
"Don't fight for three days, go to the house and uncover the tiles." In addition to explaining that the naughtiness of the child is his nature, it is important to say that the child's growth needs education. Hitting children counts as a means of education, and the effect is immediate, so that children know what can be done and what cannot be done. However, hitting children is not the best educational tool.
In the past, children had the conditions to go to the house to reveal the tiles, and now most of the children do not know about the unveiling. But graffiti is something they enjoy tirelessly, and painting lines on the snow-white walls is their masterpiece. When you see this, you may be angry, you may be happy. But the walls of the home are painted with messy lines, which are always not very beautiful, and it takes a lot of time and effort to deal with.
What to do? Let the child draw on the waste paper, draw it painfully, and tell the child to draw only on paper, not on the wall. Why can't I paint on the wall? Because it affects the cleanliness of the house, it makes us look uncomfortable and makes the guests feel that the host does not love this home.
Prepare waste paper for children to draw, one is to save, the other is environmental protection. These small actions will penetrate into the child's bloodstream.
Let the child draw on the paper, prepare a crayon for the child, or a pencil with a softer texture, and a 4B pencil is better. The pen with a softer refill is safer for children to use, and it is not difficult to draw, and it is easy to see the effect.
First of all, let the child learn to hold the pen, draw at will on the paper, and draw whatever he can. On the first or second day, let the child make his own decisions on his own turf.
Next, you can take some auxiliary tools to help your child draw a variety of shapes, such as using the lid of a plastic bottle, putting the child on the paper, holding it with his left finger, holding the pen with his right hand, drawing along the edge of the bottle cap with a pen, and learning to draw a round shape. You can also use remote control, small cup, pen or something, take local materials, let the child draw according to the shape of the object, and gradually the child will fall in love with the pen in his hand and the drawing paper that makes him graffiti.
When you draw something, you can ask your child to cut off the pattern with scissors, and your child will like to do it. The purpose of this is to let the child learn to use the pen while playing, so as to exercise the child's small hands.
The dexterity of the small hand is formed through conscious training, and children who have undergone this training and children who have not undergone this training will be very different in learning in the future. The gap between children and children is formed in early childhood. In this sense, when accompanying children to grow up, they must use their strength, go with the flow, and prepare carefully in order to achieve their talents.
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