"The big husband is difficult to chase", this sentence believes that everyone is familiar with it, since ancient times, in the communication with people outside, pay attention to a credibility, only those who say what they say can be convincing and eventually succeed.
In ancient times, in order to change the law, Shang Martin also left an allusion to a promise of a thousand gold and wood as a letter, all of which was only to tell the world that he was an honest and trustworthy person, and he could also call on people of insight in the world to come to him.
This idea of honesty has been a fairly important part of Chinese since ancient times, so in modern society, has it been abandoned by the leap in people's thinking?
The answer is naturally no, in modern history, there are still many people who must do what they say, such as the veteran who will be talked about next, in order to keep the promise he once promised, he did not hesitate to contradict his wife, and even to the point of almost divorce.
Winner of first-class merit
The veteran's name is Du Haishan, in fact, he is not an ordinary veteran, in fact, he is also a combat hero during the 1979 self-defense war against Vietnam.
He was even awarded the First Class for His Military Exploits.
Speaking of this kind of merit, I believe that everyone will soon have a general understanding of Du Haishan in their minds, and this merit is often only awarded to those who have made outstanding contributions to the motherland.
It is such a combat hero who survived the self-defense counterattack against Vietnam in good health and health, and also won the honor of first-class merit with his excellent performance, such a person is naturally worthy of our respect.
However, it is somewhat surprising that Du Haishan's family does not seem to be very harmonious, and his wife is quite dissatisfied with him, even in 1984.
His wife also went to court with him, this
Undoubtedly, those who know Du Haishan did not expect it.
Although they were not in the same squad, they had lived together more or less during the army period, so these old comrades-in-arms were well aware of Du Haishan's behavior and personality, and Du Haishan was absolutely unlikely to do anything to apologize to his wife in family life.
And Du Haishan's wife suddenly angrily rebuked Du Haishan's problems in life, which simply made the monk who was the second brother-in-law confused, and after careful questioning, he knew the root cause of the contradiction between the husband and wife.
It turned out that although Du Haishan's status in the army had risen, what made his wife wonder was that Du Haishan's salary was always very meager and almost did not rise.
And Du Haishan's son has also reached the age of studying, and the expenditure will only increase year by year, and the original salary is only a drop in the bucket. In order to find out her husband's economic problems, the wife also repeatedly asked Du Haishan, but every time at this time, Du Haishan did everything possible to shirk and refused to explain the whereabouts of all his income.
The story of a veteran
Such a situation naturally broke her wife's heart for the family in her daily life, and she felt very indignant because of this, and she suspected that Du Haishan had taken part of the family's income to do some ulterior motives.
thereupon
Eventually, the couple went to court
And the wife is actually drunk, she is eager to expose the ins and outs of Du Haishan's money, and at the same time, it is also in order to better raise the children between the two, which has to make this decision.
In the courtroom, Du Haishan finally let go of his tone and told such a story to the judges present, and it turned out that the reason why he did not leave savings had a considerable relationship with the first-class merit he had obtained five years ago.
During the war of self-defense against Vietnam, Du Haishan was awarded such a medal, however, this medal was not only forged by Du Haishan's efforts, but also contained the blood of Du Haishan's former comrades-in-arms.
One day during the war, Du Haishan came with his squad to the old street in Yuebei, ready to wait for the opportunity to make a final breakthrough and end the battle. However, somewhat unexpectedly, this stronghold was extremely strong, and the mere inspection put their squad leader under tremendous pressure.
After thinking about it, Du Haishan's squad leader also hurriedly summoned his companions to an ad hoc meeting, and he announced the grim form and told everyone that they would probably pay the price of blood in this battle.
Of course, such harsh conditions could not shake the soldiers in the slightest, their war spirit was high, as if they were about to come to the city, and the squad leader saw the situation, but also simply explained his own arrangements, and then the conversation turned sharply, talking about the problem of if someone died.
The squad leader told everyone in a serious tone that the combat task this time is very arduous, and I am afraid that after this battle, the comrades present here will also not have one, so it is best for everyone to explain their own affairs in advance.
Sadness filled the squad at once, but these warriors, who had been tested by countless lives and deaths, were soon relieved, and they made only one agreement:
I hope that the teammates who survived can perform filial piety instead of everyone. Under the infection of the atmosphere, the team members naturally agreed in unison.
Keep your word
The battle was as expected, and soon reached a stalemate, and in the end, in order to break through the layers of enemy obstacles, only Du Haishan survived.
Such a tragic and magnificent story is simply a tear for those who hear it, and they did not expect that Du Haishan had personally experienced such a parting of life and death, which made people awe-inspired, and it is no wonder that Du Haishan was able to get the first-class merit, and his first-class merit did not belong to him personally, but was the crystallization of the revolutionary spirit of their entire squad.
After the end of the war, although the state assigned Du Haishan new jobs and tasks, which greatly improved his food, clothing, shelter and transportation, Du Haishan never forgot the sounds and smiles of his former companions.
Du Haishan is naturally very eager to fulfill the instructions of his teammates, which is also to seriously implement the promises he made, so although Du Haishan's salary has increased by a large margin, it is still not enough, after all, you know,
There were twelve men in that squad.
For this reason
Du Haishan divided his salary into twelve parts, which were sent to the corresponding families on time, and they were never cut off for several years
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After learning the fundamental reason why Du Haishan lacked money, Du Haishan's wife's hanging heart was also put down, she changed from the original burial of Du Haishan to the praise for him now, and she also loved Haishan even more, at the same time, she also decided to help Du Haishan take on some responsibilities and send warmth and love to the families who had lost their families.
After du haishan's series of events were spread on the Internet, many people were stunned, and they did not expect that Du Haishan would not hesitate to sacrifice his life and fulfill his promise.
Therefore, countless tourists have traveled thousands of miles to Du Haishan's hometown, and after seeing his true appearance, they have also provided him with financial support without hesitation.
It is said that in just three months, Du Haishan received more than 800,000 yuan in donations
But Du Haishan remained unmoved and donated them to charity.
brief summary:
Du Haishan single-handedly supported the population of twelve families, which is undoubtedly a feat, and it is worth remembering his name.
In fact, in modern times, there are also some historical figures with lofty spirits, and it is precisely because of these good people who exude the brilliance of human nature that all kinds of truth, goodness, and beauty revealed in traditional Chinese culture have been successfully inherited, perhaps because of the complementarity between human beings and human nature, in modern history, our army officers and men can unite as one, with the posture of a lion, to create a myth from the East.