Author | Small come
Source | Good morning and evening (ID: zhulilaiye)
Anchor | Fan Deng Reading · Children
Life takes years, what is the purpose of living?
Writer Lin Qingxuan once gave an excellent answer:
Life is nothing more than that, the pursuit of becoming a better, more spiritual and spiritual self.
In the final analysis, there are too many actors on stage and curtain in this scene of life, and only they are constant protagonists.
Those who can strengthen their hearts and do their own thing no matter how the world and people change are the real masters.
To become a better version of yourself, you only need to do these things well.
In the philosophical work "Mozi", a thought-provoking dialogue was recorded:
Someone asked, "Is there any benefit to talking endlessly?" ”
Mozi made a subtle metaphor:
"Frogs and flies, barking every day, drying their mouths, but no one notices it."
"The roosters in the yard only bark a few times at dawn, and people get up immediately when they hear it." No one will fail to pay attention to it. ”
As the old saying goes: "The depth of the water is silent, and the man is steady." ”
We have all been around us with such people.
When they encounter a small matter, they will be chattering endlessly, and they wish that everyone around them knew what was happening.
On the contrary, those who have gone through the wind and waves rarely speak, but as soon as the words are spoken, they can get to the point.
Being a person is like this, it is better to use your mouth more than your brain, not so much, but to say the right thing.
Everyone does not have to complain, life is too much to be sad and happy;
Gossip is not right or wrong, and the dispute between words and tongues is the most annoying;
Communication is not revealing, and words can be convincing.
Truly intelligent people understand that they must first manage their mouths well in order to be good people.
I once saw a picture like this on the Internet:
In our lifetime, we always ask for too much, for more savings, for better cars and houses...
On the surface, everyone seems to be the same, with the same height, the same weight, and no day and night busy.
But after having an illness once, it is completely different.
In the face of illness, no one will receive preferential treatment.
It doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman, whether you're old or young, let alone have a car or a house at home.
Is it worth exchanging life for money?
Know that if you don't have time to rest, you must have time to get sick.
Life does not have to be painstakingly pursued too many external objects, take care of the body, take care of the mood, is the biggest rich man.
There is a passage that touched me a lot:
"Occasionally put your hands on your chest and feel the sound of your heartbeat, and today there are 7 tons of blood that have traveled 100,000 kilometers."
The organs in the body are still working so hard, so what reason do we have to hurt ourselves?
It's okay to live hard, but it can't come at the cost of consuming yourself.
After all, desperate, fighting to the end will not necessarily win anything, but will definitely lose health.
The best state of life is to be disease-free, painless, and trouble-free.
Bacon once said:
"No matter how much you express your anger, don't do anything irreparable."
It makes sense that emotions are like demons in people's hearts, either you control it or it controls you.
All the bad emotions, in the end, it is you who pays the bill.
But as long as you calm down a little, when the emotions have passed, things will not be called a problem.
That year, Huang Bo participated in the movie for the first time and played the role of a thief.
As we all know, Huang Bo's appearance is not outstanding, and he is not valued at all in the entertainment industry.
Before filming began, the assistant director just glanced at him contemptuously, turned his head and said to the people around him:
"This is something! Who got it? ”
Being looked down upon so much, Huang Bo certainly had a stomach full of anger in his heart.
But he resisted.
Huang Bo not only seriously cooperated with the director to shoot the scene well, but also took the initiative to propose that he could perform two or three different forms.
When it was over, the director laughed. It was clear that he was completely conquered.
Imagine if Huang Bo had lost control at that time, what would have been the result?
He may break out and scold, or even fight with the other party, and the result is to lose his job and get angry.
You know, emotions can't solve the problem, they will only intensify the contradiction.
The highest point of being a person is to do things rationally and be sober.
It is very comfortable to lie down, it is very comfortable to sleep at night, it is very enjoyable to eat and drink...
Why should that man be self-disciplined?
Because self-discipline is actually self-help.
When you start to self-discipline, you will be excited in the early stage, and you will feel pain slowly, but in the end, it must be enjoyed.
I love a movie called "A Hundred Dollars in Love."
The heroine is over 30 years old and lives an extremely decadent life.
Her daily routine is one repetition: either eating junk food at home or playing games from morning to night.
No job, no love, no dreams, just a lot of flesh...
Even she herself said in disgust: "I am only worth 100 yuan." ”
One day, she passed a boxing gym. The figure inside was fit and sweaty, which rekindled her fighting spirit.
She began to eat a healthy diet, changing from the way she used to be, jumping rope every day and running around the building.
Tired? Of course.
But thankfully, a pleasant change has gradually taken place in her.
The fat clothes of the past could no longer be worn, and she changed into more slim clothes.
Her figure has changed, and her appearance looks like she is not sure how many times more energetic than before.
In "The Road Few People Take", it is written:
"The so-called self-discipline is an important principle to solve the pain of life with a positive and proactive attitude."
Some people have a beginning and an end, always saying that they need to be self-disciplined, but doing things is only three minutes of heat.
Some people persevere, never forget the requirements for themselves, and persist in doing things to the end.
And this is the fundamental reason why self-regulators are more successful.
Recently, a man named Peng Chuanming became angry, and netizens joked that he was the only man worthy of Li Ziqi.
And he responded in a low-key tone: "I'm just a farmer." ”
Peng Chuanming said sincerely, he is a person who lives in a small mountain village in Fujian.
But his hobbies are not to be underestimated.
He likes to study pen and ink paper.
It took 3 years, from adding oil to make soot, drying toner, and then pounding ink glue tens of thousands of times, and personally making antique ink.
He also studied the ancient high-end cosmetics: floral rouge.
First put the peach bubble after hair. It is then filtered, and the rose petals are then made into flower juice, and the cochineal worms are ground into finely crushed powder. Add water to filter and reconcile over and over again.
In Peng Chuanming's video, there are no money-making ads and no pompous plots.
All we can see is a comfortable person dressed in coarse cloth and linen, boiling tea and brewing wine.
He is focused only on his passions and only devoted to his present life.
There's a saying that goes something like this:
"A person has at least one dream, has a reason to be strong, and if the heart has no place to live, it is wandering everywhere."
People, must not be empty inside, you can be a person who loves to appreciate flowers, you can also be a person who loves to read...
Only the abundance of the soul can fill the dullness of the years.
Agree with the same sentence:
The most listening to you in the world, the easiest to listen to your command, is not others, but yourself.
When people live, it is a process of constantly recognizing reality and seeing themselves clearly.
And only by enriching yourself is the beginning of achieving life.
Click "Watching" and may you meet your better self soon.
Source | Good morning and evening (ID: zhulilaiye), small to accompany you, go to bed early and get up early, and become a better version of yourself.
Typography | Zheng to the north
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