Marriage issues are getting more and more attention, and they are also a hot topic of discussion!
Tang Yixin, who has starred in film and television works such as "The Biography of Zhen Huan", "The Legend of Lu Zhen", "Come on Lovers", "Qingyunzhi", "The Alliance of Military Teachers", "Alone in the World" and other film and television works, also expressed his opinions on marriage, let's see how Teacher Tang analyzed it!
Tang Yixin's opinion on the depreciation of women in second marriage published this time summarized: "Why does it depreciate if you think that you are a second marriage in practice? It is the world's ideas that are affected, the people around you, your colleagues, your family or your friends, once one of them looks at you with such a devalued second marriage, you will be affected, that is, you are difficult, that is, you are strong enough to say that it does not matter. Or some, in the face of some more realistic problems, such as having children, this is a more complicated situation of a family relationship, that can not be sustained, that is not an obstacle, then in a sense, as if it has depreciated, is how much love, can withstand so many tests? It's really hard.
Retrospective Yu Gui believes that Teacher Tang's analysis has a certain truth!
First, the question of depreciation depends on two aspects:
1, whether you are strong or not - if you define yourself as a loser of divorce and a fallen of feelings, then there will be inferiority, and even an inferiority complex. It mainly depends on your own mentality;
2, the courage to face the reality, to make up for their own shortcomings in the original marriage, remarriage is not necessarily a bad thing, and the second marriage of happy families is also very many. Because they have grown up in the experience of their first marriage, they may cherish the next companionship even more!
Secondly, the problem of worldly vision: personal opinion - in fact, the earth leaves everyone, and don't care too much about the eyes of others, you will find the emergence of time, the real a good thing, it can make up for and stitch up any wound, and the worldly focus often disappears in a few days!
3, the days are going forward, not going back.
The reason why people are miserable is that they always live in the past and cannot get out. There is a famous saying: The greatest luck of mankind is that God has given us the feeling of the seven passions and six desires, but sadly, people are usually trapped in the seven passions and six desires and cannot escape.
Who is the day for? Of course it's myself!
4, for the mother Zegang: We have witnessed countless women, after divorce with children, still live a wonderful life.
After the experience of marriage, only more mature
Through continuous growth, there will be a higher level
Remarriage, like the first marriage, is also the union of men and women who admire each other, and should be psychologically satisfied with love.