Aquarius people tend to give a dashing impression, as if they don't care about many things and don't put them in their eyes, so that many people think that Aquarius has almost no weaknesses to speak of.
They can face many situations proudly, but in fact, Aquarius's heart may be more fragile than imagined, they also have constraints, but also have worries, so what are their characteristics that are easy to misunderstand?
Why is Aquarius so misleading?
The heart of Aquarius, like the ocean under the ice, is cold on the top, but the inside is choppy and warm, so they are often easy to give people an ungrounded, uninhibited look, making people feel that they are not easily affected and overthrown by anything.
Moreover, Aquarius people are often reluctant to explain, and even if they are misunderstood, they are content with this misunderstanding, because this not only adds to their own mysteriousness, but also makes them appear to be relict and independent.
Aquarius is a person who is willing to be considered maverick, as well as dashing, which is also their view of themselves, but helpless, Aquarius heart is also made of water, they will also have a lot of feelings that have nowhere to vent, therefore, they are often vulnerable, often feel confused and helpless, but they will only leave this side to themselves.
First, there is a sensual side in the bones, but it will be restrained with reason
Aquarius people are often not as "intrusive" as they look on the outside, and their emotional strength is likely to be as much as reason, but the Aquarius personality does not like "mother-in-law", they have an independent personality, and they also hate some overly delicate or flooded feelings, which will make them confused.
Although Aquarius people also have a sentimental side, their strength is that they can use rational control, no matter how much they think, how sad, will not let themselves out of reason, it can be said that they will cry, but the action is in line with objective reality, will not be easy to act willfully.
Second, it looks uninhibited, but in fact there are shackles
Aquarius people often look dashing and uninhibited, but their hearts actually have a lot of constraints, they will care about a lot of things, they will cling to a lot of things, they actually love to worry, will be everything related to themselves, silently do a good job, in their own hands.
This trait will make Aquarius people have a hard and soft side on the outside, they don't seem to care, but in fact, they also have pain inside, even more than the average person.
Deep contact will find that Aquarius is not as carefree as imagined, they will firmly grasp a lot of things in their hands, do not dare to let anything lose, so their weakness is that some out of control, will make them worried.
Third, it seems to be free, but in fact, the defensiveness is also very strong
Aquarius people often look free, but in fact, there are many defenses in their hearts, they are just deep into an environment, or do not know much about others, they will continue to speculate and resist in their hearts, and will not easily express their own views.
They will even pretend that they are not social, or do not like to talk, a little honest, in fact, just want to see everyone in the environment, they will not take the initiative to show enthusiasm, to get closer to people, for social is a more casual, Buddhist attitude.
However, Aquarius has a strong insight, they can perceive the needs and weaknesses of others, so as to prescribe the right medicine, so if you think you can easily communicate with Aquarius, it is a more naïve idea.
Fourth, indifference may only be a manifestation of high posture
Aquarius people sometimes will be more cold to people, even in intimate relationships, there is such a side, but their high cold is more of a high posture performance, they do not like to let others pinch themselves, control their own lives, so simply with a condescending look, let others a little jealous of them, so as to occupy the initiative.
I have to say that this does not mean that Aquarius has any opinions about you, maybe they are not bothered to have opinions about you, many times, this is just the Aquarius way of dealing with the world.
Their high coldness may also be the embodiment of their own inner security, which is a proof of the relatively stable relationship with each other, and a truly insecure Aquarius is somewhat capricious or aggressive.