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Women are in different ages and tend to have different charms.
Some people like young girls, feel that they are full of vitality and upward motivation with them, and seem to be young with them; but some people like middle-aged women very much and feel that they have a mature charm in them, which is superficial young girls, do not have.
Not only that, after the baptism of years, they have become more and more elegant and rational, no matter what kind of things they face, they can do it without being alarmed.
This calmness and calmness are also the source of charm, which makes people addicted.
In general, if a woman reaches middle age and still has the opposite sex actively approaching, it shows at least the following three problems, no matter which one, is a proof of charm.
One: Gentle temperament, with a seductive femininity
Gentle women in their bones have always made men have no resistance, and with them, no matter what kind of wind and frost they have experienced, they will become soothing and relaxed.
Their empathy will make people feel that the weathered heart has belonged, the so-called soul mate and confidant, but so.
On the other hand, those noisy and even spicy women in social life, in fact, in the hearts of most people, are the image of Lu Xun's middle-aged Yang Second Sister-in-law, that is, they have been polished by life and lost their original charm.
Everyone encounters a lot of suffering in life, especially men who want to struggle in society. A woman with a gentle temperament can give a man the greatest comfort.
After all, many times, what affects our mood is not what kind of words people we care about say. It's about the way and tone in which they say these words.
A woman with a somewhat irritable temperament, even if there is no great malice in her heart, the words she expresses are easy to annoy people and breed unnecessary quarrels under the blessing of her own tone.
Women with gentle temperaments are different, even if they sometimes want to express some accusatory points of view, speak in a tone that is eloquent, they will not make people feel so offensive, which is the charm of gentleness.
Two: Good hearted, extremely virtuous, not good at playing tricks, just want to live a simple life
Some middle-aged women, even if they have been hurt by others, even if they have been divorced, still do not give up their love for life and the expectation of feelings.
They are kind-hearted, extremely virtuous, and are the type of wife that men most want to marry home. No matter what kind of people you get along with, you don't play tricks, but like simple things.
In the TV series "Whirlwind Girl", the heroine Qi Baicao is such a very kind girl. Although her fate was bumpy and her life was not smooth, she always held a very kind heart.
When Ruobai wanted to give up Yuan WuDao and become a coach, Baicao blamed himself very much because of his kindness at heart, crying and advising Ruobai not to make such a choice.
It is at this time that Ruobai confessed to her, and the kind girl is always the most moving.
A woman of good nature, even if she does not let the opposite sex like, at least will not make the other party hate. The score of the basic goodwill, if there is a blessing of kindness, at least reaches the passing line.
Looking at the various fairy tales in ancient and modern China and abroad, the heroines in them are all kind and beautiful people, and the supporting characters are all evil witches and the like, which is enough to show the importance of kindness.
Three: Self-respect and self-love, will not easily talk about love, know how to be responsible for choices
Some middle-aged women, because they do not have self-confidence, always feel that it is not easy for someone to look at themselves, so they dare not pick and choose, and casually find a similar person to marry.
But some are just the opposite, they do not be vain, but loyal to their hearts, quietly waiting for love.
In love, they will not be too active, even if they meet someone they really like, they will not easily talk about love, but know how to observe carefully in order to make the most correct choice.
Sometimes, women really can't be too active, too active to do a certain thing, there will be a sense of rushing, let people despise your likes and sincerity.
After all, things that are too easy to come by no one will cherish, act too aggressively, and pander too eagerly will make people feel that you have no personality, and then lose interest in you.
Although pushing and pulling psychologically both torture themselves and others, moderate pushing and pulling is very useful, and under moderate pushing and pulling, the interest of love has been greatly increased.
Men sometimes need this feeling of wanting to say goodbye and point to the end, such a hazy love will make this relationship mysterious, adding a lot of imagination space to both parties.
Such feminine charm is actually not about appearance, it lies in the wisdom of dealing with people or entering an intimate relationship. Using more of your own brain and not blindly paying with all your heart is a good way to add your own charm.
Middle-aged women who are pursued often have their own charm, no matter what age they are in, they hope that you can love yourself well and do not easily deny yourself.
After all, you never know when someone will appreciate your unique soul.
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