Good relationships require careful management

On how to maintain an intimate relationship, how to discuss will not become an outdated topic, after all, from the establishment of the relationship to the breakdown of the relationship, often both parties feel that they have tried their best but have not been recognized by the other party, and the relationship is difficult to measure with indicators. Once several friends have discussed "if the other party becomes a middle-aged youni will still maintain a relationship", "spiritual chugui and physical chugui which is more difficult to accept" and other issues, if the feelings that have not experienced the baptism of life are full of flowers that have not experienced "rain and wind blowing", in fact, I hope that after a thousand sails, we can still follow the heart to be ourselves. Of course, some people are blinded after witnessing the flowers, but no one is worthy of being in love with each other - at least to a certain extent.

"Intimacy" is by Jon. Gordon with his wife Catherine. Gordon co-authored a book about their real lives. Unlike other depictions of intimacy from the case study of the strengths and problems of different partners, "Intimate Relationship" began to write from the beginning of their acquaintance, and adopted a two-dimensional way to interpret, from the different views of men and women on common issues can make the reader have a sense of substitution. For example, Jon has a crush on Catherine when he first meets her, but their date is full of twists and turns. From Catherine's point of view, we can see that due to the age difference of four years, Catherine has been dating mature men at the time of the first encounter, coupled with Jon's career reasons, Catherine did not make him an ideal date at first. But this is not the end of the possibility, unless the other party is completely uninterested in you, otherwise "sincerity, gold stone open" or a certain degree of truth, provided that the other party can accept the range.

In the relationship, it is to be an investor, not a consumer. It is sometimes difficult to pay, after all, everyone's social roles are complex, sometimes people who are not close to each other have to spend more patience to maintain, but for intimate people are often easy to ignore - because they have existed in our lives for a long time and rarely appear to be far away, and regret often begins with neglect and ends with irreparability. Of course, people who only consume their partner's good impression of themselves are problematic, but expressing their opinions and even dissatisfaction in relationships, especially in problematic relationships, is also a benign means of revising relationships. It cannot be said that a relationship to the point of irreparability is only one of the reasons, of course, blindly blaming each other is not advisable, benign intimate relationship is that both parties are getting better, constantly modifying their own problems, so as to become a more ideal person, a more ideal partner.