What is the first old age?
First old age is a phenomenon. Due to the influence of current work pressure and living habits, many of people's physiological age is now older than the actual age, and they can't help but feel "old" when they are young...
And sometimes it is found that the physical function begins to slowly deteriorate, and the living habits have changed unconsciously, which is the first old age.
The following are all manifestations of women's first aging, how many have you hit?
1, I only want to make money, and I understand the importance of money
The original you may still live with the attitude of "treating money as dung", but your attitude in the early old age can be said to be a 180-degree change, and "money first" has become the new criterion of your life.
Before you may not be able to stand a little grievance at work, now as long as the salary and welfare benefits are in place, you can endure anything, you can do anything, who can't live with money?
There is also the most obvious performance, the original you may feel that love is greater than the sky, nothing is more important than love, now many single girls should have this feeling: what is love? I just want to make money now...
If you start to feel that only money can give you a sense of security, then you have begun to enter the period of old age.
2, used to love sweets, and now drink milk tea to order sugar-free
I think very few women would turn down desserts... Whether you are in a good mood or not, desserts are indispensable.
But now you will pay more and more attention to "maintenance". Sugar is the main factor that causes aging, so now even if you want to eat cake and drink milk tea, you will start to hesitate, after all, for women, skin is the most important.
Watching Xu Qing's video in the previous paragraph, when ordering milk tea on the streets of Japan, I also chose less sugar...
If you start to pay more and more attention to maintenance, more and more attention to health, then you have begun to enter the period of old age.
3. The emoji is no longer frequently replaced
Before, the memes in social software always had to be full before they stopped... Sharing memes and buckets with my sisters on a daily basis is also a daily routine, but now it seems that the enthusiasm for memes has dissipated.
It's not so much that the enthusiasm for memes has dissipated, but rather that the enthusiasm for "socializing" has begun to gradually dissipate... Sometimes listening to the sound of the message notification will also feel "scared", do not want to click on, do not want to reply...
If you start to get "bored" with all kinds of news, then you have begun to enter the period of old age.
4. Learn to reconcile with green onions, ginger, garlic and coriander
Things like green onions, ginger, garlic and coriander are extremes. People who like it will like it, and people who don't like it will especially dislike it...
The original you are angular, you can't tolerate a little sand in your eyes, if you don't like it, you don't like it... But now you are slowly being worn by society and gradually losing your edges and corners, and many things cannot be expressed even if you don't like them...
It's like you don't like to socialize at work, but you have to smile every time...
If you're starting to learn to compromise, you're probably starting to get older.
5, the mantra from "no, no, no" to "forget it"
Before you encountered anything, you had to argue with reason, even if you quarreled, you had to deal with things clearly...
But now more and more times, you don't want to waste your tongue. Sometimes you just laugh at things you can't see on social software, or when someone misunderstands you.
Originally, you would have spent a lot of effort to talk at length, but now you may type halfway through, lose the desire to "justify", and then delete all the things you have written... You feel that all those arguments and "clarifications" become unnecessary.
If you start to become "unconcerned," then you may have begun to enter the period of old age.
6, more and more like pink
How much you hated pink before, how much you love pink now.
Seeing cute and pink things start to move, it is said that pink can make people who see it immediately secrete female hormones, that is, make people happy.
But in fact, liking pink also shows that you are becoming more and more romantic and dreamy. It may be that the pain of reality makes you breathless, so "vent" your deepest desire on these cute things...
If you're starting to get girly, you're probably starting to get old.
7, there is wonderful nature in the album, there are interesting things about life, but there is no selfie
In fact, if you flip through your circle of friends, you will find your own changes. A few years ago you might have been able to post 10 a day, and now you may not be able to post 1 feed in 10 days.
In the previous dynamics, you were full of all kinds of selfies, and sometimes you might have to put on makeup and change clothes for selfies, but now your photos may be more of a landscape.
In fact, it is not because you have become lazy, but because your state of mind is different from before, the original you like to indulge in the praise of others, now you cherish the life in front of you more, prefer to live in the present.
If you're starting to become less likely to take selfies, you're probably starting to get older.
8, see the crowded area wants to escape, yearning for comfort, longing for flatness
Do you ever feel that sometimes you want to drop everything and find a place where no one knows you and escape?
I used to like to be lively, but now I feel like I have "social phobia", and I don't want to see people except for extremely good friends.
On the street, I am also alone in wearing headphones and not asking about the world. Seeing an acquaintance will also immediately change directions, for fear that he will find you.
Because many times in life we wear "masks" to see people, that is not the real self.
As we grow older and more experienced, we all want to stay away from contrivedness and hypocrisy, and be true, free, truly happy selves...
If you're becoming more and more inclined to "escape," then you're probably starting to get started.
Some people think that the word "first old" is terrible, but it is not like that.
The first old age should refer to a mature transformation in more sense, and it is also a new stage in your life, and we must accept it calmly.
As Mao Buyi once said: a woman's 40 years old is the new 20 years old.
So don't feel sad about not being able to control the years, and don't sigh because the body is gradually moving away from "youth", each stage of a woman has a unique charm at each stage.
Remember that at every stage of you is a new you, a unique you.
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