is also handed over to the aunt, and the marriage is all decided by the aunt, not to mention the various big and small things in life, which are determined by the aunt alone. For the aunt, it is to be good to her son and take care of him, but everything is decided by the aunt, not to mention that people are abolished, and people who are slightly self-motivated will not be willing to be able to decide their own lives.
Complaining and blaming
The cousin can't go against the control of his aunt, but his life is full of complaints and accusations, and it seems that all his unhappiness stems from this reason. Their own life, can not be their own decisions, by morality, by family affection, by the grace of nurturing, their own life, is to return these graces, seemingly outside the infinite scenery of the cousin, in fact, in the heart, has been living in the cage.
The road of life goes by itself
Think of Liu Xie in history, seemingly honorable, but can not be the master of everything, his own life is in the hands of others, I am afraid that I have not been able to live comfortably in my life, and my cousin, who is nearly forty years old, many troubles and negative emotions in life also come from the unhappiness of being manipulated by people.
It's all up to you
Perhaps, many of us focus on our own shortcomings, but rarely care about what we have. For example, we can control our own life, we can choose our own life, to choose what we want to do, no matter what kind of result we spell out, but it is our own choice of our own results, than our own life is controlled by others, how to think about it feels more comfortable.
You are the noble person in your own life, all on your own!