Men and women get along, there will be contradictions with each other, that is inevitable.
And whenever this time comes, women will be very concerned about men's practices, and will hope that the other party can be soft with themselves and admit a mistake.
As long as the man is willing to do so, then many problems, women will be willing to forgive, not to blame, because what women want, is a man's attitude, as long as the man is willing to admit mistakes, she will feel that the other party still cares about themselves, you can not care about many things.
It is true that when the problem arises, there are some men who are willing to follow women no matter who is right and who is wrong.
Because in his opinion, feelings are more important than everything, and it doesn't matter if he lowers his head slightly.
But there are always some men who are unwilling to admit anything. Even if it is his own problem, everything is very clear and clear, he is still unwilling to admit it, and he is unwilling to say anything.
When a man is unwilling to admit mistakes, you will not understand why he is like this, and the reasons behind this are not difficult to understand.
I think I'm right, so I don't want to admit it.
The more we have a certain experience, the more we will find that men and women think very differently, and different people always have different cognitions about many things.
There are times when you feel right about the same thing, but he thinks he's right.
Knowing a couple, men in addition to going to work every day, back home is basically lying on the sofa to play mobile phones, while women in addition to work, go home to cook, clean up the housework, responsible for various things outside the home.
Women have always hoped that men can share with themselves, after many times of fruitless communication, she directly broke out, she said all kinds of complaints, wanted to let men admit their mistakes with her, said that they would be busy with them when they returned home later, but men just said that they were unwilling to admit anything.
He always felt that he only had to make money, and everything else was a woman's business.
Two people with different ideas, who want to convince whom, it is not easy after all.
So, when a man feels that there is nothing wrong with his behavior, he may admit that he is wrong because he cares about you, but more likely, he does not care at all whether you will be angry or sad, but he will still do his own thing.
His idea is very simple, that is, he feels that he is not wrong, and why should he admit his mistake, and he does not want to get used to you.
Paranoid personality, unable to see their own problems.
There are also some men whose personality is more interesting.
I can't say why, but in the process of his growth, his concept is very different from ordinary people.
Sometimes, when there is a problem between you, even if it is indeed his fault, but in his opinion, it is not the same thing, he will only feel that he is not wrong, he will not be wrong, it is all your problem.
Not only does he always feel that he is right about the contradictions between you, basically, he never sees his own shortcomings, and at any time, he will only blame the problem on the outside world.
If his career is not smooth, he will feel that it is an injustice in heaven, and if he encounters any setbacks, he will feel that it is his bad luck.
It is impossible for such a paranoid, very shallow person to make him face up to his mistakes. Because from beginning to end, he never knew how to examine himself, and he was never willing to face up to problems.
When he feels that he is not wrong, that he is justified, and that you want him to confess his mistakes to you, of course it will only be difficult.
In his eyes, all your actions, that is no problem, all of it, is that you are looking for something.
Between you, what he wants is always that you can be sensible, don't cause him trouble, and don't disobey him.
Know it's wrong, but want to maintain dignity.
Although not all things will have a right or wrong, not all people, can see their own problems, most of the time, most men, but still can be clearly perceived.
However, he knows that he is wrong and confesses to you, but that is two different things.
For a man with high self-esteem who wants to master absolute dominance in your relationship, even if he knows that he is wrong, he will not be willing to admit his mistake to you and apologize to you.
Because he is afraid that once he confesses his mistake to you, from now on, his image in your heart will no longer be so tall, you will no longer obey him so much, and he will lose the dominance of this relationship.
In order to maintain his dignity and let himself always be a very authoritative being, he will never be willing to bow down to you easily.
Like this kind of man, there are always some male superiority and female inferiority in his bones, and he feels that he is a more remarkable existence.
More or less, he has some who look down on you, and some who hope that you can admire him very much and take care of his face.
In fact, he may just not be so confident, and he wants to use this way to protect his fragile heart and not be too embarrassed.
Men are reluctant to admit mistakes, and different men, the situation is not so the same.
Sometimes, you have to allow a man to have his own ideas, and you don't have to let him be unified with you.
As for saying that if he never sees his own problems, such a man, it is very difficult to change him, either you choose to accept it, or simply leave.
In addition, if the other party is to maintain their own face, if you like, you may as well not be too real.
Two people get along, it is not easy, you can have your own position, you also have to allow each other to have.
In fact, too many moments, you really don't have to let the other party admit mistakes, confused, there is nothing wrong.
In life, everything must be clear, and this day, I am afraid, will only be unable to pass.
Text/Tan Meng
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