The high school learning stage is tight and the task is heavy, so many students need to bear great physical and mental pressure, and some children in order to achieve good results, picking the lights at night is also a frequent occurrence.
Many parents see the child's diligent back, but also very distressed, will give more care, and often the comfort and concern of parents can let students instantly break the defense, release their own pressure.
A video released by a father in Jiangxi has caused many netizens to sigh, in which the daughter of the first year of high school still picks a lamp at night at one o'clock in the morning, and the father hides his face and cries after caring, which is really painful.
At 1 a.m., the father found that the lights in his daughter's room were still on, and wanted to see what the situation was, it turned out that the daughter was picking up the lights at night, writing homework, seeing the daughter's hard back, the father was sad, so he took this video.
After the father's inquiry, I learned that the original daughter had too much homework, did not have time to finish, and had to get up in the morning to go to school in the morning, afraid of the teacher's blame, so she could only write homework overnight, this scene happened to be discovered by the father, and also made the father feel painful.
Facing the poor daughter, the father comforted, "You have worked very hard. In the face of tremendous pressure, a word of encouragement and concern from the father made the daughter directly break through the defense and cover her face and cry, as if all the pressure and grievances were poured out.
Seeing that the daughter is so tired, let the daughter go to bed early, but the girl insists on writing the math homework and then goes to bed, after crying, she regains her spirit to continue to write the homework, after seeing the daughter's performance, the father is relieved but also very distressed, which also makes many netizens resonate, and many parents say that their children have also had such a collapse moment, and the parents can not help much, deeply powerless.
In fact, the reason why this girl cries is mainly due to two aspects, on the one hand, she is too tired from studying, her body and mind are very tired, and her tight nerves are relaxed because of her father's words, which is also a release of pressure.
On the other hand, her father's words are not just a comfort, but also convey her father's concern for her, so that she feels strong support, and she can always show her most vulnerable side in front of her parents, so it is also beneficial to release all the nervous and aggrieved emotions.
The academic pressure of high school students is very large, and many times parents are like "ants on the hot pot" who are overwhelmed, in fact, what parents can give to students is support and understanding, and give appropriate care when students feel tired, so that students can release the pressure in their hearts and better face the high-pressure learning life.
First of all, the author can see from the video that the girl is a very hard-working and strong child, even if it has reached the physical and mental exhaustion, still adhere to their own principles, in fact, there is no need to be so embarrassed about themselves, I believe that your teacher will not punish the students for not completing the homework after knowing, you must pay attention to rest.
Secondly, although it is said that "cold window hard reading", students only need to grit their teeth, hard work for three years, the good days are behind, but this process is a marathon, can not be in the early stage of all their energy is exhausted, to rationally allocate their time and energy.
Finally, although the grade is very important, but the body is the "cost" of learning, so students should pay attention to the body, do not work too hard, to ensure that they have enough sleep to have the energy to face the next day's learning, so in such a situation can let parents and teachers explain the situation, the teacher will not blame, everything should be based on physical health.
First, after going to high school, the learning of knowledge is increasing, the difficulty is also increasing, parents for the child's performance is already powerless, can only provide students with a good learning environment and learning atmosphere, while ensuring adequate nutrition, so as not to keep up with nutrition to affect the child's body.
The second point, the greatest help that parents can give to students is to understand and support, to change the "only grade theory" point of view, to correctly look at students' performance fluctuations, to give students understanding and support, even if it is a simple daily care, it is also able to provide students with motivation to move forward.
The third point, high school students are still in the stage of physical and mental development, for the pressure and emotions of the elimination is still in the exploration stage, parents need to help students to adjust their mentality, constantly encourage students, let students full of learning motivation, take children out at the right time to relax, let children relax their nervous mood, adjust their emotions and mentality to face future challenges.
[The author has something to say] A high school girl in Jiangxi is still writing homework at 1 a.m., crying in the face of her father's concern and comfort, which is really painful. In fact, high school students study hard is correct, but also pay attention to ways and methods, do not give themselves too much pressure, learn to allocate their own time to study and rest, long-term tired state will not only overdraft the body, but also affect the learning effect, so I hope that all students can allocate their time, improve their learning efficiency, and complete homework faster and better.
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