Uncle Lover's Introduction:
There is nothing in the world that will never be lost, according to the materialistic dialectic, everything is in the contradiction of opposites and unity, gain and loss are a pair of very common contradictions, gain and loss are not only at the same time, but also in each other's direction, what you get is moving towards loss, and some of what you lose will also come back in another way, and loss may also be a kind of gain.
In the relationship, for people who are separated, there is a very common saying that "it will be separated, it does not belong to you, it really belongs to you, and it will not be separated." This sentence is a good expression of what is gained and lost in love.
Can't put down, reluctant, can't get, can't come, some feelings will be broken when it is time to break, only people will still not be able to put down, think back repeatedly in the heart, but not all things are remembered, there will be echoes, more is only so strong to endure the pain, try to pile this matter in the most corner of the heart, try to slowly forget.
However, think about it in turn, without this relationship, you can usher in the next paragraph, although no one can be sure that their next relationship will be better than the previous one, but those unknown encounters in life make life so expectant. End a relationship that has reached the end of the line in order to have the key to open the unknown.
In addition to the gains and losses in the relationship, there are also gains and losses in the career. Every career change is actually a big change. People are born to like a more comfortable environment, because in such an environment, it is equivalent to being in the comfort zone, gaining and losing are relatively small, and the blow that can be given to people will not be very large. For example, just like the examination of a compilation, the work in the compilation system will be more stable and the risk will be less, but in the same way, the things obtained may be more limited. Here is the dialectical unity of gain and loss, stability and comfort, and what is lost is challenges and opportunities.
Changes in your career will be accompanied by a lot of uneasiness, like a departure, after leaving a lot of problems will come up, lose your job, and lose your financial resources, but when you decide to resign, it means that you can get a new environment and people and things that you have not been exposed to for a limited time, and maybe you can also get unexpected development.
Therefore, loss is never a very directional word, loss does not represent misfortune, this may just be the beginning of another journey, even the plot of the animated series I watched as a child will have ups and downs, gain and loss overlap with each other, let alone life.
Uncle Epilogue:
There has never been anything in the world that is set in stone, thirty years of Hedong, thirty years of Hexi, it is such efforts and choices that seem meaningful, gain and loss is a choice, no one behind the option can predict, so this is the Tao without an answer to the multiple choice question, just like life, there is no answer, but before making this choice, I hope you can do it without regretting it.