Aquarius people, in the eyes of many people, belong to the type that is not easy to be controlled, they seem to have a personality, but also very brainy, if you use some tradition or social established rules to demand them, then you will only get Aquarius ruthless ridicule.
They are not vassals of anyone, with an independent character, but at the same time, Aquarius also seems to be maverick, with a tendency to alienate, so what is the property of this alienation?
01 Aquarius: A constellation with a brain and not easily controlled
Aquarius people often have a change instinct, they are used to rebelling against tradition, but also like to "disobey" the meaning of others, that is, if you want to ask them to do something, then even if Aquarius can do it, it will not be executed.
What they care about is an attitude, a "game" of who takes the initiative, so it is not that they cannot listen to others, but they must ensure that they are in the initiative.
Therefore, in the life of Aquarius, it may be full of a kind of "silent smoke", they will sometimes appear relatively cold, not so good at talking, or under the easy-going appearance, reveal a little "don't mess with me" personality style, so that you may find Aquarius very easy-going, but when necessary, it is a little difficult to provoke.
Aquarius life often cares about a sense of boundaries, that is, you must respect their preferences and personal needs, they belong to people with a strong sense of autonomy, and it is not easy to follow the advice of others.
This sense of boundaries in Aquarius often stems from an inner alienation, and they tend to maintain a necessary separation from the outside world, which is not only reflected in their firm control of choice.
At the same time, there is also a prudent sense of observation, the habit of maintaining independence from emotions and the analysis of things, so as to have an objectivity, it is difficult to produce biased thinking because of too much depth.
I have to say that Aquarius's sense of alienation is actually an emotional "isolation", derived from their distrust of emotions, or do not like to communicate and express the mentality, they would rather bury everything in their hearts, do not like to have too deep interaction with people, but also afraid to expose their vulnerability to others, they always like themselves to be high posture and high self-esteem.
02 Where is Aquarius's sense of alienation reflected?
1, the appearance is easy-going, kind, in fact, there is a defensive heart
Most Aquarius people are more easy-going and kind in appearance, but in fact, their easy-going people are permeated with some dark poking observation and resistance.
Aquarius erupts into a strong sense of resistance as soon as someone tries to break through their lines, or doesn't follow the steps they've set to get along, gets into their lives too quickly, or is asked what they don't want to say.
They may take care of him, or simply show their strong attitude, in short, Aquarius needs to control the proportions of their own getting along, not too aggressive.
2, it is difficult to show weakness, and only when there is no one to show the emotional side
Aquarius people, often difficult to show weakness, they do not like to show their fragile side, although people have joys and sorrows, but Aquarius will be more inclined to show a rational side, as well as optimistic and positive emotions.
This is because they feel vulnerable, which represents a "humble" mentality, a feeling of being worse than others, which the arrogant Aquarius will not allow.
Even if they are really sad, they will only show up when they are no one, or when they are facing the people closest to them, and it can be said that Aquarius is not without vulnerability, but knows how to hide.
3, can flex and stretch, do not want to explain the misunderstanding
Aquarius people tend to have the trait of being able to bend and stretch, and when they feel that others are really reasonable, or that they are misunderstood, they have a hard time explaining anything, and they don't want to explain anything.
They prefer silence instead of language, let others interpret it, rather than blindly seek justice for themselves, many times, when they feel that it is useless to say more, they will keep their mouths shut, not only because they are really calm, but more importantly, their sense of alienation makes them feel worthy of themselves, without paying attention to the attitude of others.