Chen Jinnan used his eyes to get Wei Xiaobao, and communication masters would use this trick

Wei Xiaobao, who killed Aobai, was captured by the Heaven and Earth Society, and in the face of the scrutiny of Chen Jinnan, the chief helmsman of the Heaven and Earth Society, Wei Xiaobao was trembling.

Chen Jinnan's eyes can be said to be like electricity. When Chen Jinnan asked Wei Xiaobao to look at him and say, Wei Xiaobao's eyes had an obvious hiding action, and the midline of his body was not in the same direction as Chen Jinnan.

Communication masters often use the trick of eye contact. The direction of the other party's line of sight is changing, indicating that the angle of the other party's psychology is also changing. In the face of Chen Jinnan's censorship, Wei Xiaobao told the truth.

In daily interactions, by observing the direction of the other party's line of sight, you can see through their hearts, and the way people's line of sight activities reflect people's psychological activities. Generally speaking, people who stare intently at each other's conversation are more honest, but they do not have to always keep a close eye on each other; two people staring at each other are always the weaker party to shift their gaze first to break the embarrassing situation; a person does not dare to face each other when talking, it is likely that there is a ghost in the heart, etc. Catch these inadvertent changes in sight, it is easier for us to understand each other's psychology. The specific judgment is as follows:

1. Divert your gaze

In the conversation, after the two people come into contact with each other's eyes, the people who immediately shift their eyes are usually more timid and unconfident people. For example, the first time the two met and talked, Xiao Wang took the initiative to shift his gaze after contacting the eyes of the fourth elder, indicating that Xiao Wang's heart was not confident enough, and there were still many doubts about the communication with the fourth elder. In addition, two people of unequal status also experience this phenomenon when talking. When talking to the leader, it is often the subordinate's eyes to avoid the leader's gaze, this is because in front of the leader, the subordinate appears to be unconfident and not strong enough.

People with love experience know that before they start falling in love, although both parties have a good feeling for each other, they still can't understand each other's psychology, at this time, smart people often judge their position in each other's hearts by observing each other's eyes. If it is found that the other party's eyes flicker and their eyes shift rapidly when they make contact with their own eyes, then the person concerned will feel like a reassuring pill in his heart, and feel that it is a matter of ten to nine to get the other party's heart.

A young and beautiful woman came up on the bus, and all eyes were on her, but young men tended to look away. Although they are also very interested in the beautiful women who come up, they have self-controlled behavior based on a strong repressive effect. Even if there is a feeling of being unable to stop, he does not dare to look at it blatantly and unscrupulously, so he shifts his gaze from time to time. This kind of action fully exposes the psychology of wanting to see the other party clearly, but not wanting the other party to know their thoughts.

2. Strabismus

If two people in conversation, a person with no eye disability, suddenly appears squinting, then he must have a deep meaning in his heart, which may indicate interest in the content of the conversation, or it may indicate uncertainty, or even hostility.

If people look to the side at the same time, eyebrows slightly raised or smiling, it is a very interested expression, women in love often have this action, in order to grasp the heart of the opposite sex; if the squinting gaze is accompanied by low eyebrows, tight frowns or pulled down corners of the mouth, it means suspicion, hostility or critical attitude. In ancient history, when a senior commander listened to the advice of his subordinates, he often had the action of strabismus, and the action of strabismus had two meanings: first, he expressed doubts about the suggestions of his subordinates, and secondly, he was examining whether his subordinates were lying, whether there were ulterior motives and motives. In enterprises, this expression also often appears on the faces of leaders facing subordinates.

3. A gentle glance

A light glance is used to signal hostility. This gaze, combined with a frown or a low-pitched corner of the mouth, indicates an attitude of doubt, hostility, criticism, or guilt. For example, when you stare at each other, the other party will often take a deep glance, which means: "hate"; the other party does not want you to see him, so he glances at you and turns around, which means: "Please don't look at me, I hate you"; the other party does something wrong, when you look at each other unhappily, the other party glances at you and quickly lowers his head, which means: "Sorry, I didn't mean it".

4. Look around

When people enter a new environment, the eyes usually look up and down, left and right, and people who don't understand it think that the other person is looking at the layout of the whole room. In fact, this is not the behavior of insecurity of the person or thing in front of you due to the uncertainty of the current environment, and the action of looking east and west is the performance of people searching for escape routes in the brain, which is the performance of the escape reaction.

You are talking to Xiao Wang, and if Xiao Wang is talking to you with a tight smile and showing great interest, it means that he is cheating. When ordinary people do not like the content of each other's conversation, they tend to look east and west, and the line of sight is not concentrated, and Xiao Wang listens to you too intently in order to show that he is listening to you carefully, and uses the increase of eye contact to make himself appear more sincere and credible.

Combining the above several situations, different line of sight directions reflect people's different psychology. In life, the language of sight is very complex, and it needs to be carefully observed and experienced in order to understand its deep meaning.