The so-called love is just a need

"The so-called love is just a need" | text: smell and cry

"Finding someone is not finding love"

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Turn on the light to drive away the darkness, not thinking about why it lingers outside the window, unwilling to leave. It's like a bad emotion, waiting for the moment when I show my flaws, so that it can penetrate my heart and mess up all my thoughts. So I have to protect my heart.

To give the heart a light, you also have to put on a good thought. To keep the mind close to the Buddha and recite Amitabha, one must also recite a six-word mantra. I heard that holding this mantra has many benefits, and every time you recite the Guanyin Heart Mantra, you will be saved by Guanyin.

But I don't think that's quite right. Although I was a practitioner in the same lifetime, if I did not enter the Buddha's door, I would never be able to get the cultivation method. I'm just a lively layman, I can't talk inside the line, I can't earn money in the door. Mention the word "money", which is beneficial and I benefit from it too. Those who are nourished by money must benefit a lot. It may be that my fate with money is too shallow, and I wanted to benefit a lot, but my affection was too short.

If affection can be exchanged for money, I dare not say that I am the richest man in the world, at least the indigenous people with fat waists. He was able to wave his hand and bravely admit that he had never seen the world. What do you see in the world? Need to see the world. Let the world come and see me.

At the moment I am uneasy, probably suffering from a kind of lovesickness, lovesickness for money. Let acacia get sick, born on money. At this thought, I suddenly became transparent, and I also wanted to understand what is called a lovesickness. Because there is no money to cure, if you have money, you will not get this disease.

This is a heart disease, as the saying goes, there must be a heart medicine. However, the medicine has three points of poison, and the real medicine is too bitter, I am not afraid of too bitter, but I am afraid of the poison left behind. When you have a heart disease, I use my heart to cure it, and when I fall to the root of the disease, will you use your heart to decoct medicine for me. Don't use the saying that the healer's parents are hearted, but I am not your parent after all.

Even if your parents are bothering you, they know what pain is. Parents will turn this pain into love, pain without words, love without abandonment, because this pain and love have no choice.

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Perhaps the most selfless love in the world is that there is no choice. Because they cannot love other people's children as their own, as merely a form of self-deception, everyone knows that it is impossible to be true.

If parents have a choice in the love of their children, they will certainly choose to love another person when the pain is too much to bear. Just like the love between men and women in this world, when the love of the true heart is only exchanged for pain, we can also change a person to love.

The so-called love is just a need, but I hope to find someone to meet. Perhaps we imagine love too full, when our inner emotional needs are not met, it is inevitable to be disappointed, the first feeling is that the other party has disappointed us.

When you feel disappointed, you have learned to calculate and measure whether gains and losses are worth it. I care, will you care?

Most love in our hearts becomes these quantifiers, tug-of-war between you and me. You love me a little more, or I love you a little more, you love me, you don't love me. I'm sure you love me, and I can't feel if you really love me. What I was able to affirm, I denied again.

When love is uncertain within the ego, it hovers between affirmation and non-affirmation. This is clearly a. Don't pay with your heart willingly, the end is definitely losing, don't say I love you is my bet in this life, because nine out of ten lose.

There are a lot of willing people around. I often hear them say that they do not regret, if there is really no regret, who will put no regret on their lips to comfort themselves, if you really do not regret, you do not know what regret is, understand regret, will say, no.

Willing to exchange is regret, as the saying goes, willing to gamble and lose. Because love is a fool in your heart, you have to endure the fickleness of this world.

Finding a person is not finding love, and finding a person is not having all of love. Love is based on two people, and finding that person is just the possibility of finding love. The two of you have common hobbies, feel sorry for each other, and it is easy and enjoyable to be with her. If you fall in love, you can create love, manage love, and perfect love. But don't expect it, she's your love, because she's looking for love too.

We will all feel disappointed for ourselves, when the love needs are not met, the first feeling that the other party let you down, in fact, it is not, this is just a kind of shirking responsibility, irresponsible for love. If you are in charge, the first thing you should think about is whether I have disappointed the other party.

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Pseudonym: Smell crying. A person full of fantasies, the pursuit of simple happiness, thinking that doing things seriously can satisfy themselves, in order to get the recognition of others, love writing, writing is the spiritual life for me.

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