Text/Romance Talk Lee
Time flies, along the way, we have experienced the lushness and vicissitudes of spring flowers and autumn moons, but also experienced the cold and warm of human feelings, unconsciously walked into the second half of life, people to middle age, let themselves live comfortably is the most important.
Looking back on the road, there is a lot of emotion, a woman's life, no matter what age, do not love humble, do not be dragged down by garbage social, do not forget to improve themselves, make themselves more excellent.
Look down on all the non-resignation
There is no one you can rely on forever.
When you are young, you always think that loving someone is to give wholeheartedly, for a love, dig your heart and lungs, if the other party also returns with love, of course, this is the best. There is a kind of stupid woman, but for love desperately thrown, moths to put out fire, in the end is wounded, alone and lonely.
Zhang Ailing, a talented woman, wrote on the back of the photo given to Hu Lancheng: "When I saw him, she became very low and very low, low to the dust. But her heart was joyful, and flowers blossomed from the dust. ”
Such love is humble, flattering, and completely self-lost.
When your love isn't responding, don't forget to regroup, giving up is far more useful than entanglement.
When the other party shows impatience, when the other party no longer takes the initiative to contact you, please remember: do not make a call that should not be made, do not send a message that should not be sent, and do not ignore the person who should not be ignored.
No one is the only one, and you can live well without anyone. Love can slowly fade, the heart can slowly become cold, look down on all the resignation, cherish all the unexpected encounters.
Stay away from ineffective socializing
Low-quality socializing is not as good as high-quality solitude.
Sometimes, we are always busy communicating, busy socializing, busy coping, a lot of reluctant things, because we don't know how to refuse, and have to participate hard.
The more circles a person has, the less assertive they become. There are always people who think that if they don't join a few circles, it seems that they have been abandoned by everyone, watching others gather at two ends for three days, and leaving themselves out in the cold, there is always an illusion of bad popularity, so they cut their heads and squeeze into the circle that does not belong to themselves.
In the book "Please Stop Ineffective Socializing", it is written: "You are busy communicating, frequently coping, the embarrassment of chicken and duck talk is everywhere, you run for the laughter of others, and you sacrifice yourself for the affirmation of others, and your life seems to be not yours." In fact, you are not socializing at all, but needlessly wandering through time. ”
A lifetime is too short to bring everyone into life.
No matter what age you are, stay away from false prosperity, away from pushing cups and changing cups, give yourself a piece of solitude and tranquility, get three or five friends, and life needs nutrients, not burdens.
Improve yourself and live your life
When one day you have tasted the ruthlessness of society, the pressure of money, the unbearable love, and the sinister nature of human nature, you will finally understand that no matter how big the eaves of others are, they are not as good as you have an umbrella to shield the wind and rain.
When your heart becomes cold, and you begin to be alone again, your eyes become more and more determined, you are decisive in doing things, and you only think about how to improve yourself, you will know that you who are wearing golden armor are reborn.
Women, no matter what age they are, don't give up on themselves. Don't eat and wait for death, don't rely on others, don't make a lot of excuses for yourself.
Don't stay up late, staying up late is the killer of health, and sleeping is the cure.
Controlling emotions, not anxious, not comparing, open-minded and calm is a woman's elegant business card.
Women who insist on exercise, regular work and rest, and insist on exercise will shine.
Work hard to make money, Kari has money, the heart is not panicked, money is a woman's biggest confidence.
Remember the saying: If you bloom, the butterflies will come.
If you want to be the envy of others, all you have to do is to improve yourself, live out yourself, and strive to live your life the way you want it to be.
For the rest of your life, loving yourself well, being content and self-motivated, gentle and self-disciplined, this is the best way a woman looks.