I don't know if there are such people around everyone, they are suspicious by nature, as if they are cold and thin. But when you really walk into his heart, you will find that his heart is actually warm. Maybe as the saying goes: You've lived through the past he's been through, and you'll feel sad too.
People have feelings, not all plants and trees. There is nothing wrong with slow-heating people, but the wrong people who say forever but choose to give up. In feelings, the most tragic thing is not that the ruthless person says love, but the sentient person takes it seriously.
People who are suspicious by nature and want to protect themselves are not wrong, not to mention that some of them are serious in a relationship, which is deeply rooted in love.
01 Virgo
Virgos are actually very sensitive, and they are always suffering from gain and loss in their emotions. And they will pay great attention to the small details that many people ignore, whether it is in a family relationship, or a friendship, or in a lingering love.
Suffice it to say, Virgo is a very detailed control. Will be moved by some warm little details, but also because of some bad small details and doubts about a person. So in fact, in any long-term stable relationship, Virgo is quite tired.
There are some things that you don't think are necessary, but they are big things in the eyes of Virgo.
For example, if what you give to Virgo is the same as what you give to others, then this kind of love, Virgo would rather not. Because what Virgo wants is preference! Either you don't want it at all, or you want it all. Virgo is very good at details, she is suspicious by nature, it takes a long time to trust a person, but what is valuable is that the true feelings of Virgo are quality and quantity. You treat her well enough, and she'll double down on paying you back.
02 Cancer
Cancer, like Virgo, can be as tangled as it can be.
In the relationship they always love to fantasize, fantasize about crises that don't exist, or misunderstandings, and fall in love with Cancer people, and they will find that Cancer is very insecure. But in fact, Cancer is a person who can be coaxed by a warm look and a short hug.
Because their minds are too delicate and their emotions are too energetic, they always love harder and more tangled in love. Because they are often suspicious by nature, see a lot of details, may not say it, but more and more depressed, so they will live more and more tired.
Maybe it is rare to be confused in life, or to see too clearly, is not a good thing, some people are confused, but live very happy, people who see too clearly and too clearly, but are not happy.
03 Scorpio:
To say suspicious people, so is Scorpio.
Scorpio's sensibility requires a lot of emotional fulfillment and cooperation. Just as a child needs a playmate, Scorpio needs emotional feedback, and it's a strong response. So Scorpio will often grasp a little detail to compete with you, asking why you are not doing enough, why you are not responding to him, and so on.
So emotionally, Scorpio is very easy to be anxious, Scorpio anxiety will unconsciously control the outbreak of desire, possessiveness, but they often suppress their emotions, so you will find that Scorpio's actions are often bizarre, the key is that he does not tell you what is wrong? Why?
So Scorpio is more and more depressed, but also the more tired the type. And the people who fall in love with them also suffer from "sadomasochistic" love. So if you love Scorpio, be a little more patient, wait for him, help him. Listen to the voice of the Scorpion: If you are willing to wait patiently, maybe we will love for a long time.
Or that human nature itself is very complex, and so are human desires and emotions. If in a relationship, even if you love him deeply, but you have no patience, the final result may not be good.
I've always liked patient people because they can wait, endure, and naturally get more, and in a relationship, patience is actually more important than character. When friction arises, when a person wants to give up, when a quarrel is impulsive, but when a person has a little more patience, the feelings have more room to turn.
In fact, every relationship is full of sorrow and joy, love and hate. As the saying goes, a loving couple or lover has 100 thoughts of divorce and 50 urges to strangle each other in their lives. So the sweetest thing is not that I love you, but that I have patience with you now and will have it later.