A person's IQ is important, and emotional intelligence is the most important. IQ is responsible for career, emotional intelligence is responsible for life. But many poets are superior in IQ and low emotional intelligence, and have turned the original good life into a tragedy, such as the modern poet Gu Cheng, who killed his wife.
Gu Cheng was born in 1956, and his father was also a poet. Living in a cultural family since childhood, Gu Cheng is smart and clever, the teenager became famous, he could publish poetry when he was a teenager, he began to travel to Europe in 1987 to do cultural exchanges, and in 1988 he lived in New Zealand's Rapids Island to concentrate on writing poetry, this kind of fairy life made many people envious and could not get, but Gu Cheng lived into a tragedy.
In the summer of 1979, Gu Cheng met a very beautiful girl on the train from Shanghai to Beijing, this girl was named Xie Ye, she had bright eyes and teeth, and she smiled smartly. So Gu Cheng fell in love with Xie Ye and pursued Xie Ye desperately.
Xie Ye also fell in love with Gu Cheng, but Xie Ye's parents did not agree to their love. So the persistent Gu Cheng slept in front of Xie Ye's house and ran to Xie Ye's house to eat. This way of clinging was really speechless, and later Xie Ye's mother saw Gu Cheng's poems and felt that Gu Cheng was a talented young man, so she agreed to their marriage.
Gu Cheng married his beloved girl Xie Ye, and his career was also very successful. In 1987, Gu Cheng was invited to visit Europe and the United States to carry out cultural exchanges and lectures. A year later, he moved to New Zealand and was hired as a Researcher in the Department of Asian Languages at the University of Auckland. Of course, he took his wife Xie Ye with him.
Later, Gu Cheng resigned from the University of Auckland, and the couple settled on Waihei Island, focusing on growing vegetables, raising chickens, painting and writing on the island, which is really the life of the fairy companion. But it was Gu Cheng who was happy, not Xie Ye.
In the days after marriage, Xie Ye did not live a beautiful life. Gu Cheng is a "giant baby", he can't do anything except write poetry, don't do housework, all the affairs of his life rely on Xie Ye, he relies on Xie Ye like a baby depends on his mother.
Gu Cheng did not allow Xie Ye to have children, because he only wanted Xie Ye to have only one man in the world, not even their sons. Xie Ye was pregnant, and Gu Cheng asked Xie Ye to beat the fetus. However, after the woman got married, she still longed to be a mother, and later Xie Ye gave birth to a son, Xiao Mu'er.
Gu Cheng, who became a father, did not rejoice, he did not like his son Xiao Mu'er, often scolded Xiao Mu'er, and even stopped when Xiao Mu'er was playing on the sofa when he was two years old, kicked Xiao Mu'er off the sofa, and the pain caused Xiao Mu'er to cry.
In desperation, Xie Ye could only send Xiao Mu'er to a Maori old lady's house for foster care. Gu Cheng's world cannot have a biological son, but it can have another woman, and this woman is the young and beautiful female poet Ying'er.
Ying'er is a fan of Gu Cheng, and she admires Gu Cheng very much, and Gu Cheng also falls in love with Ying Er. Ying Er came to Riptide Island to live together with Gu Cheng and his wife. Gu Cheng believes that his two women should not only get along harmoniously, but also be like sisters.
Xie Ye got along well with Ying'er, there was no contradiction, but she was definitely unhappy in her heart, and no one wanted the existence of a third party in her life. In front of Xie Ye, Gu Cheng did not hide his love for Ying'er at all.
In the common life, Ying Er discovered Gu Cheng's shortcomings, she did not love Gu Cheng, so she eloped with a foreign old man. Gu Cheng was very sad and wrote a book for her, called "Ying'er".
Xie Ye was very disappointed in Gu Cheng, she decided to leave Gu Cheng, Gu Cheng was furious, cut Xie Ye with an axe, Xie Ye was injured and fell to the ground, Gu Cheng wrote four suicide notes, and then hanged himself on a tree, Xie Ye died a few hours later.
Gu Cheng is talented, but his personality is paranoid, his emotional intelligence is low, he is self-centered, and he does not care about his wife's feelings, and eventually harms his wife and himself, becoming a tragedy.