Text/Star Xiaochen
From an objective point of view, the twelve zodiac signs should be neutral words, there is no good or bad between them, and the reason why we feel that "people in some signs are better to get along with" and "people in certain signs are really unaccustomed" is because we look at it from the starting point of our own personality. In astrology, the two constellations of each other's house signs have almost opposite personality characteristics, and the chances of them not being accustomed to each other will be very large. But at the same time, the zodiac sign is also the pair of constellations with the most complementary energies, and they may also become the biggest helpers to each other.
For example, Aries and Libra are opposite signs to each other, and they have a direct impulse and a soft balance, like a spear and a shield, representing two distinct energies.
"Direct" Aries, "worried" Libra
Regarding the constellation of the house, there is also a concept in astrology: the guardian planet of a constellation will fall at his constellation of the house.
That is to say, Mars is the guardian planet of Aries, then Mars will fall in Libra. The characteristics of action, explosiveness and other characteristics represented by Mars will be displayed and developed in Aries, and will be suppressed in Libra at the sinking place. This directly leads to the difference in personality between Aries and Libra.
Aries, guarded by Mars, have a fiery personality, they are straightforward, super powerful, rarely hesitate when encountering things, they are like warriors, always charging forward. And these characteristics of Mars will be suppressed here in Libra. Libra is no longer so impulsive and direct, will think more about things, do not like to rush ahead, and always want to make all the preparations before starting to act.
When the simple and direct Aries encounters a slightly weaker Libra, it is likely to rub out a less coordinated spark. Aries is acute, the same thing, maybe Aries has already begun to do, and Libra is still thinking about this and worrying about that. Inevitably, Aries will feel that the scale is too sharp and unhappy, and then there will be a feeling of "difficult to get around".
However, this "more thinking" feature of Libra is exactly what Aries needs to learn the most. Aries sometimes rushes too hard, and it is very necessary to have someone who can slow them down. The personalities of Aries and Libras, on the contrary, complement each other.
"Peaceful" Libra, "belligerent" Aries
The guardian planet of Libra is Venus, which falls in the constellation of Aries.
In astrology, Venus represents love and harmony, and they bring Libra a rich emotional world, a harmonious and feminine character. Libra likes to balance everything, especially in terms of relationships and feelings, and they want to be able to level the bowl of water and make everyone feel loved.
And this balancing force will be suppressed here in Aries. Aries are not naturally good at dealing with this balance, they are warriors, they are already suppressing their personality without causing war, and it is almost impossible for them to be peacemakers and calm things.
Aries' state of constant fighting is almost contrary to Libra's belief in peace. Therefore, when the peaceful Libra meets the belligerent Aries, they should have a headache and feel that the Aries "lest the world not be chaotic" and "not allowed to live peacefully for a while".
However, the state of Aries' battle is also what Libra lacks the most. Many times, Libra will suppress themselves deeply because of the concern for peace, and they should be eager to vent desperately.
Aries vs Libra, god of war and god of love
The guardian star of Aries is Mars, which represents the god of war, and the guardian star of Libra is Venus, which represents the god of love, and who is better in the contest between them?
From an astrological point of view, Aries and Libra are not victorious, they have their own fields and what they represent. Aries represents a kind of action and explosive power, they dare to rush and dare to break through, act faster than the brain, they grow in practice, and experience the flow of life in battle. And Libra represents harmony and feelings, they like all beautiful and balanced things, always so elegant and beautiful, they advocate peace, will balance all the relationships and things around them.
From a subjective point of view, who is better than Aries or Libra, the winner should be in the hearts of the people. The energy of the Aries is concentrated inward, and their motivation to do things is to get their own affirmation. The energy of The scales is outwardly distributed, and their energy comes from the approval of others. Therefore, Aries, like the god of war, is often a person rushing to the front to fight, finding their own value in the struggle; and Libra is the representative of the god of love, they prefer to stick in the crowd to do things, spread love, and gain recognition. Some people prefer Aries who are direct to themselves, while others prefer an elegant and gentle Libra, and this result varies from person to person.