In fact, I am an author in the field of history, but when I see this question, I can't help but answer it. To be honest, for boys, appearance is important, but not a necessity, the following I will explain from a few examples in history.
First, Cao Cao: the appearance is not enough, the temperament to make up
Everyone has seen the TV drama version of "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", in which Cao Cao is basically a tall, short and fat man, and his appearance is really not outstanding.
In the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Cao Cao's appearance is described as follows: seven feet long, thin eyes and long hair. In the Han Dynasty, one foot was equivalent to the current 23 centimeters, seven feet, which was almost equivalent to our current 161 centimeters. According to the requirements of the girls now, the height should be at least more than 180 centimeters, and Cao Cao can be said to be a "disability height" without compromise.
There is also another thing that can testify that Cao Cao is not handsome. Once when a Xiongnu emissary came, Cao Cao was worried that he was not handsome and would affect the image of the country, so he sent cui Yan, a famous handsome man at that time, to pretend to be himself, and then dressed himself as a bodyguard to stand aside. Cui Yan's appearance did not say, that is a high voice, eyebrows are loose.
After meeting with the Xiongnu emissaries, Cao Cao sent someone to ask the Xiongnu emissaries how they felt about the King of Wei. The messenger said without hesitation: "The King of Wei is handsome, rich and elegant, and the man who holds a sword on the side of the bed is majestic and majestic, very accessible, and is a true hero!" ”
Although Cui Yan's image is much stronger than Cao Cao's, in terms of temperament, Cao Cao stabilizes Cui Yan's head, which shows that the appearance of the face is not the decisive factor, and the confident temperament and conversation of a man are far better than the appearance.
Ii. Lanling King: I'm handsome, but I don't like it
Lanling King Gao Changgong can be said to be a well-deserved beautiful man. According to the records, The Lanling King: "Soft and strong-hearted, with beautiful sounds and beauty." That is to say, Lanling King is handsome and handsome, his eyebrows are clear- and beautiful, and he is also good at musical rhythm, and from our current perspective, it is a "flower beauty man" and "small fresh meat".
But Lanling King did not rely on his appearance. He likes to go to the battlefield to fight, and he likes the feeling of making meritorious contributions to the country. Because Lanling King was too handsome to deter the enemy (personally speculating that Lanling King should be that kind of feminine handsomeness), Lanling King had to wear a vicious mask every time he went to the battlefield to cover his face. At this time, in Lanling King's place, the handsome face became a burden.
Later, Lanling King made great achievements in battle, was handsome and could fight, and could be said to be a winner in life. But what does the Lanling King value more in terms of military merit and appearance? What he pursues is not a handsome appearance, but a meritorious career and the realization of the value of a man.
In fact, this is also the case in our lives, sometimes handsome men give people the feeling of some femininity, it is difficult to deter others. Sometimes some fat men seem more majestic.
3. Summary
Therefore, in summary, what men need is not a handsome appearance, but a confident and upward heart. With this energy, it is better than any appearance. A responsible and self-motivated man is the girl's favorite. After all, youth is easy to pass away, years are easy to grow old, and the heart of struggle will not grow old with age.
Text: JAL Tongjian Map: From the Network and The Site, Invasion and Deletion