A person with strong empathy is often good at making others open their hearts and trust themselves, because they understand the joys and sorrows of others and the purpose behind others, but this does not necessarily mean that they can open their hearts and trust others.
There is a clear difference between the two, so that such people sometimes seem very kind, and sometimes they seem to have a sense of distance, and they cannot go particularly close and be particularly close to people, so what are the signs of this?
01 Libra: Seemingly affinity, but in fact more passive
First of all, Libra with "high emotional intelligence" attributes, Libra in the eyes of many people, is often a more easy-going, kind person, even if they are strong, it is difficult to give people a sense of superiority, or very majestic.
On the contrary, they can grab your heart with a few words, and use their kind smiles to impress you, thus giving you the illusion that Libra is a very friendly person who likes to contact the crowd.
But in fact, Libra is not a person who really likes to open up, to accept and tolerate, although they can accept a lot of impossibilities, but also with many people with different personalities, all get along happily, but may have a kind of technicality in it.
Generally speaking, Libra is really afraid of offending people, they don't like to let the relationship have a discordant sound, so they are always trying to accommodate others, but it may be difficult for their hearts to really open up, to put a lot of people in their hearts, and it can even be said that their hearts are slightly cold, with a certain degree of alienation.
And once the relationship disintegrates, that past intimacy will naturally slowly fade, and even disappear, they may not want to maintain, because there are new people breaking into their lives, there are new "friendships" to face, then the untimely relationship, it will be good, if you take the initiative, they do not refuse, this is also the passive place of Libra.
02 Cancer: Has the ability to empathize, but may not open the heart
Let's talk about the water sign of Cancer, Cancer people, most of them are not a strong appearance type, on the contrary, they can win the love of most people with water-like feelings, or gentle posture.
Cancer is undoubtedly very empathetic, because their hearts are full of emotions, but also can be keenly aware of many people's emotions and pains, so they only need to carefully say some "heart socket" words, you can instantly capture the good feelings of many people.
It's just that this is just a Cancer "little test", they do it because they don't have to work too hard to see it, it does not mean that they really put into emotional trust.
On the contrary, many times, Cancer is insecure about the environment, they are accustomed to "shrinking" themselves in the environment, rather than showing generously, they like to hide in the dark to observe, but their hearts do not dare to open easily, and even slightly indifferent.
It's just cancer's indifference, but it is a feeling that is not faint and not strong, not close to the distance, not close to human feelings, therefore, without careful discernment, often can not see, it can be said that to enter their hearts, without paying sincere and selfless feelings, it is difficult.
03 Taurus: Reliable temperament, but good at keeping secrets
Finally, speaking of Taurus, Taurus's emotional intelligence is actually not high, but their stubbornness and persistence are also famous, so it is not easy for people to equate them with "high emotional intelligence".
In fact, Taurus is a person who is very good at following the words of others, and can also balance the emotions of many people, and can use a sincere and frank attitude to win the likes of many people.
Taurus is undoubtedly an object of reassurance, their innate sense of reliability will make many people easily trust them, and their honest temperament makes people feel that there is no distance between them.
However, Taurus's defensive psychology can not be said to be heavy, and when it comes to some personal privacy, or major issues, they even hide it from time to time.
Taurus is a person who is good at keeping secrets, as long as they want to, they will not reveal the slightest hint, therefore, Taurus can also be very good at their defensiveness, concealed very well, let people not see it, it can be said that they are sometimes unfathomable.