She and he first met at a mutual friend's wedding.
At that time, he occasionally heard her friends mention her name, but he did not know her appearance, although his friend had hinted, but he did not pay attention to it at the time.
At that time, she had seen him, but she only looked at him from a distance, pretending to be a casual glance, but she carved his appearance in her heart.
At the wedding of their friends, out of courtesy, they exchanged contact information with each other, but unfortunately she did not grow on his aesthetic point, and thought that there would be no follow-up.
After the wedding, he continued his nine-to-five work and a bland life, occasionally licking the wounds of his last relationship.
She went to the southwest city 2,000 kilometers away to find the wandering she wanted, a romance, but when she dreamed back in the middle of the night, she always felt unwilling and did not want to miss it.
So, she gave him the first phone call in her life, in which she kept saying, kept saying, did not dare to stop for a moment, she was afraid that as soon as she stopped, he would hang up the phone and ruthlessly reject him, but in the end, he just said lightly: "I don't want to start a new relationship now, we don't know each other, and we are so far apart."
Unexpectedly, she did not give up, she would send him a message in the morning, ask him if he had breakfast, ask him if he had left work at night, it was raining, ask him if he had an umbrella, at first, he did not have any response, all the information was stone sinking into the sea.
But he is not an iron heart, he is a piece of ice, but also her affection is hot, he tried to respond to her pursuit, he said to her: "I don't know, we can go where we can go, but as a man, I can't always let a girl walk in front, we work hard with each other to see if we can break the barrier of this space." 」
I think she should have been very happy at that time, after all, it was not she who insisted on it alone, they were running in both directions.
For a long time, maybe half a year, maybe a year, in two places thousands of miles apart, they comforted each other through their mobile phones, sharing their happiness and sadness, and caring about each other's joys and sorrows.
I thought that they would be so happy, but maybe they were not the same people, they had different growth environments, they had different pursuits in life, he hoped that the world would be stable, and she liked to wander the world.
Their first big quarrel occurred at the end of the first year after falling in love, when they did not inform each other's parents of their relationship, perhaps from the beginning, they did not think that they would face this problem so quickly, so when he took a long vacation at home, he told her: "During this time at home on vacation, in order not to be discovered by their parents about their relationship, he hopes that they will not contact each other, his mother is a very careful person, she will definitely detect it from the clues."
In the following week, he managed not to contact her, but she panicked, she called, either no one answered, or directly refused, texted him, there would be no response, she was crazy to make up all kinds of bad premonitions, she was afraid that they would lose each other, she was crazy to know his news, even if it was to listen to him say a word.
I don't know what kind of psychology he was at that time, but I think that in this relationship, he has always been the party who pays less, and in the end, she still contacted him through their mutual friends, and their relationship was also exposed for the first time in front of their friends, who blessed them happily and hoped that he would not fail her.
He called her back, heard the crying on the other end of the phone, his heart slammed a little, he said, you want to scold it, it's my bad, I thought, I explained to you before the vacation, you won't think much, sorry, I didn't give you a sense of security, or you come back, we are so far apart, when I was drunk, you were not by my side, when I was lonely, you were not by my side, when I needed you, you were not around me, I was afraid, even when I even dreamed, I can't even remember what you looked like."
Unexpectedly, she refused, she said, can you give me another three years, I have my own things to accomplish, three years later, if we can still be together, I will come back, during this time, you can come to see me, I can also go to see you.
He was silent, he wasn't sure if the three-year wait would turn out, he just knew, how much bitterness there was in between across the distance of love that needed them to overcome, and he was a little retreating.
After the vacation, they returned to their previous calm, he would sing him on the phone her favorite song, which was one of the reasons why she liked him in the first place, she would tell him that what she had seen and heard on the road today, maybe it had been like this, but some problems, not that you don't think about it, it would not appear, it would appear in some casual moment, and instantly crush each other.
That drunken midnight, how he wished she could be by his side, but alas, she wasn't there.
After the phone was connected, he said to her: "I don't know how long we can hold on like this, how much this persistence has, how much meaning, we live in each other's fantasies, we are not real."
She cried, maybe she thought about it when she was frantically looking for him, maybe she thought about it when she said she wanted him to wait another three years, she thought about it, she thought they would be separated, but she didn't think, it came so fast, "a word into a slur."
They were still separated, they did not cry, they did not seek death and life, just as their feelings began, they came quietly, quietly walked.
In the year after the separation, he still thought of her occasionally, but he never gave her a phone call, just in the circle of friends to see how she was doing.
I contacted again, and I got a call from her, and she said, "I'm getting married, I've got a local person, will you bless us?" ”
Their wedding, he did not go, he just entrusted their mutual friend, sent blessings, perhaps, he is her destination!
Another year, less contact between them, one day, she said to him "I'm back, what time is the flight, can you come and pick me up?" ”
He wanted to refuse, but finally he couldn't help but agree, at the pick-up, he saw her who had not been seen for a long time, she gave him a hug, this was the first hug they had met, this may be the last hug in their lives
That night, they sat by the river, looking at the tao tao river, silent, the little girl selling flowers walked over and said to him: "Brother, buy a bouquet of roses for this beautiful sister" He said: "Well, give me a bouquet" She said: "No, little sister, we are not lovers", the little girl asked in surprise, "Then what is your relationship?" He smiled at her and said in unison, "We are brothers and sisters."
Finally, he and she said goodnight!
In the end, he and she cherished each other!
In the end, she became his she, and he became another hers!!