What should be called between clans?

Family Ethics Title:

Clans recognize each other, in the case of not knowing each other's lineage, please be sure not to "call brothers and brothers", "call sisters and sisters", this is a kind of abrupt and ignorant behavior, contrary to the family's family ethics, but also harmful to the family's dignity of the violation of the law. Reflects the degree of civilization of a family. In some areas, this kind of chaos is serious, and Taizu and Xuansun actually call them brothers and brothers, which is indeed sad and ignorant!

It is different from the general social name, the 56 nationalities are based on a "state" as the carrier, the members are the "people" of the state, so it can be broadly called "brotherly" nations; such as the "children" of the party, the "sons and daughters" of China... All the same. But a surname of the same clan, they have a lineage relationship, in the case of not knowing each other's lineage, they must not be casually called brothers! Because "the world is a family of anthony", whether you know each other or not, there must be a distinction between the elder and the young, so it is absolutely impossible to say that "the anthony of the world is a brother"!

Usually, please remember the broad term for people who do not know each other: the party calls "comrade", and the clan calls "clan relatives", "family door", and "ben family" in the clan, which shows the civilization and courtesy of a surname family. (When the lineage is known, it can be called the patriarch, the brother, the nephew...) Only jianghu or foreign surnames shout "brothers" regardless of age and youth!

It should be called like this:

1, the younger elders are called the older juniors. Those who have job titles are called job titles to show respect for talents and honorable people, and if there is no title and position, they are directly called by their names + clan relatives, and all the children who are older than me call me by my name to show cordiality.

2. Elders who call themselves juniors of similar age or younger than themselves without titles are directly called by their first names.

3. The younger generation is called the elder, and can be called the patriarch, the patriarch, the eldest. The older generation is called its generation + name + uncle, and the elder two generations are all generations + name + grandfather, and those who do not like to call people can call "clan relatives", and it is not too much.

4, the same generation of brothers and sisters, casual, with their own brothers and sisters called.

Seeing people as big brothers, big sisters, big sisters, is chaos within the clan, and there are two kinds of clans that undermine ethics and patriarchy:

First, I am unaware of myself, I have not received an orthodox and good education in intra-ethnic ethics, and I feel that calling brothers and brothers is conducive to harmonious relations. This one is the majority. Now that migration is large and frequent, it is understandable that the diaspora does not understand family ethics. Some not only don't know themselves, but their fathers and grandfathers don't know what to call, and even forget about their generations. It's sad enough to hope that the clan will learn about this family knowledge and rules again.

Second, deliberately set almost, to lose dignity as the premise of wooing each other to achieve their own not very good goals, this is not explained, I believe this is not a lot. Homosexuals should be corrected. Maybe the other person is your elder, and if the other person is your junior, it's bad. It does hurt ethics!

1. About every 25-30 years a new generation is born. A family whose genealogy records 600 years has been passed down for about 20-24 generations.

2. A family whose genealogy records more than 300-400 years may be 7 generations apart from those who are alive at the same time.

Since ancient times, "generations" for a person, once born to be determined, they have no choice. The generational division between the same clan is strictly observed, for example, the title must be accurate, daily life should take the initiative to greet the elders, give way, give way, and the sitting is also very exquisite, and the etiquette cannot be messed up. A person's words and deeds and even fate are influenced by clan etiquette and bound by traditional morality.

There is a difference of 7 generations, what is the name of each other?

According to historical books such as the Chinese Dictionary of Chinese, the Han "Erya Shiqin", and the "Spring and Autumn Ram Biography and the Fourth Year of Zhuang Gong", the title of the "upper and lower nine generations" within the Chinese clan was determined:

Namely: Father, Ancestor, Zeng, Gao, Heaven, Spirit, Tai, Yuan, Nose.

The book says: Because people are pregnant with taekwons, the nose is first shaped, so the originator is the ancestor.

The following are in order: the son of the father is the son, the son of the son is the grandson, the son of the grandson is the great-grandson, the son of the great-grandson is the xuansun, the son of the xuansun is the laisun, the son of the laisun is the kun (晜) grandson, the son of the sun is the still grandson, the son of the still grandson is the cloud grandson, and the son of the cloud grandson is the ear grandson.

Namely: son, grandson, zeng, xuan, lai, dawn, still, cloud, ear.

"Those who have ears and grandchildren are said to be far away from their ancestors, but only those who hear and hear them", "Those who have distant ancestors, several lifetimes, the ninth generation." "For proof also!