Not every love will have a happy ending.
Love makes different people have different moods, some people are happy, some people are sweet, some people are sad, some people are accommodating...
All kinds of colors, each with its own taste, and which one are you?
There is an emotion called love and not being able to do it! You fall in love with someone, but she may not love you, you fall in love with someone but she marries someone else...
So much love can not be, and a few people can open-mindedly say to put down, more are hidden in the heart, let time slowly dilute all this, and constantly endure the pain of touching the scene.
When two people are destined to be together without results, then they must learn to let go, let go of freedom, and bless each other.
01, don't stick to meaninglessness
If a love has no meaning, there is no need to cling to it.
Each of us believes that we have made the right choice. We are nostalgic, habitual, unwilling.
But when a person is desperate for you, she wants to leave you and doesn't leave you any room. Then if this love persists, it will only be you who will be hurt.
Many people will say that in love, I have been paying, I have always taken care of her feelings, even if I have wronged myself, I must let myself love her, but why is she still unwilling to go on together?
In fact, no one is right or wrong in love, only suitable and unsuitable. Everyone's pursuit is different, when a person changes his heart, even if you force her to stay by your side, she is no longer the original her.
When you find a love, only you are the only one insisting, then your love has become meaningless, there is no need to make yourself pitiful.
02, can't give the future, just choose to complete each other
Seeing your ex again, will your emotions not make a ripple?
Many times, love is not what we think it is. There is reality in love, and there is responsibility. When we find that we can't give each other a future, don't pester, don't hurt, sometimes, let love be free, and it is also a kind of love to complete the other party.
In a relationship, there is a kind of breakup that is "you can't give me a future", maybe her expectations are too high, or maybe you are not working hard enough. Love is a matter of two people, when one party is dissatisfied with you and she has a better pursuit, it is better to leave early.
The inability to identify the other person, the love hindered by reality, this is not true love.
03, choose each one well
What is chosen, what results must be accepted. When two people are separated, the best outcome is to choose to be okay with each other.
Don't be unwilling about the past, don't take revenge, don't dwell on it.
Don't dwell on something that has no results. Your choice, you have to face, even if you complain, it is already in the past.
Loving someone, sometimes fulfillment is also a way. There may be all sorts of contradictions in love that separate two people.
Holding grudges against each other does not mean that they have been true love, that is just selfish behavior.
summary:
It is better to see each other than to miss, since you have chosen to leave, why drag the mud and water again.
Remembering that I once fought hard for love, I was also deeply hurt, which is also a kind of memory.
A failed love, the most feared is to revisit the same place, causing a touch of emotion, but the person who loves and cannot be loved is destined not to be your partner, as long as you have worked hard, what is there to regret.
After separation, don't feel unwilling for your own efforts, sometimes blessing and fulfillment are also a kind of love.