Jessica Alba, 40, took her family on a beach vacation, and she shared a photo of herself diving that shook me.
Accustomed to seeing the swimsuit display of Hollywood beauties, the first time I met someone wearing "bicycle shorts" to go diving.
Unlike the hot girls who wear a few lines in front of the camera and show off their bodies, Jessica chose functional sports gear.
Looking at the photo of her and her family, the conservative dress, it is really a clear stream.
Although the screen image is extremely sexy, it never relies on the body to sell eyeballs in private. Especially as a mother of 3 children, I pay more attention to my own image and choices.
As a multinational mixed-race, Jessica's entry into the entertainment industry with her beauty can be described as smooth sailing. Nancy of "Sin City" twisted casually, twisted into the hearts of the audience.
The Fantastic Four, which took advantage of the chase, established Jessica's place in Hollywood.
Although not the C big heroine, Jessica's presence cannot be ignored. Even if she is in a semi-retired state when she gets married and has children, the media and the audience have never forgotten her.
27 is the best age for an actress, but Jessica chose to marry filmmaker Money Warren.
13 years of love is like the first birth of 3 children, both children and daughters. While accompanying children to grow up, entrepreneurship is successful. From actresses crossing over to female bosses, she often appears in some commercial programs.
Yi WuYi took care of the early marriage of the young, the focus is not on men, relying on themselves, such an inspirational beauty, it is difficult to make people dislike. Jessica has a very good relationship with her parents, it is a rare cookie.
Compared with the 40-year-old Alba whose charm did not diminish that year, the recent photos of her 2-year-old husband are quite old.
Warren's group photo with his father-in-law in the pool, at first glance, thought to be of the same age, but a closer look at the two white hairs is at least a brotherhood.
The point is that two people look particularly alike, whether it is the skin color, the direction of wrinkles, the feeling of facial features, or the curvature of the smile. After it was known that it was Jessica's father who didn't wear the hat, if I didn't read the cap, I would think that it was Jessica's second uncle who wore the baseball cap.
However, good looks can not be eaten as a meal, and it is more important for men to be reliable.
From Jessica's state, it is not difficult to find that in addition to the self-discipline of female stars, the happiness brought by marriage makes her smile still sweet and has a kind of brilliance that cannot be hidden.
In fact, it is not difficult to see from Jessica's family trip how "sober" she is!
First of all, family affection is sometimes the most difficult relationship to deal with, but Jessica maintains closeness with her original family while successfully running a small family.
Even if there are no poor relatives, Jessica, as an actress and entrepreneur, is the richest one in the family. How not to be treated as a wrongdoer, and not to be questioned when sharing more, Versailles, balance needs art.
Let me give you an example.
The kardashian daughters each have money, but Kelly. Jenna is the richest of the $1 billion richest, so the sisters think that the sister should pay for the family trip. Kelly had spoken openly about the issue and felt that the money was reluctant to pay.
The logic should be: we are sisters, willing to pay the bill under the premise of ability. It should not be turned into an obligation because of who is more profitable, and it is not appreciated.
In large-scale collective activities, it is difficult to achieve equality for everyone, everyone is self-conscious, Jessica should have put a lot of effort, in addition to being sober, there is a certain leadership.
Secondly, knowing what you want, female stars can also harvest the happiness of ordinary people.
With Jessica's appearance and fame, it is not difficult to marry a rich aristocrat, or to find a good-looking actor. But she chose half a circle of people of the same age, no high climbing, and a common language.
The relationship between Warren and Jessica's entire family is also closer to the state of ordinary people, which shows that Jessica has a lot of vision.
Married for 13 years without a moth, Jessica's protective but honest attitude towards the family made the paparazzi respect her very much. Except for Jessica's active photos posted on social media, there were no photographers squatting and shooting across the shore.
It is precisely because Alba is determined in every choice and knows exactly what she is doing, so that she has no "point of view". Even the dress of the beach vacation is so conservative, the paparazzi squatting is also a white squat.
Finally, a compliment to Jessica's "wardrobe."
It is normal to wear bikini on the beach or sunbathing abroad, and her relatives in the same frame as Jessica wear cool clothes, but she wears a skirt that does not show anything like a "rice dumpling".
First, as mentioned above, do not create a flashpoint for foreign media. One more piece of clothing, one less chance to get in touch with the paparazzi.
Second, and more importantly, to set an example for your daughter.
When Cardi B sang the song of Puxi, when he shouted about physical freedom and freedom of dress in North America, it was not so much freedom as it was freedom.
Jessica taught her daughter to learn self-love and self-protection. Especially at a young age, it is easy to be brainwashed by people around you and mainstream slogans.
And Jessica didn't wear it this time on vacation, she almost always wore a blouse when she went to the beach, which was in stark contrast to other tourists. Wardrobe decent!
As a beneficiary of beauty, Jessica knows too well what "objectifying women" is. It was because she was sober that she added an extra piece of clothing to herself. As a woman, a mother, a leader, it is easy to go with the flow, but it is difficult to go against the grain.
Bless the wise woman Jessica. Alba!