"Lang rode a bamboo horse and went around the bed to get green plums." Cohabitation in the long dry, two small guesses. This poem is from the five-character ancient poem "Long Gan Xing" by the great Tang Dynasty poet Li Bai, which describes a woman who is separated from her husband and thinks of her husband in two places, and treks hundreds of miles from the head of the house just to see her husband.
The beginning of the poem recalls the scene where they have known each other since childhood and played together. Later, in this poem, there are also two words such as green plum bamboo horse, two small guesses.
In ancient China, the two small guesses are often used to show that the innocent, pure feelings are long-term and deep, and this relationship can be friendship or love.
With the development of the times, the meaning of these two words began to change, only referring to the aspect of love. It can be said that this kind of love that has been acquainted since childhood and has been accompanied has always been envied from ancient times to the present.
Qian Xuesen first met Jiang Ying
Qian Xuesen and his wife Jiang Ying are one of the most typical examples, Qian Xuesen must be no stranger to everyone, and his introduction is included in the textbook of compulsory education.
He was born in Shanghai in 1911 and his ancestral home is Lin'an, Hangzhou, Zhejiang Province. He is known as the "father of China's aerospace", "the father of China's missiles", "the father of China's automation control" and the "king of rockets". The emergence of Qian Xuesen has pushed forward the launch of China's missiles and atomic bombs for at least 20 years.
In addition to this world-famous achievement, Qian Xuesen has also achieved a good story in love.
Qian Xuesen's wife is called Jiang Ying, born in a famous family, Jiang Ying's father is the famous military theorist Jiang Baili during the Republic of China period, and he is well known, and even Xu Zhimo and Jin Yong have to respectfully call him uncle when they see him.
Born in such a family, Jiang Yingneng sang and danced well, poetry and music did not fall, and when he grew up, he conquered many people with a high note and became one of the most famous soprano singers in the local area.
Qian Xuesen and Jiang Ying's acquaintance also began with their father's generation, when Qian Xuesen was 11 years old, his family moved from Shanghai to Haining City, Zhejiang Province, and this place is the city where Jiang Baili is located.
How can you come to the city of your old friend without visiting and greeting you? In this way, on the morning of the second day of moving to Haining, Qian's mother took Qian Xuesen to visit the Jiang family, when Jiang Ying was only three years old, inherited her mother's beauty, and was born white and tender, like a porcelain doll.
Qian's mother noticed this cute little girl as soon as she came in, qian's mother had always wanted a daughter, but unfortunately her body was too weak, and after giving birth to Qian Xuesen, her husband felt sorry for her, so he dismissed this idea.
Now seeing Jiang Ying, her heart suddenly had a thought - to recognize her as a daughter, when chatting with Mother Jiang, she put out her own ideas and ideas, Mother Jiang is also a happy person, immediately agreed to Mother Qian's request, since then Jiang Ying changed her name to Qian Xueying, moved into the Qian family, and became Qian Xuesen's nominal sister.
When Jiang Ying first came to Qian's house, she always saw Mother Jiang crying her nose, and Qian Xuesen comforted her on the side, sometimes a coaxing was a day, and she was never annoyed.
It was also this experience when he was a child that made Jiang Ying particularly sticky to him, and the relationship between the two people has always been very close. Time passed quickly, and in the blink of an eye, Jiang Ying had become a big girl, and when she was 16 years old, Jiang Mother missed her and summoned her back.
Separate the two places and miss each other
And this year is the year when Qian Xuesen is ready to study abroad, before leaving, Qian Xuesen often visits Jiang's house, the name of the visit is actually to see Jiang Ying, in private Qian Xuesen will also ask Jiang Ying if he is willing to study with himself.
Unlike Qian Xuesen, Jiang Ying did not want to be so far away from home, so he politely refused his request, and Qian Xuesen could also understand Jiang Ying's thoughts, and repeatedly told Jiang Ying to wait for his return before leaving.
For Qian Xuesen's departure, Jiang Ying was also very uncomfortable in her heart, in order to express her longing for her feelings, she bought a copy of "Tang Poems" to give to Qian Xuesen, hoping that he would open it when he missed his hometown, and it would not be so sad to see things and think of people.
As a souvenir, this "Tang Poem" has always been well cherished by Qian Xuesen, and when he was sad, it was this book that accompanied him instead of Jiang Ying.
The time turned to 1936, at this time Jiang Ying had completed his studies, about to go to the Berlin Conservatory of Music in Germany for further study, before leaving, she also sent a telegram to Qian Xuesen to express her feelings for him, Qian Xuesen also returned a telegram after receiving it to encourage Jiang Ying to study hard and take care of herself.
Although the two people are not in the same country, they are thinking of each other, and after ten years in Germany, Jiang Ying returned to his homeland to hold a vigorous personal concert, which was very popular.
Show the heart of the heart There are lovers who eventually become dependents
A year apart, Qian Xuesen also returned from abroad, at this time he was 36 years old and still did not marry a wife, which made Qian's mother have a headache, and often changed the law to accept blind dates for him.
Unfortunately, Qian Xuesen couldn't look at any of them, because there was already a person living in his heart, and this person was Jiang Ying. Unlike Qian Xuesen, Jiang Ying's temperament is lively, seeing that Qian's mother failed to introduce the object, he volunteered to introduce Qian Xuesen, and Qian Xuesen did not directly refuse Jiang Ying's introduction, he wanted to see what kind of object Jiang Ying would introduce for himself.
And Jiang Ying did not know that Qian Xuesen already had a heart, she quickly fell in love with a girl, this girl is Jiang Ying's good friend, and Qian Xuesen has had several relationships, born very quiet.
Unfortunately, Qian Xuesen did not pay any attention to her, the introduction of the failed Jiang Ying is not dead hearted, and found a girl, this time when they met, Qian Xuesen was very restrained, he did not even dare to talk to this girl, the final result is obvious, the date failed.
The blow of the introduction failure made Jiang Ying a little confused, in the few seconds when she was stunned, she did not notice that Qian Xuesen's expression had changed several times, and finally he plucked up the courage to seriously say his heart to Jiang Ying, who was still stunned: "Otherwise you marry me!" ”
The sudden confession made Jiang Ying stay where she was at once, and she didn't know how to answer after returning to God, but fortunately, Qian Xuesen was not in a hurry to ask for an answer, and he sent Jiang Ying back to the Jiang family.
Since then, he has been visiting Jiang Ying in the name of visiting Jiang Ying, and in the face of Qian Xuesen's pursuit, Jiang Ying has never shown his attitude.
Two months after Qian Xuesen's confession, he had to go to the United States to study missiles again, different from the last time, this time he decided to go with Jiang Ying, at first Jiang Ying refused, but Qian Xuesen would never give in to this matter, this persistence completely touched Jiang Ying, she immediately packed her bags and went to the United States with Qian Xuesen, during this time in the United States, the two people got along day and night, and their feelings quickly warmed up, officially changing from "brother and sister" love to love.
After staying in the United States for several years, the two people returned to China together to meet their parents and discuss marriage, for their union, both parents were very satisfied, hurriedly held a wedding for them, after the wedding was completed, Jiang Ying accompanied Qian Xuesen back to the United States again.
brief summary:
A good relationship must be mutual achievement, in the United States for so many years, Qian Xuesen's food, clothing, housing and transportation has always been Jiang Ying's responsibility, for Qian Xuesen she has no details, careful care. Even in his old age, Elder Qian was also radiant, but Jiang Ying had a few more strands of white hair on his head.
For his wife's efforts, Qian Xuesen has always been in his heart, and in addition to research, he often accompanies his wife to watch music performances, which is more than ten years.
Whenever his wife took the stage, he always sat in the front row and sometimes carefully commented on her performances. Such a day is 62 years, 62 years of mutual affection, this kind of green plum bamboo horse feelings make people envious.