Love is always easy to make people confused.
No matter how sober you were before, once you have feelings for a person, many things will begin to be unclear.
They will no longer always be able to look at things rationally, and sometimes, they will not even be able to tell whether the other party loves themselves or not.
It's as if your own judgment suddenly becomes weaker, not even gone.
In order to be able to figure out whether the other party loves themselves, they will think about the details of getting along, will always ask others, and will search on the Internet in various ways, hoping to get a fixed answer.
Unfortunately, no matter what method was used and how many people were asked, in the end it was still uncertain.
It seems that this is not easy to see whether to love or not to love, in fact, it is not that I do not know the truth of the matter, but I am not willing to admit it.
Whether a person loves or does not love, in the end, it is never so difficult to tell, but it is only obvious.
Instead of always asking around, it's better to just ask how you feel.
Feeling the intense love, it is true love without a doubt.
I like the saying that if you're roasting a fire, how can you not feel it.
Yes, everything in the world, everything that exists, will definitely leave evidence, and there will be some traces.
Especially love, if a person really loves you, he will really be like a flame to you, it will be very hot.
It may not be that he always tells you how much he loves you, how long he will love you, over and over again with your various promises, and says many love words, but in the process of getting along, he will be very different to you.
When looking at you, you will find that his eyes are full of light, and in the bits and pieces of getting along, you will feel it all the time, he always cares about your feelings, and always knows how to think about you.
He will give you his favor, his heartache, his care, careful care of you, always caring about your emotions.
When a person cares about you like this, treats you better than anyone, how can you not know, you will only be especially sure in many moments, he is special to you, and his heart has you.
When you are loved, the throbbing in your heart, the warmth you often feel, that will not deceive people, all of which have been constantly telling you how much the other party loves you.
Feeling uncertain is actually not loving much.
Compared with always being able to feel loved, many people's feelings are just that sometimes they feel that the other party seems to love themselves and are very enthusiastic about themselves, and sometimes they feel that the other party does not seem to care about themselves and are very cold to themselves.
With a person, if his attitude is always very ambiguous, giving you the feeling that sometimes it seems to be loved, sometimes not, then that person probably does not care much about you.
For him, you may be just an alternative, but only a second-
Because I don't love you so much, I don't recognize you, and I think you seem to be good, so I will occasionally give you a little sweetness, so that I don't lose you, and occasionally ignore you, as if I forgot your existence.
In his heart, he never wanted to be with you so much, but if he really gave up on you, he would feel a little pity.
However, when he was like this to you at the beginning, he was not so careful, and he was afraid that he would not be afraid after that.
The best result is that in the end, he really has no better choice, and then choose to go to you.
As for whether he will cherish this feeling after really being together, this lies in his character, whether he knows how to cherish the person in front of him, or whether he will still look at other people of the opposite sex, always looking forward to having another possibility.
I didn't feel it at all, of course I just didn't.
When you love someone, you want them to like you, which is normal.
Even in order to convince yourself that the other party really means something to you, you may also look for all kinds of clues.
Even if the other party sometimes replies to you in a timely manner, smiles at you, and helps you a little, it is easy for you to feel that it is evidence that the other party loves you, and the other party must love you.
You will think that you are acting in the true feelings, and more often than not, it is just yourself who is deceiving yourself.
Don't be stupid, the person who really loves you doesn't need you to always find various evidences for him, and you don't always have to take some very normal small things as evidence that the other party loves you, and his behavior will already be a good interpretation.
When you don't feel love and need to convince yourself of all kinds, in fact, it has already shown that the other party does not love you, but you just can't see the truth of the matter and have been making yourself sentimental.
Because you really like it, so for you, you are willing to lie to yourself, and you are not willing to believe that the other party does not love you.
People are always like this, once in love, it is easy to start self-hypnosis, to find all kinds of excuses for themselves, to make themselves feel that each other will have a possibility, feel that they are not unrequited love, and then continue this love.
In life, many things are always seeking outward, it is better to look inward.
Love or not love, the same is true, their own feelings, in fact, has already explained everything.
In a relationship, you feel loved, and you like each other, you just have to continue to love each other.
Always do not feel the sincerity, you better not take it too seriously, do what you should do, live how you want to live, don't always affect yourself because of the other party, that is not necessary.
As for where you're going from here, let time tell you.
Obviously, if you have never felt a person's liking, and it is still the case after hard work, no matter how much you like it, you must also know how to let go.
In love, when you are loved, you can do your best for love, and when you are not loved, you must also know how to take back your heart in time, don't let yourself be trapped all the time, the more you love, the more painful, and then leave your true feelings to a person who is truly worthy.
Text/Tan Meng
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