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In fact, about the relationship between men and women, it is the most sensitive. Some feelings may be better than ordinary friends, but they have not reached the level of lovers, which is more of an ambiguous stage.
I have to say that the best time for two people to be together is probably when they are ambiguous with each other, and if they are close, they have a sense of freshness to each other.
So how to judge the relationship between the opposite sex when they get along? It's more about the details and states of two people getting along with each other, some of each other's behavior.
Sometimes the more obvious that ambiguous behavior is, the more unusual the relationship between each other, and it may be impure. Therefore, with these ambiguous behaviors, the relationship is not ordinary.
Two people together, if it is just an ordinary friendship relationship, will behave more politely, and they will know how to grasp the measure between each other, keep a distance, and will not act excessively.
If you are already very dependent on each other, or trust each other completely, the relationship is different.
People will only be completely defenseless and will choose to trust those who care about and value themselves. If you are a person, you will be completely trusted and dependent on you.
For example, in life, at work, and some other aspects of the needs, only believe in you, then the relationship between each other has been subtly transformed.
People who can rely on each other will naturally completely let down their guard, and will no longer avoid it, but more generously enjoy each other's state of being together, and are willing to listen to each other's hearts.
I have to say that when two people reach this state, the relationship is completely different.
I believe that everyone will generally behave more normally when looking at ordinary friends, polite responses, and standard smiles.
But if you look at the other person's eyes become different, it may be the kind of natural gaze and attention, seeing that there will be light in the eyes of the other party, which rises to another level.
It is said that the eyes are the windows of the soul, and many times through a person's eyes, you can see a real psychological state of the other party.
A person will look at your eyes differently, you can also clearly know each other's thoughts and emotions, and understand the spirit, which is more of a mutual heart.
Normal friendships, there will not be too much eye contact, will be very generous to act fearless, very casual, very natural to look at each other.
And ambiguous relationship, you feel that you are being concerned, when you are watched, the eyes will be dodged, afraid that the other party will see through you, and afraid that the other party will not understand you, will be abnormally anxious.
In fact, in the ambiguous stage, two people have always seen through and not broken, and many times it is to see what the other party will do.
Between the opposite sex, if they do not resent each other, most of them will not refuse some intimate behavior, but will desire something to happen.
For example, some heart-warming small actions, or deliberately testing the other party's heart.
If the other party feels your behavior, there is no resistance, no rejection, this is the default. Not resisting each other is trying to accept one's pattern.
Not refusing to be alone, not rejecting your verbal temptations, not rejecting some of your intimate behaviors, this means that the relationship between them is no longer an ordinary relationship.
For these ambiguous behaviors, in fact, they are all very obvious, as long as you use dim sum, you can know what the other party's intention is.
Therefore, not rejecting it means giving each other a chance, trying to get along, and seeing if the other person wants it.
The ambiguous stage is originally a process of seemingly understanding non-understanding, not clearly expressing, and not rejecting, and seeing the other party's intentions.
summary:
If the opposite sex gets along, if there are these behaviors, it means that the relationship between them is already abnormal.
There may be no uniform answer to these behaviors, but they have long since surpassed the average relationship between friends.
Therefore, when each other is in this ambiguous stage, it is still necessary to recognize each other's intentions, see if it is what they want, and do not take themselves seriously in the end, it is themselves who are hurt.