Treasure Girl, the word doesn't know when it began to permeate our lives.
It refers to a girl who seems to have advantages that can never be exhausted.
You may think that she is already very good, but after a deeper understanding, you will find that she has some strengths or advantages that you did not expect.
Everyone's advantages are limited, but the reason why a girl is considered a "treasure girl" is often because she has some particularly significant advantages, and due to the effect of the "halo effect", we will continue to find some "plus points" in her.
In fact, to become a "treasure girl" is not as difficult as we think, because everyone's potential is unlimited, all we need to do is to let our own advantages be discovered and seen by others.
Step 1: Believe in your own beauty
In different cultures and eras, people have different definitions and cognitions of beauty.
For example, in ancient times, fat was beautiful, while modern times were beautiful with thinness.
Wanting to portray herself as a beautiful little sister of mainstream culture may be the inner thought of most ordinary girls.
For the "treasure girls", they just want to find their own unique beauty.
Appearance is important, and a person who doesn't value her exterior can also make people lose the motivation to understand her heart.
A "treasure girl" doesn't necessarily feel amazing, but she must be someone who spends a lot of thought on her own dress, and is very comfortable at first glance, and many times, may belong to the kind of second-eyed beauty that looks better and better.
There are many kinds of beauty, and if you can believe in your own beauty, then you add a definition of beauty to the world.
Step 2: Be curious and love to learn
Although appearance is important, but a little sister who does not know anything, just a good-looking little sister, will you be prone to "aesthetic fatigue"?
Yes, beauty cannot withstand the "destruction" of time, no matter how good it is, after looking at it for a long time, it is like that - two eyes, a nose and a mouth, may be slightly neatly arranged.
A girl's real treasure is often her knowledge, hobbies, social skills, etc.
Only by having some information and abilities that others lack can people truly feel their own value.
The essence of social networking is emotional communication and information acquisition, knowledge and skill reserves, that is, in the process of socialization, it is much more important than the appearance of the "treasure".
Step Three: Love Life and Live Happily
Would you turn a girl with a sad face all day into a "treasure girl"?
It should not be, in our "treasure house", those optimistic and cheerful girls, we may be called treasure girls.
Because a person's happiness will infect others, when we get along with the "treasure girls", we can also infect their inner happiness.
Many times, we think of happiness as a "selfish" thing, but in fact, true happiness comes from accepting ourselves, understanding others, and having long-term goals and beliefs.
A happy person often does not feel angry because of the behavior of others, because they can better understand the situation and practices of others, can see the problem from the perspective of others, and therefore will not be indignant because of the "fault" of others.
A "treasure girl" often has a super ability to be happy, but also can bring happiness to others, such a girl, will anyone not like it?
In life, we will continue to receive other people's evaluation of ourselves.
Some are positive, some are negative.
Each voice represents a perspective and a perspective, a way for us to examine ourselves.
But for each individual, our feelings are always the most important, because our hearts are our own treasures.
We are in an information age, receiving all kinds of disturbing information every day, and quietness has become a precious force.
Treasure doesn't have to be an asset, sometimes, it can be a quality.
A treasure girl may not be a "rich" girl, but it must be someone who can read herself in the chaotic information age.