Liang Shuang
Rational Scorpio
Cure confusion, glass heart, screwing disease
Ignite your self-disciplined heart
Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei's marriage dispute continues to dominate the headlines.
In the long essay by Wang Lihong's wife, Li Lianglei, I think the real horror is to point out the plight of housewives.
"Many of the housewives around me do not have their own savings or income, and they usually feel embarrassed to use the money earned by my husband, and I will look at my husband's face with money, and I will never dare to say that I want to take care of my parents."
Women who have been family-oriented for a long time and have not worked outside the home are usually overwhelmed if they have done nothing wrong, but are forced to divorce because the man has no legitimate reason.
So girls! Be sure to take precautions before they happen. ”
When Li Lianglei married Wang Lihong at that time, she felt that Li Lianglei had fallen from the sky, graduated from Princeton University with a bachelor's degree, graduated from Columbia University with a graduate degree, and worked at JPMorgan Chase after graduation, and was promoted to assistant vice president in only 2 years.
Some people question li lianglei's academic qualifications, even if it is "before the fraud", Li Lianglei's academic qualifications are still good.
From Li's writing, we can see her logic and ability, when the man is looking for his mother and his father, Li Lianglei responds without anger or anger, and is reasonable and well-founded.
Relevant people sent various long explanatory texts, Li Lianglei four or two thousand pounds, the tree ashes and smoke.
Rumors say that Li Lianglei's name was changed by the Wang family, and The Big Brother was contacted by the Wang family to gild it, but I said that she was forced to sign an unequal agreement before marriage, and after marriage, her property was transferred clean, and she did not get the respect of the whole family.
In the long text, every sentence I saw revealed "not free" between the lines, and I had to pay for it, and the other party had to make progress.
Since the age of 16, she has become a wife of a "cultivation system" and a "tool man", giving birth to three children in a row, raising children alone, and even the birthday of the child is generously absent.
Even if you know before marriage that your husband loves to play, you still have to get married, even if your husband doesn't leave home after marriage, but your husband still has an iron heart to leave, because he is worried that "he will meet a girl he likes in the future, and he does not want her to be wronged and said to be a little three."
Some people say that this is a marriage-phobic trick every day, I think that housewives without economic income, there is no labor law protection, marriage law protection is limited, can only rely on the character of the husband and his family. The palm of the hand is upward, it is difficult to jump ship, which is really high risk.
Li Lianglei's long article reminds me of the lines of "Tokyo Women's Picture Book":
"If a woman would choose a rich man, what kind of woman would a man choose?"
"A woman who has nothing, no dreams of her own, no ideals, just women who naively and romantically support his dreams."
I hope that Li Lianglei can be possessed by "Zhang Lan", to be precise, by Zhang Lan who ran away from the unsmooth marriage and laid down the Jiangshan with his bare hands.
Zhang Lan is the former mother-in-law of Big S, gave birth to Wang Xiaofei, quarreled with her ex-husband for money, went to Canada, worked day and night, returned to China with 20,000 US dollars to start a business, put down her love injuries, specialized in career, she really has two brushes.
Make an industry hit
Time multiplied by influencers equals brands, and influencers are not easy to do.
Many years ago, passing through Shenzhen Nanshan Coastal City, seeing the pretty Jiangnan, it felt like a hit, the media people know the importance of the title, the author knows the importance of the title, and "Pretty Jiangnan", "Haidilao" and "Xicha" are the names of restaurants that have a sense of explosive sight at a glance.
Sichuan cuisine restaurant pretty Jiangnan, the word "Jiangnan" makes people have a sense of artistic conception of Jiangnan water town, the prefix of a "pretty" increases the agility, aura and vitality, LOGO is a huge Peking Opera face, there is recognition and eye-catching, there is a sense of nationality and international style, deeply creative, the pattern is atmospheric.
I believe that there are many shops with better tastes than pretty Jiangnan, but why it can be linked to the Olympic Games and the World Expo, from the design and tone, it has natural advantages.
As early as before the beautiful Jiangnan, Zhang Lankai's restaurant was called "Alan Restaurant", she ran to PiXian County, Sichuan, took the bamboo workers to cut bamboo, and used the train to transport these 13 meters long, thick bowl bamboo to Beijing, and the combination of novel decoration and dishes made diners come to visit.
Later, Zhang Lan opened a seafood restaurant in the Asian Games Village, and the decoration was still designed by her, and the style was Chinese garden style, creating an atmosphere of birds and flowers.
Zhang Lan seems to have mastered the explosive logic of the catering industry, featuring locations + novel decoration + popular tastes, and then taking advantage of the momentum.
Borrow the momentum of the times
In 1991, the 34-year-old Zhang Lan found the opportunity of reform and opening up business, believing that Beijing was a political, economic, cultural and entertainment center, and that there was a future in doing catering in Beijing, returning to Beijing with $20,000 from working in Canada and opening a restaurant "Alan Restaurant" in Dongsi.
In 2000, Zhang Lan sold all three restaurants, plus savings, totaling 60 million yuan, and opened the first beautiful Jiangnan.
Pretty Jiangnan positioning high-end catering brand, the store decoration is luxurious, elegant furnishings, has become a well-known high-end restaurant chain brand in China.
In order to enhance the brand influence, in 2008, Zhang Lan made the pretty Jiangnan operation the only Chinese food service provider officially designated by the Olympic Games. In the same year, it became a catering service provider for the Shanghai World Expo.
In 2009, Zhang Lan ranked among the top three in Hurun's list, with a wealth valuation of 2.5 billion. There is a star daughter-in-law, which is a good opportunity to expand and start to introduce capital. This battle was not fought as she wished, losing control of Pretty Jiangnan.
Ben reached the retirement age, Zhang Lan aimed at the dividends of the Internet and made a short video. The style is changeable, catching horses, noblewomen, cooking, chicken soup, drama, she has been groping, has been bringing goods, her son divorced, and did not delay the pace of her making money.
Turn setbacks into passbooks
Don't think that Zhang Lan has failed in the capital game, in other words, you will think that Hu Weiwei, who founded Mobike, has realized hundreds of millions of dollars, and leaving the company is a failure?
I think it is very fortunate to take advantage of the last afterglow of the beautiful Jiangnan to realize.
At that time, Zhang Lan introduced CDH Capital, CDH gave Zhang Lan 200 million, accounting for about 10% of the shares, agreed to be listed within 4 years of Pretty Jiangnan, CDH cashed out, if it failed to go public, Pretty Jiangnan repurchased, took 400 million shares to buy back.
It is estimated that Zhang Lan believes that the listing of Pretty Jiangnan is appropriate, and even if it is repurchased, it is not bad money.
But people are not as good as the sky, that year, it was 8 regulations, and it was a financial crisis, high-end catering was affected, and almost all IPO applications in the catering industry were frozen.
Zhang Lan can't get on A shares, panicked, changed her nationality to go to Hong Kong stocks, attempted, she can't come up with 400 million cash to buy back.
So the vicious domino is about to erupt, the listing attempt triggers the share repurchase clause, and no money to repurchase triggers the dinghui to start the sale right clause (minority shareholders have no right to speak, the market rarely undertakes, because many people want to buy to buy the controlling right, so DINGhui realizes that good, after finding the gold lord, the shares of CDH and Zhang Lan are all sold), and the company sells into a liquidation event, and triggers the preferential settlement clause (the liquidation money is first given to DINGhui, and the rest is given to Zhang Lan).
Later, CDH found the next CVC, it is said that for 300 million US dollars to acquire Pretty Jiangnan, CVC hopes that Zhang Lan will continue to participate in the operation as a small shareholder, so Zhang Lan more than a billion cash bags for Safety, but also has more than ten percent of the equity of Pretty Jiangnan.
Looking back, whether passive or active, Zhang Lan was crooked.
There are policies that are not good for high-end hotels, and there is pressure brought about by rapid expansion, coupled with the decline after the son takes over, what a good stop loss opportunity, no longer love war, high point to sell.
Women like Zhang Lan are full of controversy, and many people feel that they are too pretentious, vain, high-profile, bragging, rubbing traffic, and insincere...
The first time I heard about Zhang Lan, it was after the wedding of her son and daughter-in-law, that her friend Wang Jianlin sponsored the wedding, and then said a lot of words that made people roll their eyes when they heard it, that her son was a Manchu nobleman Zheng Huangqi, and that he was a descendant of Cixi...
Sometimes I have to understand Wang Sicong's psychological activities for ten years as a whole day.
Zhang Lan let the strong character daughter-in-law Big S abandon the habit of eating vegetarian for many years, only sent a child photo after Big S desperately gave birth, she blatantly liked and could not see the grandchildren complaining about Big S's message, the photo of Wang Xiaofei's gossipy girlfriend, the son said that rough mouth can indiscriminately protect the calf ...
Ms. Zhang Lan performed online what is called "just like to see if you can't get used to me and can't kill me".
But think deeply about why this woman has such freedom.
Born in a small place, Zhang Lan, who has no academic qualifications, met Wang Xiaofei's father at the age of 18 and fell in love at first sight, took the initiative to court, and Fengzi got married and became an accountant in a soy products factory.
Because Wang Xiaofei's father's career is not smooth, the family is full of quarrels, Zhang Lan left his son at home, went abroad to work, earned 20,000 yuan in 3 years, came back to take away his son, divorced, started a business, can only start from the catering industry with no threshold, has a life of making a big fuss behind him, and his son's life of low opening and high walking.
Zhang Lan saw the situation of the times clearly, ate the dividends of the times, and in an interview in his early years, he said that he only gave himself the opportunity to cry once a year.
Can bear hardships, can use the brain, has courage, has vitality, always learns, always tosses, always energetic, may be the first half of life grinding is uncomfortable enough, and then they want to do what they want, find an artist husband, at every turn to shoot some works of art home, at home, obviously have the right to speak.
If you don't work hard, you can make a big fuss.
Today, Li Lianglei and Zhang Lan are linked together, these two female vegetarians, one looks like a smooth road, dignified and quiet, well-educated, everything is so decent, one looks like life is up and down, whirring, can't talk about high education, feels a little tacky.
But they live very different lives in the real families they live in.
Although it is unbearable to tear up, it is still more unbearable to tear up the family to show others than to help the family tear others.
I watched Li Lianglei on Weibo surrounded by many people, but I didn't appreciate her, and I admired Zhang Lan for the first half of her life as an entrepreneur.
Fortunately, Li Lianglei is married to a big star, when she complains or beats people, she gets the attention and support of the public, in the "Hammer of Lei God" vs "The Power of Panic", she does not take compensation and alimony, and the masses do not agree.
But what if the husband didn't cheat but still was cold and violent to her? What if she just marries an unknown but rich man? Who listened to her grievances, who helped her out?
Li Lianglei's special case certainly does not need us to worry about.
But for most of us women, it's important to be wary of the risks of long-term separation from the workforce.
(Two sentences of Ms. Zhang Lan's chicken soup and Jun Gongmian)
China Women's Daily also stressed in "Melon" that retaining the competitiveness of the workplace is still the most secure choice.
Now women are more and more afraid to do "love brain", in fact, the "love brain" that lives well has a "career brain" to protect.
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