"If it seems that the moon wheel is finally clean, do not give up the ice and snow for the heat."
As we all know, Naran Rongruo is a sentimental and affectionate famous lyricist. Although he was born into a family of princes and nobles, he did not have a good result in love.
Most of the words he wrote gave people a sad and sad mood.
This poem is his work written to his deceased wife Lu Shi, in order to reunite with his deceased wife, even if it is a big price for him.
And the price here is to quote the story of Xun Cang, a talented man in the Wei and Jin dynasties.
Speaking of Xun Cang, most people may not know who it is, but when it comes to his father Xun Yu, he must be much more famous, he is a generation of warlords under Cao Cao, who assisted Cao Cao in unifying the north and managing the military of the court, known as "Wang Zuo's talent".
As Xun Yu's youngest son, Xun Yu died at a young age at the age of twenty-nine.
Because of his famous birth, Xun Cang received a good education from an early age, and had a unique insight into the ideas and doctrines of the Guren people, and therefore, he was relatively high-minded and did not like to communicate with ordinary people, and has always been gathered among literati and students.
In the society at that time, Confucianism could be said to be the mainstream value, but for those who were left by the sages, the Six Arts Sutra was highly respected by others, but he was not serious.
In his view, those classics are only the most superficial and unbearable products, and the real truth can never be expressed in simple images and words.
In addition, for the status of women, Xun Cang also has a different view from ordinary people.
Generally speaking, a woman should follow her words and deeds, teach her husband and children at home, manage the affairs of the back house, and take care of everything behind her husband, which is the standard of a good wife.
However, Xun Yue felt that as long as a woman was beautiful, any talent was illusory.
Naturally, this cannot be recognized by others, but others cannot change his cognition.
In order to prove his argument, he heard that the daughter of General Cao Hong was as beautiful as a flower, and his heart was very happy, so he sent someone to propose to him.
General Cao Hong, considering the status and ability of his father Xun Yu, was very satisfied with the marriage and responded happily.
In order to show respect and love for beauty, the kissing scene is very gorgeous and luxurious, and Xun Cang's exclusive pet Cao Shi has reached the point where he is afraid to hold it in the palm of his hand and hold it in his mouth.
The two men raised their eyebrows, the two were deeply in love, and their lives were harmonious and beautiful.
However, happy times are always short-lived. One day in the cold winter, Cao Shi had a fever and a high fever that did not go away.
The snow was heavy outside, and the cold was bone-chilling, but it could not lower Cao's body temperature after all.
No matter how many competent doctors are hired, there is no way to treat this disease.
Xun Cang was impatient, and in desperation came up with a method. He ran into the yard, stood on the snow, let the wind blow the snow, froze himself into a popsicle, and then went into the house to hug his wife and use his own cold to cool her.
After waiting for the heat, he ran out to suffer from the cold, and so on, but Cao Shi still did not get better, and Xun Cang also froze a body.
Soon after, Cao Shi still did not resist the invasion of the disease and died.
Many friends have come to persuade Xun Yue to mourn and change, take care of the body, and some people use his previous remarks to persuade him that there are more women with posture in the world, and without this can be found again.
However, Xun Yue did not listen, for him, there were many beautiful women, but he only cared about Cao Shi.
Originally thought that Xun Yue valued appearance and ignored talent, would be an amorous and lustful playboy, but he did not expect that once he was in love, there would be no room for anything else in his eyes.
Soon, because of physical weakness and heart sorrow, Xun Cang also died with his wife.
This good story has been passed down to this day, some people think that Xun Cang is obsessed with femininity and does not do the right thing, but some people think that he is loyal and affectionate, no matter what, in the era at that time, a man could only stick to one woman in his life, and this dedication was indeed admirable.