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If we live in the same environment for a long time, then for better or worse, our human adaptability is enough to easily integrate into it.
Of course, this kind of good or bad is usually only when we enter a new environment, and we will understand where the disadvantages of the environment we have been in are, and where the characteristics and advantages are.
In a word, when you want to know the quality of the current environment, you must let yourself withdraw from it and go to a new environment in order to have an environment.
We can try to think about the problem that when we are used to loving the person in front of us, for a long time, no matter where the advantages and disadvantages of the other party are, we are completely unaware, or even accept it completely.
But when the day is separated, it will also be clear where the most obvious difference between the predecessor and the current is.
This is a kind of cognition and cognitive experience of others and oneself. Obviously, people with different personalities will have different experiences in this regard, and the environment will also participate in it, subtly changing your views, thoughts and personalities.
This also explains that there are always some people, when they gradually know themselves, go to many places to train themselves, have a more comprehensive, objective and clear understanding of themselves.
Therefore, when they know themselves well enough, once they have suffered from spiritual loss, disappointment, and even coldness, it is difficult to be warmed up.
Because they feel that they can live very well alone, even if they are misunderstood by others as too pure, they will not easily change their original intentions.
virgo
In the heart of Virgo, there is a kind of mind that thinks that they are not accepted by others, and it is difficult to get the love of others.
So in a relationship, their real thoughts in their hearts are that the other party can treat the relationship sincerely and kindly, especially in the relationship, they will take the initiative to find a safe and reliable partner.
Being safe and reliable means that you don't have to be too enthusiastic about your partner, you can respect each other relatively peacefully and moderately, and your love is stable.
Because of the fear of being deceived, slandered, betrayed and other highly lethal injuries, so in many cases, Virgo will always intentionally or unintentionally avoid some gatherings and activities that make them feel inappropriate.
In the long run, Virgos tend to give people a sense of introversion and seriousness.
People with active personalities can hardly mobilize the enthusiasm of Virgos, and it is even more difficult to stimulate their passion. In a way, Virgos have always been particularly fond of self-restraint.
The cold of Virgo, like Capricorn, is not the general cold, it can be called cold violence, when encountering problems, do not communicate, do not explain, do not compromise, do not speak, is a cold.
Especially when their hearts are cold, it is easier to show a look of indifference and nothing to care about, to put it bluntly, at this time, their hearts are already difficult to be warmed.
Because of the Virgo's personality and attitude towards people and things, there is a sense of purity and obsession with water and no fish, and the desire to control is too strong to be strong, and they need others to completely obey them and do as they want.
They do have an obsession and firm belief in life, feelings, and people to pursue perfection, so it is easier to break the jar after being disappointed in one thing.
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